Who here wants to get married and why?

[exhausted]

Great way to vet. And eject.

Can't blame the girl here, if she treated you badly and you stayed.

Not always.. she had a mood disorder.
Said in the past meds helped her.
Then she would take meds for a bit then stop without my knowledge.
Then i realized she will never improve. I bailed.

 

[set]

Lol, no it can't. I'm about to email this thread to some Family Law Attorneys so they can participate in this. Let's get it straight from the horse's mouth.

Plus I already told you, MOST CHICKS are not signing anything with a prenup in it dude, so your legal schemes are irrelevant at that point lol.

Ponzi's ready to sue Tenacity and So Suave. LMAO

 

[Serenity]

But my friend.....right now, I get to sit on the couch and chill lol. I work hard, then come home and just get to lay around. Even if I want to stop working out and get FAT, it's my choice. Sounds like marriage (at least for the man from your perspective) is MORE WORK, more stress, and makes life more difficult?

You do have to clean, make food, go shop and run other errands. You can't be chilling on the couch every day after work if you're alone, things don't do themselves. If all tasks are completed then sure, you get to chill on the couch. It's even less work with a woman, she'll do a part of what you now do all alone (if you chose a good one). So you have to do less before you can chill on your couch.

What I was referring to was men who get lazy in marriage, who take little to no part in the activities needed to have a good life and leaves it all to their wives. I didn't literally mean that a man can't ever chill on the couch. I should probably have been more specific saying it's not a free ticket to chill on the couch while the wife handles everything.

You can stop working out, get fat and remain alone. You can also stop working out, get fat and become divorced. Anyways, that was a stupid argument. You shouldn't be in shape because of women in the first place, it first and foremost benefits yourself. Health issues are much worse than financial issues as a result of divorce. With or without a wife you should strive to improve yourself, you're not doing that part for a woman (although it certainly helps in keeping them).

 

[Tenacity]

You do have to clean, make food, go shop and run other errands. You can't be chilling on the couch every day after work if you're alone, things don't do themselves.

Sir, I have so much down time you wouldn't believe. I actually have to force myself to do stuff, otherwise, I could just lay around and sleep all day. There's no need for me to shop every day, I pop stuff in the oven and set a timer (I don't "make" the food), and when there's just YOU in your household, stuff magically seems to stay much more organized and clean.

It's even less work with a woman, she'll do a part of what you now do all alone (if you chose a good one). So you have to do less before you can chill on your couch.

To be 100% honest with you, I'm cleaner than damn near every woman I know (including the women in my family). A woman living with me would mean there's more JUNK in here that shouldn't be here and more of a clutter everywhere. From my experience, a woman = MORE JUNK in the household. When it's just me, literally the only shyt in here (including the refrigerator) is stuff that's actually being used/about to be used. There's no JUNK.

Anyways, that was a stupid argument. You shouldn't be in shape because of women in the first place,

But you, @guru1000 and @BeExcellent are telling me to get married because of a woman....because this woman in particular will LEAVE ME if I don't marry her, remember? So I should run out, hire expensive lawyers, hire offshore bankers, hire asset protection consultants, and anybody else I can think of to setup this iron clad prenup along with iron clad corporation structures, to keep my "snowflake"/"soul-mate"/"the woman that God has sent to me" from fvcking me over lol. And after setting all this stuff up, there's a very LOW percentage she will even sign the prenup in the first place, which means I would end up losing her regardless

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Actually YOU give them too much credit because you still think marriage is "SMART".

LOL.



This thread should be closed? Don't make me laugh.

How about posting in one of the HUNDREDS of other threads available here on SoSuave?



This thread is about MARRIAGE. Its not about "knowing everything about women".

Get some new glasses lol.

Ahhh, and here we go with the jagged assumptions of what I believe and what I don’t in order to continue believing in your ‘logical’ fallacy. Let’s start off with one point being that I never claimed marriage to be smart. That’s your own cognitive dissonance telling you that. Quite frankly, I think marriage is dumb, at least when a legal party gets involved. It’s only smart if you have the golden dream girl who does not exist because such a woman will make life easier, and, if you live in the US, you get more money on your tax returns which is . Also good for meeting new people too if you are a social person.

Second, you imply that you DO know everything about women because in your previous post(s) you state how women are and how they aren’t, in a direct pitch against my claims. If you were not able to discern that from your post, which I HIGHLY doubt you weren’t, then that may be why you lack any sort of capability to find truly good women worth marrying. Even I have in my teen years found such women to exist, albeit exceedingly rare; of the 5 women who I have seen who were worth marrying, 1 has gotten corrupted and is no longer worthy, another is in the process of being corrupted if she hasn’t fallen already, 2 have shown signs of weariness and stress last I saw them because of constant battering of society so I fear they too may start corrupting soon, and the last one I have only seen once in my life and never again so I don’t know how she’s fairing.

But you see, I am able to rid myself of this stupid pigheadedness of saying how there aren’t any good women left. And you don’t need to be a psychologist to be able to tell. You were born in a time before mine so you DEFINITELY have crossed paths with decent women before, unless you grew up in projects or something like that lol

 

[sazc]

@Urbanyst Im curious, what happened last summer that reinforced your ideas of women. I read something like that a hundred or so pages back.

 

[guru1000]

So I should run out, hire expensive lawyers, hire offshore bankers, hire asset protection consultants, and anybody else I can think of to setup this iron clad prenup along with iron clad corporation structures, to keep my "snowflake"/"soul-mate"/"the woman that God has sent to me" from fvcking me over lol. And after setting all this stuff up, there's a very LOW percentage she will even sign the prenup in the first place, which means I would end up losing her regardless

Meh, some of these high-priced lawyers can't be trusted. I've wrestled with the toughest debt collectors in the world. I have real-world experience and know and can recite more case law than most debt-collection attorneys.

Pay me $20,000. I will take care of everything for you, prenup, LLCs, domestic and foreign trusts. I will appoint three offshore trustees at your disposal. I will even talk to Taquisha explaining why the prenup is in her best interest to protect her in case of a divorce.

 

[Tenacity]

Meh, some of these high-priced lawyers can't be trusted. I've wrestled with the toughest debt collectors in the world. I have real-world experience and know and can recite more case law than most debt-collection attorneys.

Pay me $20,000. I will take care of everything for you, prenup, LLCs, domestic and foreign trusts. I will appoint three offshore trustees at your disposal. I will even talk to Taquisha explaining why the prenup is in her best interest to protect her in case of a divorce.

Sir you think Tyquesha will want to hear anything you have to say??

Plus that $20,000 is going towards my new 6th Generation Camaro that I'm getting either next year or in 2019!! Fvck marriage!! lmaoo

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Meh, some of these high-priced lawyers can't be trusted. I've wrestled with the toughest debt collectors in the world. I have real-world experience and know and can recite more case law than most debt-collection attorneys.

Why is this so?

 

[guru1000]

Sir you think Tyquesha will want to hear anything you have to say??

Plus that $20,000 is going towards my new 6th Generation Camaro that I'm getting either next year or in 2019!! Fvck marriage!! lmaoo

Camaro? You're better off with a divorce!

 

[BeExcellent]

Well its been an entertaining day gentlemen. Time for baseball.

 

[Tenacity]

Camaro? You're better off with a divorce!

Haterrrrr

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Haterrrrr

Buy a white Cadillac Escalade with 100% black tinted windows and rims as big as the moon. Then raise your suspension up as much as you can, and be sure that the only clothes you wear are an oversized plain white shirt and and oversized pair of black jeans that you sag. White AF 1s too and a snapback. Tyquesha ain’t gonna have no beef with you after that and will hold your baby.

 

[set]

Meh, some of these high-priced lawyers can't be trusted. I've wrestled with the toughest debt collectors in the world. I have real-world experience and know and can recite more case law than most debt-collection attorneys.

Pay me $20,000. I will take care of everything for you, prenup, LLCs, domestic and foreign trusts. I will appoint three offshore trustees at your disposal. I will even talk to Taquisha explaining why the prenup is in her best interest to protect her in case of a divorce.

Yes Ponzi you were so good at talking you wound up doing several years in prison.

 

[Serenity]

But you, @guru1000 and @BeExcellent are telling me to get married because of a woman....because this woman in particular will LEAVE ME if I don't marry her, remember? So I should run out, hire expensive lawyers, hire offshore bankers, hire asset protection consultants, and anybody else I can think of to setup this iron clad prenup along with iron clad corporation structures, to keep my "snowflake"/"soul-mate"/"the woman that God has sent to me" from fvcking me over lol. And after setting all this stuff up, there's a very LOW percentage she will even sign the prenup in the first place, which means I would end up losing her regardless

Hey, you don't have to marry for all I care. I'm perfectly fine with people opting not to marry, for whatever reason. I'm sure some women won't mind not marrying, if that's what you want then go for that. I'm just saying it doesn't have to be so damn hard/risky/tiring as some of you guys make it out to be, if marriage is something you'd want.

Even I didn't really see the point of marrying a few years ago. I don't glorify it, I don't need it, but there are some advantages to it that I'd like to have. I found a woman that I'd very much like to be with for the rest of my life anyways, she wants the same. Might as well save thousands while we're at it. I can't lose more than half anyways and she's marginally richer than me, so I'd get everything I own and a tiny chunk of what she owns in case of divorce. Had it been different then I wouldn't even consider marriage.

Moral of the story, marry a woman who has nothing of material value to gain from it, save the expense of getting a lawyer. Or don't marry at all, I don't judge you negatively for opting out.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Hey, you don't have to marry for all I care. I'm perfectly fine with people opting not to marry, for whatever reason. I'm sure some women won't mind not marrying, if that's what you want then go for that. I'm just saying it doesn't have to be so damn hard/risky/tiring as some of you guys make it out to be, if marriage is something you'd want.

Even I didn't really see the point of marrying a few years ago. I don't glorify it, I don't need it, but there are some advantages to it that I'd like to have. I found a woman that I'd very much like to be with for the rest of my life anyways, she wants the same. Might as well save thousands while we're at it. I can't lose more than half anyways and she's marginally richer than me, so I'd get everything I own and a tiny chunk of what she owns in case of divorce. Had it been different then I wouldn't even consider marriage.

Moral of the story, marry a woman who has nothing of material value to gain from it, save the expense of getting a lawyer. Or don't marry at all, I don't judge you negatively for opting out.

The defining factor shouldn't be material wealth, but ego [spiritual poverty]. Egos [individualism... obsession with self] are what destroy marriages. Now if a woman with high net worth is likelier to have a strong ego, then it would be better to marry a woman of low net worth.

Or again, there is no wealth but life. If two self-protecting egos enter into a marriage, what kind of marriage would that be? It would certainly not be a very intimate one.

 

[Tenacity]

Hey, you don't have to marry for all I care. I'm perfectly fine with people opting not to marry, for whatever reason. I'm sure some women won't mind not marrying, if that's what you want then go for that. I'm just saying it doesn't have to be so damn hard/risky/tiring as some of you guys make it out to be, if marriage is something you'd want.

Even I didn't really see the point of marrying a few years ago. I don't glorify it, I don't need it, but there are some advantages to it that I'd like to have. I found a woman that I'd very much like to be with for the rest of my life anyways, she wants the same. Might as well save thousands while we're at it. I can't lose more than half anyways and she's marginally richer than me, so I'd get everything I own and a tiny chunk of what she owns in case of divorce. Had it been different then I wouldn't even consider marriage.

Moral of the story, marry a woman who has nothing of material value to gain from it, save the expense of getting a lawyer. Or don't marry at all, I don't judge you negatively for opting out.

So your situation is similar to @guru1000's side kick @BeTheChange , which is where you will marry as long as you have a financial gain associated with it? Which means it's actually the WOMAN in this case who needs to sign up for Guru's $20,000 "protect your assets" crash course?

I think that's a completely different structure than what myself and @Urbanyst are arguing. We are discussing the vast majority of structures where it will be the man that would be the highest earner, not the woman.

I can tell you this. As you know I'm black. I'm having a great year this year (not going to disclose the actual number, but I'm well into the multiple 6 figure range) and I have NEVER dated a black woman that was making near my level of income. I rarely......run into a black woman making $50,000 a year with good credit, I swear to you. And most of these chicks have bachelor's degrees and/or master's degrees.

 

[Urbanyst]

@Urbanyst Im curious, what happened last summer that reinforced your ideas of women. I read something like that a hundred or so pages back.

Nothing particularly special. Just another situation where you think you met a woman who is "different" and she turns out NOT to be.

This can only happen so many times in your life before you say f*ck it. Especially when you watch what happens in your friend's relationships, your family's relationships, celeb relationships and what people talk about on this forum. Eventually you just stop kidding yourself lol.

 

[Urbanyst]

Ahhh, and here we go with the jagged assumptions of what I believe and what I don’t in order to continue believing in your ‘logical’ fallacy. Let’s start off with one point being that I never claimed marriage to be smart. That’s your own cognitive dissonance telling you that. Quite frankly, I think marriage is dumb, at least when a legal party gets involved. It’s only smart if you have the golden dream girl who does not exist because such a woman will make life easier, and, if you live in the US, you get more money on your tax returns which is . Also good for meeting new people too if you are a social person.

Second, you imply that you DO know everything about women because in your previous post(s) you state how women are and how they aren’t, in a direct pitch against my claims. If you were not able to discern that from your post, which I HIGHLY doubt you weren’t, then that may be why you lack any sort of capability to find truly good women worth marrying. Even I have in my teen years found such women to exist, albeit exceedingly rare; of the 5 women who I have seen who were worth marrying, 1 has gotten corrupted and is no longer worthy, another is in the process of being corrupted if she hasn’t fallen already, 2 have shown signs of weariness and stress last I saw them because of constant battering of society so I fear they too may start corrupting soon, and the last one I have only seen once in my life and never again so I don’t know how she’s fairing.

But you see, I am able to rid myself of this stupid pigheadedness of saying how there aren’t any good women left. And you don’t need to be a psychologist to be able to tell. You were born in a time before mine so you DEFINITELY have crossed paths with decent women before, unless you grew up in projects or something like that lol

Ok.. so if you believe marriage is STUPID.. why are you defending it? Why would you encourage or defend something STUPID?

And I never said there are no "good women" or that all women are "bad". To be honest, summarizing something as complex as a human personality into "good" and "bad" is ignorant and STUPID in itself. There is no such thing as a "good" or "bad" person lol. We can only judge people by their ACTIONS because no one ever really knows the true motivations of another person or their true level of intelligence, knowledge or even mental illness.

Since people are complex and living in a fast changing world.. signing a CONTRACT designed around primitive times (when people were still wiping their asses bare handed) which bets on someone having CONSISTENT emotions, values, desires and priorities from now until they DIE is so colossally absurd it's laughable. You have to be a true imbecile to do it lol.

 

[Urbanyst]

I did over 20 pages, you just cannot read or perhaps comprehend.

If you are too lazy to take the time to read my posts, that's on you. Expend some effort, read, comprehend, and learn something.

20 pages of horse sh*t and emotional crap.

ZERO intelligent or SMART arguments lol.