Tell me where to find ANY social circle, especially the "rich person" circle. Where are VIP clubs? I don't think they exist in my city. Most you would have to do is pay a $15 cover for something that is not worth a $15 cover.
"You do not need to have bottle service to get into a club. However, if you want some dedicated real estate and are anxious about getting in, bottle service is definitely the way to go. Almost all clubs these days have VIP tables arranged throughout the club.
Each table booking has a minimum spend – that is, the amount you need to spend on alcohol (and for dayclubs, food). The minimums that you are quoted never include tax/tip – which you can estimate to be about 30% (~10% tax, 18-20% tip). Gratuity is usually automatically included in the final bill at 18-20%. As such, whenever you book a table you’ll want to multiply the minimum by 1.3 to figure out how much you’ll likely end up spending. A table with 1k min will run you 1.3k, a table with 5k min will run you 6.5k, etc.
Holidays Day of the week – minimums are almost always higher on Fridays/Saturdays
The DJ or live performer talent – big names = big minimums
Table location – the closer you are to the action, the more you’ll have to pay
Number of people in your party – you might want a 1k table but the 1k min might only come with 4 comps – to add more people you’ll have to increase your min"
quote from discotech.me
for social circle, build around activities you enjoy. especially if you become an expert and leader. if you go to a conference as a participant, yes, you can socialize. if you go to a conference as one of the speakers, then it is much easier to socialize there.
I have an acquaintance-- west coast engineering guy-- he wrote a book on futurism ideas. he didn't have any background in philosophy; just self-published his own book. being in an area of the usa that has high interest in futurism and having a lot of nerdy friends already..... he gained traction as a futurism expert. now he expanded his social circle beyond programmers into intellectual culture. he has thousands of followers, national book tours, people look to him as an expert.... it's very easy for him to socialize with new groups of people.
the funny part is that I started reading his book-- maybe 50 pages-- and it was poorly written in style and ludicrously flawed in substance. him being this-- expert-- was absurd. although putting himself out there as a leader absolutely raised his social profile. maybe he will become a better writer in the... future.
rich social circles...... possessions, places, events that these people have. you have to be spending a lot of money to socialize with them and generous charity donations (to their charities) are expected. for example, a place to meet rich people is a lambo car club. that's likely nouveau rich, but hey, you can meet old money rich in exclusive alcohol rehab centers. there are a lot of places to meet people.
Without it, every problem being solved (such as getting laid more) is going to be matched by a ten-fold increase in other problems (such as attracting many more selfish, greedy, shallow, untrustworthy bimbos that a man might despise trying to actually have a decent conversation with).
Because of this, when a man shows a clear resistance to tackling certain issues, such as social acuity, it becomes very apparent what major problems will come down the road when such a dynamic is neglected. Those growing problems can, and often will, trump over other successes that might be made.
yes, that's good advice. it definitely makes sense.
