What do you think of "Financially Challenged" women.

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No disrespect for women (trying to make the right term), but I have already encountered atleast 3 women who we call "poor in money" (just to make it clear what i'm trying to say) or belonged to the lower class people.

Would you still persue? go? assuming she has the qualities that you are seeking in a woman?

Go for a long term relationship?

Would love to hear your thoughts :)
 

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are these women students? starving artists? born into a low income family? or do they just spend everything they earn? need more context.
 

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are these women students? starving artists? born into a low income family? or do they just spend everything they earn? need more context.
I'm asking if you found the woman that you want and fits your standard but yeah belongs to the "low income family". (Let's just say you like her that much).

Or just use the way you understand people who were born poor.
 

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If shes legetimately from a poor family but meets all other requirements in her person i dont have a problem sharing assests in the right conditions.
Great! That is all I need to know :)

Are you willing to go through the hard way to build a family with her someday? Assuming you're going to work harder to keep your finances keep intact to sustain your lives?
 

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Its all up to you. What value is she. There are some cute woman out there from poor backrounds that are pretty amazing. Maybe not in the US as much but they exist.
Probably more grateful as well.

Look her in the eyes. You will know by how she looks at you wether or not shes of THAT kind of value. Good luck
Alright I understand you :)
 

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The type of woman you are referring to is called a "sugar baby".

Yes, these women can have value if they are under 25 and their minds are still easy to warp.
 

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The type of woman you are referring to is called a "sugar baby".

Yes, these women can have value if they are under 25 and their minds are still easy to warp.
Just being honest here, but are you willing to go through the financial problems that you will soon face with this women?

or Are you going to be practical and find another woman that levels your financial status or could be closer than yours?
 

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Just being honest here, but are you willing to go through the financial problems that you will soon face with this women?

or Are you going to be practical and find another woman that levels your financial status or could be closer than yours?
Its not possible to have financial problems because of someone else's finances unless I'm stupid.

Her financial problems are her financial problems. What I choose to help her with is up to me.
 

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I really wouldn't care if she works at Dunkin Donuts or Morgan Stanley. Long is she's not a gold digger and manages her money.
 

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If shes legetimately from a poor family but meets all other requirements in her person i dont have a problem sharing assests in the right conditions.
As long as she adds to you sufficiently it's okay. They don't always add money. Sometimes the chemistry makes you better or she saves you time.
 

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Most men do not look at the financial value of a woman. A woman is judged primarily by her looks. If a man meets a very hot woman, 9 times out of 10, he won't really care if she is poor.
 

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If she’s poor because she’s in the process of messing up her life due to her own bad life choices, then stay away. Women like that are usually rolling disasters with constant financial emergencies popping up…
Other than that, low income or poor is ok if she meets your other requirements.
 
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If she’s poor because she’s in the process of messing up her life due to her own bad life choices, then stay away. Women like that are usually rolling disasters with constant financial emergencies…
Other than that, low income or poor is ok if she meets your other requirements.
Heck yea. I dated this girl who use to be out constantly at bars, clubs and taking off on vacation.. But couldn't even pay her bills or put food in the fridge. Then she started wanting help with bills n chit o_O:rolleyes: She kept on pressuring me to move in too.. All I can say is.. Thank god I dodged a major bullet :D
 

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I wouldn't mind helping.. But...

A. I wasn't sharing a place with her
B. She was totally irresponsible

She lived like a Sat night playa lol
 

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Most men do not look at the financial value of a woman. A woman is judged primarily by her looks. If a man meets a very hot woman, 9 times out of 10, he won't really care if she is poor.
That's a stupid way to evaluate her because she could be another groups "h0e" and is there just to take from you. She needs real value.
 

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Most men do not look at the financial value of a woman. A woman is judged primarily by her looks. If a man meets a very hot woman, 9 times out of 10, he won't really care if she is poor.
It's all about the girl for some. For me personally.. If I ain't into her.. Doesn't matter if she was rich. I still wouldn't fuk with her period
 

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That's a stupid way to evaluate her because she could be another groups "h0e" and is there just to take from you. She needs real value.
I never said it was a smart way to evaluate a woman. I'm just saying most men think with their little heads not the big one.

It's sort of an evolutionary thing. Way back, women got with men based on his ability to provide and protect. Men got with women based simply on her youth and ability to procreate.
 
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