Why is it that the female posters here are so quick to GIVE advice.. but so reluctant to TAKE advice?
I like that we have female posters here because it brings a different perspective. However, none of you seem interested in learning jack sh*t.
this forum is for being a DJ.... getting poon. I don't aspire to be a free prostitute and have sex with a lot of guys, so the dating advice isn't my goal. not that I'm against people living a playboy lifestyle.
for LTR, I have high standards which require me to have the prerequisite mystique, looks, skills (like language skills), adventure lifestyle blah blah.... not really into that now because my father was almost dying last year. this year he stabilized, but didn't fully recover. family drama regarding his ongoing care has been an emotional drain.
the last guy I dated was really hot. I liked him a lot. business guy with great energy. his father was a diplomat (not usa) so he was well travelled. either he was a workaholic, trying to make me a plate, or not that interested.... because he was getting flakey. he cancelled a date (supposedly for work reasons) and then was bad about texting. I told him that's not for me and then he asked for another chance. I gave him another chance and same thing. his age was 32..... this age is common to be a workaholic, but for whatever reason he wasn't reliable. we weren't having sex (yet) and we had great chemistry so that was sad. I like to date for a month or so before sex...... after the second chance, he asked for another chance. not much to ask about.... he wasn't reliable, so that's it.