Ex had her 2nd baby, wants me back

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The audacity of her trying to come back is laughable!

The approach @Glassguy recommends is best.

There are so many single Mom's in my area from 22-30, its mind boggling! They pop a kid out after a year with a dude, then dump him & go back to riding the c0ck carousel.

As men, we need to stand up to this behavior, it's abhorrent.
 

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The audacity of her trying to come back is laughable!

The approach @Glassguy recommends is best.

There are so many single Mom's in my area from 22-30, its mind boggling! They pop a kid out after a year with a dude, then dump him & go back to riding the c0ck carousel.

As men, we need to stand up to this behavior, it's abhorrent.

The only way to stop this is for the thirsty beta guys to stop rewarding these single moms with their time and money.

Imagine how it would force these women to change if men just said no.
 

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The audacity of her trying to come back is laughable!

The approach @Glassguy recommends is best.

There are so many single Mom's in my area from 22-30, its mind boggling! They pop a kid out after a year with a dude, then dump him & go back to riding the c0ck carousel.

As men, we need to stand up to this behavior, it's abhorrent.
Well to me, having a kid after only a year is a red flag. To me, it means she either

1) wants the pleasure and excitement of having a new child
2) wants the child purely for her status
3) is trying to lock the guy down in some way (whether she thinks he'll leave her, or if he's a beta and she wants to lock down his money)
4) it was an accident

None of those sound good to me. Seriously, a kid after only a year? Am I the only one who sees an issue with that? I see people in relationships for 6 years who still dont have kids or got married yet
 
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Well to me, having a kid after only a year is a red flag. To me, it means she either

1) wants the pleasure and excitement of having a new child
2) wants the child purely for her status
3) is trying to lock the guy down in some way (whether she thinks he'll leave her, or if he's a beta and she wants to lock down his money)
4) it was an accident

None of those sound good to me. Seriously, a kid after only a year? Am I the only one who sees an issue with that? I see people in relationships for 6 years who still dont have kids or got married yet
Well FYI, me and my current girlfriend are having a child and she got pregnant 8 months into our relationship
 

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I myself would not touch this woman with a 10-foot pole.
 

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Well to me, having a kid after only a year is a red flag. To me, it means she either

1) wants the pleasure and excitement of having a new child
2) wants the child purely for her status
3) is trying to lock the guy down in some way (whether she thinks he'll leave her, or if he's a beta and she wants to lock down his money)
4) it was an accident

None of those sound good to me. Seriously, a kid after only a year? Am I the only one who sees an issue with that? I see people in relationships for 6 years who still dont have kids or got married yet
Its crazy! I know 5 couples like that... all had à baby after 9month of dating.

They all professional (engineer,doctors etc..)

Funny they were all "accident" but sometimes i feel the guy want to make à baby more than the girls (liike we also have a biological clock)

I would avoid anyone who talks babies in the first 2 years (even 4)
 

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I truly hope you are not even considering this...its obvious why she is coming back to you...and its not for the right reasons
 

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I truly hope you are not even considering this...its obvious why she is coming back to you...and its not for the right reasons
She must be out of her mind if she thinks I'm gonna father both of her kids after this. FWB at best.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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She must be out of her mind if she thinks I'm gonna father both of her kids after this. FWB at best.

Why are you even considering her as FWB??

She dumped you, got with another dude, and was having her puzzy smashed by him, while you probably sat at home feeling hurt and miserable for god knows how many months or even years!

Now you want to reward her with sex? You want to reward her with pleasure? Are you serious?

Maybe while you both are the best of fuk buddies, she might even pop out another baby by you??

Comon bro, cast this hoe aside once and for all..
 

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Make her run errands for you. Groceries, laundry, cleaning, etc. see if she's willing to do all that to get back with you.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Having this plate as a FWB is insane.
She’ll trap you by getting Prego. Then you too can pay her monthly. Run away fast. Way better out there. Use your head brother.
 

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Didn't we use to have a saying about how the wandering fox always returns?
 

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Am i the only one that doesn't get salty about a girl "leaving" ?

If she's fun to be around, and is a good lay, then i don't see any problem adding her to the rotation and enjoying the casual sex.
 
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Cityboy...

All this justification talk makes you look weak. You know better.

You dodged a bullet.... Move on...
 
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