Need professional help on this tricky approach - Calling on all DJ's

[TheGambino]

Okay, im studying in this university for quite a time, been working for 2 years and im back to finish my last year. This blonde girl is still working here, I always noticed her watching me but I didn't spot IoI's like I do nowadays after my years of living the DJ life.

This blonde HB8 is head of marketing of the whole university. She's small, right my size in height and blonde. A beautiful smile, highly educated (masters degree) and a great vibe around her. She looks like she's only two or three years older then me, prolly right.

Alright she always sees me chilling with hotties at school when she passes to grab a tea or a coffee in the aula (that's where Im going to approach her).

Daygame is not really my thing, nightgame is my sh1t but I do daygame randomly when I see a hottie.

This girl would fit me perfectly next to me imo.

Anyway she always passes me and glances at me, looking at my direction if im noticing her and gives me a great big smile when she passes. Ofcourse I smile and wink back to her everytime.

I got two options:

Option 1: Run intoo her randomly and start a convo (never happened, not risking this)

Option 2: Talk to her when she passes, something like: Hey you have such a great smile, what's your name and see where it goes from there.

Should I snack a good fun convo that let it be or close it with a number close and a suggestion for drinks. She lives nearby my house 10 kilometres easy to set up a coffee date.

Any good openers for this situation?
Im a student, she works at the university, discretion is probably important here.

What to do? Any tips?

 

[TheGambino]

Seriousley, no one?

 

[Alvafe]

serious what you want from here? you know what you should be doing, next time she walk pass you ask her to grab a coffe in the closest place to sit and chat and see what you can do from there

 

[TheGambino]

serious what you want from here? you know what you should be doing, next time she walk pass you ask her to grab a coffe in the closest place to sit and chat and see what you can do from there

She works dude, would be weird to have a dating chit chat with a student while her collegues could walk by.. could Work though but a small chance. I dont like This approach. I want to close her quick so we can have a coffee downtown..

 

[Alvafe]

why you care? if anything you are just chatting, I talked with the people who worked on my college, teachers, secretary, part timers, and no one cared much, you are just talking, not getting a BJ from her, if she said she can't ask her number then start from there, you take the chance, she make it easy or just keep watching you get other woman

 

[sosousage]

option 1 is beta. WTF. obvious.
option 2 is even more beta. (why all men comment women look when they dont know what they should talk about? WTF)

when she smiles to you, you smile back, keep eye contact, and say hey then just chit chat

 

[TheGambino]

option 1 is beta. WTF. obvious.
option 2 is even more beta. (why all men comment women look when they dont know what they should talk about? WTF)

when she smiles to you, you smile back, keep eye contact, and say hey then just chit chat

You dont know sheit bro, Remember your post How You cant get cexual on dates? Because your not schowing flirting interest Dude.. your post is crap, I asked for professionals..

 

[John Constantine]

Option 2 seem's right to me

 

[sosousage]

You dont know sheit bro, Remember your post How You cant get cexual on dates? Because your not schowing flirting interest Dude.. your post is crap, I asked for professionals..

i shared my opinion and thats it. if you dont like it, ignore it.

 

[TheGambino]

i shared my opinion and thats it. if you dont like it, ignore it.

Bad opinion, be cexual with girls to spark interest level and get them horney. Tease then comfort them to kick in asd. Then You get laid.

 

[sosousage]

Bad opinion, be cexual with girls to spark interest level and get them horney. Tease then comfort them to kick in asd. Then You get laid.

you dont need to randomly walk on a girl (obvious) or comment her look (very common) to be sexual

 

[KingofPuss]

No she won't care you're a student. I've been with much older girls. If they find you attractive just say "Hey (name), we always see each other around. I have somewhere to be shortly, but give me your number. We'll get a coffee." (or a drink, I would personally tell her let's smoke a blunt, to each their own, sounds like she doesmt smoke).

You're over thinking this one. If you're always talking to hotties it shouldn't be a big deal. Don't put this one above the rest, you know?

EDIT: I re read some parts of your post and it sounds like you are looking for a girlfriend? In that case just talk to her, introduce yourself and go from there. Talk to her. You have a vibe, roll with it, get her number, and set up a date. Simple as that

 

[A 3% Percent Man]

serious what you want from here? you know what you should be doing, next time she walk pass you ask her to grab a coffe in the closest place to sit and chat and see what you can do from there

Don't know about the coffee part unless it at night
Set evening dates no day time dates

Day time dates = Friends
Evening dates = Lovers

 

[TheGambino]

No she won't care you're a student. I've been with much older girls. If they find you attractive just say "Hey (name), we always see each other around. I have somewhere to be shortly, but give me your number. We'll get a coffee." (or a drink, I would personally tell her let's smoke a blunt, to each their own, sounds like she doesmt smoke).

You're over thinking this one. If you're always talking to hotties it shouldn't be a big deal. Don't put this one above the rest, you know?

EDIT: I re read some parts of your post and it sounds like you are looking for a girlfriend? In that case just talk to her, introduce yourself and go from there. Talk to her. You have a vibe, roll with it, get her number, and set up a date. Simple as that

Quality steady main chick Yes no gf, Nice input thankd

 

[Von]

Quality steady main chick Yes no gf, Nice input thankd

Agree

I would sugest her to go for coffee outside the campus/work.. a close place not on "work" ground.

She must have a spot outside so she could pick the place, if not find one

And do it like any girls

 

[Macaframalama]

You: Hey, you look familiar. How long have you been here at the University?
Her: You know.?.? You do too. Blah, blah years.
You: Yea, I thought I recognized you. I last attended in such and such, before I ran off to persue my life long dream as a member of an all male revue troupe.
Her: Uhm, (Smiling/processing for a second)
You: No, but seriously I considered it, rather than (insert job) for the last two years.
Her/You: Back and forth blah, blah.
You: Well, I've got to run (insert reason). We should meet up and have coffee/drinks and if all goes well you might get to check out some of my routine if this studying thing doesn't pan out. (Pulls out phone and gets number) (Saves the routine bit for future chance to grab her and escalate into slow grinding with her when the mood is right)

 

[beforeimgone]

Okay, im studying in this university for quite a time, been working for 2 years and im back to finish my last year. This blonde girl is still working here, I always noticed her watching me but I didn't spot IoI's like I do nowadays after my years of living the DJ life.

This blonde HB8 is head of marketing of the whole university. She's small, right my size in height and blonde. A beautiful smile, highly educated (masters degree) and a great vibe around her. She looks like she's only two or three years older then me, prolly right.

Alright she always sees me chilling with hotties at school when she passes to grab a tea or a coffee in the aula (that's where Im going to approach her).

Daygame is not really my thing, nightgame is my sh1t but I do daygame randomly when I see a hottie.

This girl would fit me perfectly next to me imo.

Anyway she always passes me and glances at me, looking at my direction if im noticing her and gives me a great big smile when she passes. Ofcourse I smile and wink back to her everytime.

I got two options:

Option 1: Run intoo her randomly and start a convo (never happened, not risking this)

Option 2: Talk to her when she passes, something like: Hey you have such a great smile, what's your name and see where it goes from there.

Should I snack a good fun convo that let it be or close it with a number close and a suggestion for drinks. She lives nearby my house 10 kilometres easy to set up a coffee date.

Any good openers for this situation?
Im a student, she works at the university, discretion is probably important here.

What to do? Any tips?

The wording of option 1 seems kinda awkward. The wording of option 2 seems a little forced.

Seems like you want to avoid being obvious and approach her with some sort of tact.

I say be obvious/kill any plausible deniability, walk right up to her, and tell her to type her number in your phone. If it works, you'll look smooth as fvck. If it fails, you'll look like you have giant balls to any onlookers which will aid you if you decide to hit on them afterwards

Say: what's up, I've been seeing you around. You're a hottie - look her up and down and then back into her eye.
*pause and let her flounder over her words a little before u cut her off
Say: what are you doing tomorrow
*pause
Say(regardless of what she says): sounds fun let me grab your number tho- as you're pulling out your phone.

If she's receptive try to get her to pay for your coffee. Else, close with a hug after u get the number.

 

[Tenacity]

Okay, im studying in this university for quite a time, been working for 2 years and im back to finish my last year. This blonde girl is still working here, I always noticed her watching me but I didn't spot IoI's like I do nowadays after my years of living the DJ life.

This blonde HB8 is head of marketing of the whole university. She's small, right my size in height and blonde. A beautiful smile, highly educated (masters degree) and a great vibe around her. She looks like she's only two or three years older then me, prolly right.

Alright she always sees me chilling with hotties at school when she passes to grab a tea or a coffee in the aula (that's where Im going to approach her).

Daygame is not really my thing, nightgame is my sh1t but I do daygame randomly when I see a hottie.

This girl would fit me perfectly next to me imo.

Anyway she always passes me and glances at me, looking at my direction if im noticing her and gives me a great big smile when she passes. Ofcourse I smile and wink back to her everytime.

I got two options:

Option 1: Run intoo her randomly and start a convo (never happened, not risking this)

Option 2: Talk to her when she passes, something like: Hey you have such a great smile, what's your name and see where it goes from there.

Should I snack a good fun convo that let it be or close it with a number close and a suggestion for drinks. She lives nearby my house 10 kilometres easy to set up a coffee date.

Any good openers for this situation?
Im a student, she works at the university, discretion is probably important here.

What to do? Any tips?

I just don't understand how threads like these (and posters like these) are allowed to remain.....whereas LEGENDS on this forum are banned for nothing more than telling the truth?

Sir, to answer your question on "what to do".......if you see any woman you want to talk to, you go talk to her. Either one of the following will happen:

- You will exchange numbers for future conversation

- You will have a decent convo but no number exchange

- She will ignore you altogether

- She will do like Tyquesha and perhaps embarass you for even having the nerve to "hit on her"

Either way, no matter what happens, you will LIVE through it. So stop over-analyzing and play the numbers game. You should be approaching 20 women, getting 12 numbers, getting 6 dates, then fvcking 3 of the 6 dates.

 

[TheGambino]

F8ck ****, she passes me today again in the atrium. She walks up to the soda machine, glances at me to see if I notice her then walks straight back without buying anything. She looks at me says hey and smiles and walks true, I smile back. I had to f8cking talk to her at that point!

Now i changed places studying along in the coffee corner where she buys her coffee.

The next time I see her I just walk to her damn it. Im going to stay here another hour ''studying'' until she passes.

To be continued! THIS CLOSE IS GOING TO HAPPEN

Update:

Im going to leave the school now, im done, ill be friday at school, ill talk to her whenever she passes me.

 

[marmel75]

Just start up some small talk with her, let her know you have to be somewhere but would like continue this at another time.

See if she offers you her phone number after you say that. If she does its an indicator of high interest...if not it doesnt necessarily mean she isnt interested...follow it up with something like "Give me your number and we will set something up."

Don't overthink this...just act like talking to people like this is normal and no big deal. Because it is normal and really isnt a big deal.