So file this one under "no problem found".
Met a little younger woman with a rating of "bangable" with a potential for (and she's been working her ass, haven't seen this before) hot.
Anyway, met her on POF (let the crucifix begin, lol) and she said she would let me be a gentleman and she gave me address and I picked her up. I thought it would be fun to do the whole chivalry thing so I did the rose, opened the door, nice dinner by the river, actually stayed sober, the both of us. Drove around a little afterwards and asked if she wanted to come back to my place. She agreed.
Brought her home, tour, we each had 1 drink and I really wasn't getting hardly any indicators of interest in her behavior. Come to find out she's been on a 3 year hiatus. Completely false I'm sure but I could tell it's been a while for her.
She wanted to play a game. All I had was scrabble. She said she was very competitive and she was but she also asked what would each of us win? I asked what she wanted, she said another date. (Ha, heck yes she does) and I said I want a kiss. She was like whoa. I said those are the terms. She agreed and she won. So I looked at the loss win spread of points and calculated in my head what I would have needed to win and said "there is a 50 point homeowner handicap..." She added the 50 points and nervously complied. It didn't take any seduction on my part and up to this point, behavior interest was low.
During the kiss she said "you know where kissing leads..." and then it was "where do you want to take me?"
Brought her to my room and anti sloot defense immediately kicked in. I've seen this with every girl. They're all a little different in things they say and ways they act. I want to chime in her for the guys that fail at this very point - try to think of this as you're almost there and she's about to give it to you so just go along and even agree with her backwards rationalizations while continuing to make out with her but move with comfort/caution just not too much caution or she'll start buying her own overtness.
This one said to me "I have self control...I do...I have self control..." ASD going off and that just means it's on to the end game.
Gave it to her all night and it was great. She kept saying she forgot how good it felt so I know it's been a while. She came 5 times in about 2 hours. I blew twice and never took a break. (Something's up with that. I never used to be able to keep going especially new tang on the first night and it was like that with a the last one - file that one also under no problem found)
Needless to say, she's hooked and had to come back for more the next night and could have just kept a marathon of nights going but I do have business to attend to.
All of that being said. I've looked back at the women I've dated post divorce now and have realized that each one on one date I've had with all of them, every one, (I think I'm up to 8-10) I've slept with on the first date.
Maybe I'm dating sloots but it seems to be a trend even with non POF girls (I've had 2-4 of the 8-10 girls not on OLD, who the heck is really counting at this point).
It's fun tho! I don't really have a question I just thought I would throw out a little field report for all to see and bring to light an nice little trend I've noticed. Doesn't seem hard at all to get them back to my place. I don't ask if they want to come over. I ask them if they want to see my house.
Met a little younger woman with a rating of "bangable" with a potential for (and she's been working her ass, haven't seen this before) hot.
Anyway, met her on POF (let the crucifix begin, lol) and she said she would let me be a gentleman and she gave me address and I picked her up. I thought it would be fun to do the whole chivalry thing so I did the rose, opened the door, nice dinner by the river, actually stayed sober, the both of us. Drove around a little afterwards and asked if she wanted to come back to my place. She agreed.
Brought her home, tour, we each had 1 drink and I really wasn't getting hardly any indicators of interest in her behavior. Come to find out she's been on a 3 year hiatus. Completely false I'm sure but I could tell it's been a while for her.
She wanted to play a game. All I had was scrabble. She said she was very competitive and she was but she also asked what would each of us win? I asked what she wanted, she said another date. (Ha, heck yes she does) and I said I want a kiss. She was like whoa. I said those are the terms. She agreed and she won. So I looked at the loss win spread of points and calculated in my head what I would have needed to win and said "there is a 50 point homeowner handicap..." She added the 50 points and nervously complied. It didn't take any seduction on my part and up to this point, behavior interest was low.
During the kiss she said "you know where kissing leads..." and then it was "where do you want to take me?"
Brought her to my room and anti sloot defense immediately kicked in. I've seen this with every girl. They're all a little different in things they say and ways they act. I want to chime in her for the guys that fail at this very point - try to think of this as you're almost there and she's about to give it to you so just go along and even agree with her backwards rationalizations while continuing to make out with her but move with comfort/caution just not too much caution or she'll start buying her own overtness.
This one said to me "I have self control...I do...I have self control..." ASD going off and that just means it's on to the end game.
Gave it to her all night and it was great. She kept saying she forgot how good it felt so I know it's been a while. She came 5 times in about 2 hours. I blew twice and never took a break. (Something's up with that. I never used to be able to keep going especially new tang on the first night and it was like that with a the last one - file that one also under no problem found)
Needless to say, she's hooked and had to come back for more the next night and could have just kept a marathon of nights going but I do have business to attend to.
All of that being said. I've looked back at the women I've dated post divorce now and have realized that each one on one date I've had with all of them, every one, (I think I'm up to 8-10) I've slept with on the first date.
Maybe I'm dating sloots but it seems to be a trend even with non POF girls (I've had 2-4 of the 8-10 girls not on OLD, who the heck is really counting at this point).
It's fun tho! I don't really have a question I just thought I would throw out a little field report for all to see and bring to light an nice little trend I've noticed. Doesn't seem hard at all to get them back to my place. I don't ask if they want to come over. I ask them if they want to see my house.
