Girl keeps saying she is ugly

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Why would she do that when she clearly is not ?
My logical explaination is becausr she wants me to convince her of the opposite.

But is this some kind of sh!ttest or red flag ?
 

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She is a girl, expect them to say stupid shyt.

I would have said ... "Eh, you have your days."

She pretty much wants you to jump to her defense and spruce up her fragile little ego. Witch is bullshyt, men are not attention or validation buttons, don't fall for her petty little games.

Don't be a d1ck, but be very aware of her games on you.

Again... "Eh, you have your days." If she was testing me that day I would add "Even Rihanna looks like a hood rat some times.. but most of the times she looks good."

Keep frame and don't let her get you wondering this stuff.
 

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Why would she do that when she clearly is not ?
My logical explaination is becausr she wants me to convince her of the opposite.

But is this some kind of sh!ttest or red flag ?
She is seeking you to validate her and feed her ego.
 

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Why would she do that when she clearly is not ?
My logical explaination is becausr she wants me to convince her of the opposite.

But is this some kind of sh!ttest or red flag ?
I don't know, but agree with her and elaborate that low self-esteem is indeed ugly. Then tell her that the good news is that at least it's cheaper to fix than plastic surgery.

If she starts referring to her looks then say "oh, your mirror must be broken".
 

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Assuming you've already replied to this statement, if she makes the comment again, tell her that you and she have already discussed this and you will appreciate if she doesn't ever mention it again.

If she continues to mention it, tell her you can't date sometime with such a poor self image, and exit.

That's taxing bull$hit behavior
 

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ask her what she thinks is ugly about her self and then use it against her to make fun of her when she pisses you off. win?
 

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When I respond, I usually passively agree and blow it up even more. I'll say "Yep, absolutely hideous." When they give me hell for saying that, I'll usually say "Well, you're the one who said it. If you don't want me to agree, then don't say it." It works quite well.
 

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Mods should take down them nasty @ss pics no one needs to see those.
Guess it went over your head. I posted that to show how some people don't realize how fortunate they are. I'm pretty sure the girl in question has not been disfigured like the one I posted. And she's probably decent looking. As she could have been unlucky and had an accident or born disfigured or disabled!

If you don't like it feel free to ignore both me and the pics!;)
 

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Guess it went over your head. I posted that to show how some people don't realize how fortunate they are. I'm pretty sure the girl in question has not been disfigured like the one I posted. And she's probably decent looking. As she could have been unlucky and had an accident or born disfigured or disabled!

If you don't like it feel free to ignore both me and the pics!;)
Guess it went over your head... We get the point, I don't need to see dis figured faces.. I'll gladly ignore you.
 

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Here is what I told her:

"If your were a potato, I wouldn't eat you because you would set the standard for other potatoes"

Thoughts ?
 

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Then, show her this pic:
She would think you are an old sicko and not right in the head.

In my humble opinion showing a girl those photos would simply demonstrate your obvious LOW VALUE to her.

What kind of man would actually believe showing photos like these with be appropriate in the mating game and inspire any
sort of attraction or comfort.

A man who is used to mixing with degenerates perhaps and meeting women who are homeless and mentally retarded one would think.
 

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She would think you are an old sicko and not right in the head.

In my humble opinion showing a girl those photos would simply demonstrate your obvious LOW VALUE to her.

What kind of man would actually believe showing photos like these with be appropriate in the mating game and inspire any
sort of attraction or comfort.

A man who is used to mixing with degenerates perhaps and meeting women who are homeless and mentally retarded one would think.
The only sick person here is you and you have been reported to the mods for continually harassing me, even though i have you on ignore.

You have sent me insulting messages to my inbox, violating forum rules calling me a faggat out of the blue. I don't even know you and haven't done anything to warrant such abuse. Its not my fault, you've developed a strange sick fascination with me, but like i said please get help.

You really need psychiatric help really bad son!

MODS HERE HE IS AGAIN, HE'S BACK!
 

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ask her what she thinks is ugly about her self and then use it against her to make fun of her when she pisses you off. win?
Great advice Julian. Get her to confess her insecurities then use them later on when you have a temper tantrum ..

You say my posts are full of sh*t?
 

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for continually harassing me
What? Continually harassing you.....interesting reframe. Didn't you create a thread all about Reykhel threatening him and going on
a crazy emotion outburst.

even though i have you on ignore.
LOL

You have sent me insulting messages to my inbox, violating forum rules calling me a faggat out of the blue.
LOL where's your sense of irony? The amount of times you have thrown the faggat card around, your bottom biatches references to other posters who agreed with what I said (speed dawg, john chops are my bottom biatches according to you). Reykhel laughed that off and finally believed that was how you greeted old friends. You've lost your sense of humor lately. Reykhel liked you more when you typed in angry red...

Its not my fault, you've developed a strange sick fascination with me,
LOL Again this coming from the man who created a thread about Reykhel, asked Reykhel to fight on at least three occasions, sent Reykhel private messages asking to fight and asking to take silly bets

You really need psychiatric help
Beethoven had his critics.

An old man crying about insults when all he has done is sling "insults"......here's a collection
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/mc-gregor-v-mayweather.241364/
 
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