Before You Go No Contact Forever - Read This

[beforeimgone]

Among the redpill community, there is the belief that if a female fvcks up in a big way then you should dump her and go complete no contact. There is a much better way to handle this situation.


Say for instance, you are allow a female to work her way up to a ltr and after a few weeks, she fvcks some other guy. Oops. What would your normal action be? In most cases the answer would be to cut her off and disappear forever. Although this action is great for self-loving masturbation, it's costing you pvssy/money and stopping you from reaching a higher level: complete no contact is reserved for personalities that you can't tolerate.


First off, lose the ego and look at the situation objectively. This chick obviously isn't ltr material, but maybe she has some other value. Can she cook, suck a mean dlck, has money, has connections, gives good massages, etc? You will need to put your emotions and butthurt aside and use her. Use her like you would use a toothbrush in the morning - do it unemotionally.


After she cheats or disrespects you, instead of walking away forever try one last thing. Go cold on her, turn off your emotions and soft next her. Soft next her as if you're going ghost. Don't speak to her until she's apologetic, sweet, and feminine again. Only then should you accept her back as an almost plate. Once you accept her back, keep your emotional distance. As long as she is sweet and feminine, allow her to: be around you, speak to you, and do things for you. It's very important that you get her to do things for you. The only place in your life that she is ever allowed to have is as your do-girl. She's now an orbiter. Once she slips back into her old ways and stops doing what you like, soft next her again until she comes back as sweet, feminine, and humble. Demand her best with your actions. Do not accept anything less.


Field report coming soon


https://icecoldtruths.blogspot.com/2017/09/before-you-go-complete-no-contact-read.html


Stay Icy

 

[Epicurus]

How about no. Because if a woman cheats on me I know damn well I can do better than her.
Neither am I that desperate or in such need of ***** to the point that I would keep her around
Nor do I doubt my abilities to be able to get another plate on short notice

 

[cola]

No contact has nothing to do with them its for you.

Unless you were together for years most chicks get so much attention in 2 weeks they won't even care..
And no matter what she did her friends will never say

"he was a great guy, you are a idiot for sucking a strangers c*ck you met at a bar when you have this great guy at home"

They will say something totally stupid like
"Instead of letting you go out, he should be taking you out on dates 4 nights a week so you were right to suck that random dirty c*ck after the bar closed"..

Men hold their friends accountable when they do dumb stuff. Women don't do this with each other..

So
Its about you having standards and cutting people out your life who don't meet them

 

[soulforge]

Hmmmm

Your assuming the chick will come back everytime she disrespects you, and you soft next her.

You do realise most chicks will within days be on her knees sucking next mans C0ck..

Not coming back to you time and time again, to wash your dirty socks in the sink!

 

[Julian]

Theres pros an cons here. I like the OPs style in this situation because it screams out COLD pimp game. But hes sending mixed signals because in the scenario your feelings ARE initially invested until she disrespects you or whatever. Then your supposed to turn icy and blabla. Well I propose you FINISH how you START. So your feelings and emotions should not be getting involved period. That way you always keep these hoes on rotation.

 

[Glassguy]

OP has zero self respect. Terrible post and idea.

It is however a perfect guide for how to become a spineless chump and will put you in the express lane to being a doormat and lower your standard in life.

Not for me. Next!

 

[El Payaso]

No contact has nothing to do with them its for you.

Unless you were together for years most chicks get so much attention in 2 weeks they won't even care..
And no matter what she did her friends will never say

"he was a great guy, you are a idiot for sucking a strangers c*ck you met at a bar when you have this great guy at home"

They will say something totally stupid like
"Instead of letting you go out, he should be taking you out on dates 4 nights a week so you were right to suck that random dirty c*ck after the bar closed"..

Men hold their friends accountable when they do dumb stuff. Women don't do this with each other..

So
Its about you having standards and cutting people out your life who don't meet them

Exactly what I was about to say. Well said.

 

[RangerMIke]

No contact has nothing to do with them its for you.

Exactly, walk away from chicks that aren't giving you what you want because you are spending you time with chicks that like you.

 

[beforeimgone]

@Julian you're right. Ideally you won't invest any emotion in her, but the weak are unable to do that So I tried to tried to start at a point that they're familiar with - being cheated on

 

[TheGambino]

OP has zero self respect. Terrible post and idea.

It is however a perfect guide for how to become a spineless chump and will put you in the express lane to being a doormat and lower your standard in life.

Not for me. Next!

Relax, @classguy I got respect for You but This bro really puts hisself out there, respect him for that.

 

[That_dude]

NC is for you not them. Sometimes you have to walk away from a toxic situation.. Sometimes you have to move on from something, that just didn't work out.
The sooner you move on from those types of situations.. The quicker you're back to a mentally-healthy place. It's not about having temper tantrums over petty stuff

 

[MrJack]

Coming from a complete blue pill mindset 1-2 years ago, I know what it's like to be cheated on and spiral into a self-defeating mindset.

I've since become almost completely red pill, although still in the process a little.

So for me, I don't tolerate that shyt anymore. I hard next and move on. She obviously doesn't respect you at that point and isn't worth your time anymore.

 

[marmel75]

OP has zero self respect. Terrible post and idea.

It is however a perfect guide for how to become a spineless chump and will put you in the express lane to being a doormat and lower your standard in life.

Not for me. Next!

I don't see how it's disrespect to yourself when you are holding all the power in this. Disrespect would be for OP to forgive it and put up with it and carry on as before which he is clearly not advocating.

If it was a case where she cheated I'd probably be inclined to go NC tho...for lesser things I'd be OK with what OP is saying.

OP is basically advocating using them as a cvm dumpster, which is all they are worth at that point with little to no effort put into anything by you. Fair play, OP.

 

[That_dude]

If we're talking about letting a broad chit all over you.. Then asking for seconds.. That's a good way to becoming a spineless chump/doormat. Hell no

It depends on the specifics of the situation

 

[wifehunter]

That's a great idea, if you don't have respect for yourself, and prefer being the 'boy toy'.

 

[Trump]

First off, lose the ego and look at the situation objectively. This chick obviously isn't ltr material, but maybe she has some other value. Can she cook, suck a mean dlck, has money, has connections, gives good massages, etc? You will need to put your emotions and butthurt aside and use her. Use her like you would use a toothbrush in the morning - do it unemotionally.

This is only good if you are not in love with her. If you are in love with her, it won't work. You would flip every time you talk to her.

Maybe some powerful no nonsense red pill guys could do it. If I was in love with her, I couldn't do it no matter how much money or connections or fame she had.

 

[Three]

I can see both sides. I'm typically with the nexting and NC crowd, but if you aren't at an exclusive stage, then shift her into rotation as a plate to have fun with. You don't own her.

A girl with sufficient interest level will automatically go monogamous with you until you give her reason to do otherwise.

 

[beforeimgone]

This is only good if you are not in love with her. If you are in love with her, it won't work. You would flip every time you talk to her.

Maybe some powerful no nonsense red pill guys could do it. If I was in love with her, I couldn't do it no matter how much money or connections or fame she had.

Why fall in love in the first place? That's a mistake

 

[Glassguy]

If we're talking about letting a broad chit all over you.. Then asking for seconds.. That's a good way to becoming a spineless chump/doormat. Hell no

It depends on the specifics of the situation

Exactly

 

[MrJack]

Why fall in love in the first place? That's a mistake

Sucks to agree with this but I kinda have to based on a scenario my friend was in.

So there's this girl, HB9, model figure, model face, etc.

She's been exclusively dating a guy since high school so like 6-7 years now and has since gotten married to the guy last year.

Well long story short she was also f*cking my friend on the side while claiming to love this guy she was going to marry.

To this day, the guy has never found out about it.

He's in happy ever after mode with this girl, while she's spinning her own plates.

Hopefully NAWALT lol.