Give no ****s. Like none. Unless you’re gonna do something that will get you expelled, then you should, but otherwise don’t question yourself. I found out about this place at 15 and made the most of my time in high school. Hang out with friends a LOT more (or if they don’t do much, be that guy who gets everyone together). I went to a private school for 9 years, then went to public school in 9th grade. Tried doing everything I could and just talked to everyone no matter who. This allowed me to start looking at a few different social circles and see who was the most fun to be with. I narrowed it down some and got into about 4 my sophomore year. Then picked one to get really close with outside of my team when I was a junior. I moved 4 days before senior year which blew but I still made friends at the new school right away. Over there at the new place, the guys were all a bunch of sissies especially compared to my old high school. I gave no craps at all. Just my demeanor gave off the aggressive vibe and of the few guys who weren’t pvssies, they took a natural liking towards me. This were always the coolest dudes in the school too lol. Don’t focus on women, focus on having FUN. If you come across a situation where you think whether or not you should do something that’s really crazy to where it’s borderline stupid, then do it. Those are always the most fun things to do. Say some dudes are talking about a chick in your class how she’s so hot or whatever, just be like ‘watch this’ and just start talking to her randomly. Have fun with it. And even though it might be awkward, just pretend like it isn’t and afterwards just walk away. And if you end up failing and the girl looks at you weirdly or something, then just laugh at yourself with your bros. Never take things personal. Some dudes will want to make fun of you afterwards, just roll with the punches. I had some racist bastards make fun of me and I would say some crazy racist **** towards myself too that would get them to laugh and then we’d be good friends. This is how I stopped all drama from ever even starting within my various social circles. You just gotta give no ****s and always try to be happy.
Like I said, don’t care about being a virgin. Girls will come to you especially since they secretly want to lose their virginity before high school just like guys do. Say you start talking to a girl who you KNOW likes you but you’re kinda afraid to do something just because it might be your first time actually doing it. Again, give no ****s and just go for it. Once you start kissing, it’s pretty much game over. Just start putting your hands on her hips and then slowly work your way up to the more sexual areas. If she tries to stop you, just slow down the feeling part but up the romantic bull**** that we as guys don’t really care all that much about. If she stops and say something like “we really shouldn’t” then you just say “you and I both know we want to” and then continue from there and she shouldn’t stop you after that. If she keeps stopping you after all that, then she’s just too insecure and you should move on to the next girl. Keep in mind though, this is only if the girl comes to you and clearly likes you. You should not really go up to them unless you are trying to have fun with it. Have FUN. Focus on FUN. I’m in college right now and while it’s not all bad, it sure as hell doesn’t compare to high school.
Good luck bro. Make the most out of it. You got less than a year left.
