Persisting vs Dismissing

[Who Dares Win]

I dont want to be lame or repeat what we all know but in this case all we have to do is listen to our gut.

Our brains can try to complicate things, protect our ego or rationalize what doesnt need to be rationalized...our gut just get it but he is not a great communicator.

Your gut will try to tell you how things are but its up to you to get it, if you feel annoyed, stressed or suddengly in discomfort it means the hoe is a no.

On the other side if you enjoy the "chase" or feel that its ok, there may be a chance but this is a really rare case.

The benchmark is your stress and discomfort level when you chase a girl, no games or plots just listen to your gut and the problem is fixed.

In my opinion zealot persistance in 2017 is an unlimited fail, you will lose time, she will laught about you with her friends or even get you a stalker label....not worth for a hoe.

 

[Skyline]

If miss indecisive comes back, explain in terse terms it's either we go out or f**k off.

Erase and replace. When I see low interest, I'm out.

"We go out or f*ck off"

It really should be this way. Women will always move mountains to see someone if they are interested. I know a girl who spent $500 one way to fly out across the united states to see some guy.

If whatever girl you're talking to can't meet up for 'x' just remember that there are girls literally flying over mountains to see a dude.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

"We go out or f*ck off"

It really should be this way. Women will always move mountains to see someone if they are interested. I know a girl who spent $500 one way to fly out across the united states to see some guy.

If whatever girl you're talking to can't meet up for 'x' just remember that there are girls literally flying over mountains to see a dude.

Your right they will move mountains and make things happen. Otherwise your an orbiter shell musical chairs around for entertainment.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I once got laid after getting flaked on six times, no lie.

Most guys don't understand the difference between persistent and pushy. If a girl says no....wait a while before you ask again. A pushy guy is like the kid in the back seat on vacation..."are we there yet?" over and over. That's not what you want. But on the other hand, getting butt hurt that you got rejected once shouldn't keep you from trying again. The most beautiful women reject men constantly. They have to. They don't even put much thought into it. Persistence means matching that attitude. You don't put too much thought into that rejection either....like water off a duck's back....no big deal. When you do try again later, you have to forget the first failure. She probably doesn't remember it, either. That's persistence - not letting past failures drag you down in the present.

 

[ubercat]

I'm curious @Bible_Belt because I know you use OLD as one of your channels. I'm talking more POF or OK than fettlife. Would you contact an online girl again who had ignored your message or refused to meet up?

 

[beforeimgone]

I once got laid after getting flaked on six times, no lie.

Most guys don't understand the difference between persistent and pushy. If a girl says no....wait a while before you ask again. A pushy guy is like the kid in the back seat on vacation..."are we there yet?" over and over. That's not what you want. But on the other hand, getting butt hurt that you got rejected once shouldn't keep you from trying again. The most beautiful women reject men constantly. They have to. They don't even put much thought into it. Persistence means matching that attitude. You don't put too much thought into that rejection either....like water off a duck's back....no big deal. When you do try again later, you have to forget the first failure. She probably doesn't remember it, either. That's persistence - not letting past failures drag you down in the present.

That's the persistence that I was talking about. Sure you'll get her eventually. If you persist long enough, you'll get almost any chick, but is that much effort worth it to you

 

[Bible_Belt]

If a woman is completely ignoring you, then yes, let her do so.

My point is more about how much negativity you carry from the first rejection. If you can start fresh mentally every time, that's the key. But if you are still angry about being turned down earlier, that anger will be self-defeating.

 

[Vivacity]

2 strikes, that is, 2 calls or 2 texts or (1 text + 1 call).

If I don't hear from her after 2 strikes, she won't see me again. I will spend my time and effort in pursuing other girls.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

2 strikes, that is, 2 calls or 2 texts or (1 text + 1 call).

If I don't hear from her after 2 strikes, she won't see me again. I will spend my time and effort in pursuing other girls.

Yes, I used to have a 'three strikes and your out' policy, but it seemed too much. Only asking them out twice seems right.

 

[marmel75]

Persistence works well when you have numerous other chicks you are seeing/dating, as a "circle back" strategy every couple weeks. I used to do this once a month or so and about half of them went out wig me and about half of those I banged. It can work, just not if you are desperate and holding onto that one chick like she is the only one...

Go out, date other chicks, hit her back up at a later time..
if still nothing delete the number, no big deal.