Why are girls embarrassed of squirting?

[marmel75]

But how important is the squirting in your sex life, or in general for a womans sex life?

Most women I have talked to said it was the most intense orgasm they have ever experienced, like it was 1000 orgasms in one

 

[marmel75]

That's a great little project right there. I was kind of dreading doing my core strength work it's been a long tough winter. Thank you I think the fun of that will keep me motivated.

You can also acheive it with your fingers...especially after you have been banging them for a while..here is another one...start banging them and when they get close to having an orgasm or start breathing heavy stop, pull out and then put a finger in there...palm up, middle finger, reach as far in as you can probing for a "squishy" area usually on the right wall in the back...once you find it, curl your finger back towards you like you are making a "come here" motion over and over again...then when they start becomign really aroused from it, put another finger in there, start going in and out as fast an as hard as you can while rubbing her cl!t with your thumb and prepare for the water works....you can also keep fingering her through the squirt and get the same spray effect as well...then imediately start pounding her again hard with deep strokes to keep it going until she can't take it anymore

 

[ubercat]

Two fingers on ms squishy or two fingers straight penetration?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Because it's not a subject that is EVER discussed in a sexual or medical capacity so when it happens the first time we think we have actually lost control of our bladders and get embarrassed and hope the guy doesn't think we just peed on him.

Then we leave the situation contemplating WTF did I just pee on him? And we are so confused we don't bring it up with our friends to resolve. I have never talked to my girlfriend's about this and they have never talked to me about it.

Eventually you hear about it second hand, in a magazine, on a website, erotica, and you think "hey, okay, maybe that is a normal thing!?" But you still don't have legitimate confirmation.

It would be different if young women were told "sometimes, when you are very sexually aroused, you may experience a rush of liquid .... Etc, etc, etc". Then, at least, we could associate it with a positive event.... "Oh, wow, he really does it for me"

But nope.

Make sense?

But should all girls be able to do it?

Are they the best orgasms?

What's the best way to get a girl to squirt?

 

[sazc]

But how important is the squirting in your sex life, or in general for a womans sex life?

For me? Not important. I'm looking for a connection. I don't place value on mind-blowing sex like I see a lot of guys do here. The sex should be good, but doesn't need to be mind-blowing as long as there is a connection.

 

[sazc]

But should all girls be able to do it?

Are they the best orgasms?

What's the best way to get a girl to squirt?

That's the thing, we are not educated about it so I can't answer those questions. We are not educated to understand what led to the build-up in the actual situation happening, so I don't know.

No, imo they are not the best orgasms, but definitely a signal that the girl has "let go"

Aka, whatever you are doing is so good that she's stopped thinking, and is just feeling. If that makes any sense

 

[sazc]

Again, this is just me and my two cents. Experience will vary

 

[marmel75]

Two fingers on ms squishy or two fingers straight penetration?

Two fingers straight and hard. One finger at the start on the squishy part. You'll know when you find it by how it feels. And by her reaction, lol

 

[ubercat]

Thanks bro and I'm sending you the bill for my 1000 thread count sheets

 

[marmel75]

Thanks bro and I'm sending you the bill for my 1000 thread count sheets

Hahahahaha, you'll just have to wash them more often

 

[sazc]

Thanks bro and I'm sending you the bill for my 1000 thread count sheets

Lol, in the end I do not think you will mind

 

[ubercat]

Ah c'mon they get washed once a month whether they need it or not.

 

[ubercat]

Actually sadly it's going to be a lot of yoga and stretching before I can start hitting the core strength. Got a bit of a soap injury from tennis. Tear in the glute where it joins the hip. Classic stabilisation muscle injury.

 

[marmel75]

Actually sadly it's going to be a lot of yoga and stretching before I can start hitting the core strength. Got a bit of a soap injury from tennis. Tear in the glute where it joins the hip. Classic stabilisation muscle injury.

can you do any planks?

 

[ubercat]

I can but work in IT do neck d always tense.

 

[marmel75]

I can but work in IT do neck d always tense.

I'm in IT too...I'm a programmer...you hardware of software?

 

[ubercat]

Business analyst and scrum master mainly. Bit of PMing sometimes. Got basic SQL and CRM tech skills I keep updated as a fallback.

That's why I see every side of every argument here. It's in the blood.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Try this position :

Lay on your back and have them like they are riding you, except get them in a squat position, with their feet flat and then put your hands under their thighs or butt to help support them. Raise them up to a level where you can get a full stroke in and out to where you almost come all the way out but not quite. Hold them at this level and then pump as hard and fast as you can in and out like a piston. If you are in good enough shape and can continue for long enough you will almost always get them to squirt. Keep pounding them through the squirt and it will spray up in the air and go over your head with the spray landing everywhere in between.

They will try and get off you and curl up into almost a fetal position a lot of times and be shaking sometimes from it...don't let them rest, you are about to be the guy they tell stories to their girlfriends about unbelievable orgasms for the rest of their lives...get on top of them, legs up on your shoulders, pillow under the small of their back right above their butt, wrists tight up against their hips holding them in place and proceed to pound them through the bed with long deep strokes are hard as you can and watch out for the devil claw marks and punches you will be getting thrown at you as they scream bloody murder...and keep cvmming in one long continuous orgasm.

On a side note, whatever you want after this you will get...anal...bl0wjobs...cvm on their face...swallowing...you just opened pandora's pleasure box for them

And they say real sex ain't like porn. Ha!

 

[Fruitbat]

Wtf, is that actually you in your profile pic?

Yes I am actually a small flying rodent who also uses this forum and tries to game human women.

 

[ubercat]

I tried option A on weekend No squirt. However g/f s eyes rolled back and she was paralyzed for 30 min after. Will keep practicing.