I see so much frustration on this board and so many guys who are just stuck. The guys who listen to traditional "dating" or "game" advice yet they still don't have much luck with women at all. I am talking about the kinds of guys who actually listened and read some dating advice and posts, actually put it to practice, but are still coming up empty handed.
Because a lot of this advice is outdated.
The advice of massive cold approaching and trying to run "game" might have worked many decades ago because those were the social trends at the time. In the 90s you could run day game at a mall in a big city and have a lot of success. You went out to bars and clubs to score and you often could score because that is what they were meant for.
But we live in an age of technology and image where it has all changed.
Most girls above a 7 do not really need to entertain going out as much because they can simply get the kinds of men they want through dating apps and have more than enough men available. A lot of hot girls above a 7 are spending their time on social media rolling through Instagram pages until they see a guy who gives off the image of their dream guy, that is the guy who is sleeping with most of these hot girls.
In this day and age, giving off the image of being a high status guy is more important than ever.
Women 20 years ago could have entertained being picked up by some normal guy who had "game", that isn't the case anymore.
When you have better things awaiting, you don't settle.
Back in the 90s, women were in a city and not as connected to the scene because what they saw on a daily basis was what they had in their lives.
Now women are in a situation where they turn on their phones and tons of guys await them.
When a hot guy on Tinder or a guy that gives off the image of being high status on social media is a click away, there isn't much of a need for women to entertain some random guy approach them at a club or bar.
Traditional pickup advice was gimmicky, not for the long term.
Canned pickup lines and tricks, it doesn't last but we all know that.
Red pill advice was somewhat decent but it pushed men to be social outcasts and loners instead of raising their status.
The whole society is evil, everyone is a loser, and "MGTOW" nonsense was not as helpful either. Even if you do lift and have a salary, you still have not accounted for status or presenting yourself to women in the modern world. This is why so many men with decent salaries and decent looks either have to settle for girls below their league or struggle with being single.
Instead the advice should center around being attractive in today's world, which mainly includes maximizing status.
Whether it is top tier hobbies, 10k Instagram followers, or whatever it may be; the advice should actually center around creating a life where you build an image that gets you hot girls.
Because we're in an age where that it is what it is about and guys who do it successfully date hot girls.
Because a lot of this advice is outdated.
The advice of massive cold approaching and trying to run "game" might have worked many decades ago because those were the social trends at the time. In the 90s you could run day game at a mall in a big city and have a lot of success. You went out to bars and clubs to score and you often could score because that is what they were meant for.
But we live in an age of technology and image where it has all changed.
Most girls above a 7 do not really need to entertain going out as much because they can simply get the kinds of men they want through dating apps and have more than enough men available. A lot of hot girls above a 7 are spending their time on social media rolling through Instagram pages until they see a guy who gives off the image of their dream guy, that is the guy who is sleeping with most of these hot girls.
In this day and age, giving off the image of being a high status guy is more important than ever.
Women 20 years ago could have entertained being picked up by some normal guy who had "game", that isn't the case anymore.
When you have better things awaiting, you don't settle.
Back in the 90s, women were in a city and not as connected to the scene because what they saw on a daily basis was what they had in their lives.
Now women are in a situation where they turn on their phones and tons of guys await them.
When a hot guy on Tinder or a guy that gives off the image of being high status on social media is a click away, there isn't much of a need for women to entertain some random guy approach them at a club or bar.
Traditional pickup advice was gimmicky, not for the long term.
Canned pickup lines and tricks, it doesn't last but we all know that.
Red pill advice was somewhat decent but it pushed men to be social outcasts and loners instead of raising their status.
The whole society is evil, everyone is a loser, and "MGTOW" nonsense was not as helpful either. Even if you do lift and have a salary, you still have not accounted for status or presenting yourself to women in the modern world. This is why so many men with decent salaries and decent looks either have to settle for girls below their league or struggle with being single.
Instead the advice should center around being attractive in today's world, which mainly includes maximizing status.
Whether it is top tier hobbies, 10k Instagram followers, or whatever it may be; the advice should actually center around creating a life where you build an image that gets you hot girls.
Because we're in an age where that it is what it is about and guys who do it successfully date hot girls.
