Do white dudes “win” at online dating?

[Leisuresuitlegend]

agreed mate but i'm saying as you know OLD is all about looks and even if you're ethnic as long as you look good the OLD game will be easier

Might be easier to get meets etc, then again not so "easy" dealing with nutcases and low quality toxic chicks. I've been left that nonsense probably now going on three years.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I find that chart to be accurate. I get more initiation messages from Black and Indian women than my own Race, WHITE. I usually Only send a first message to my Own race. They'll dibble and dabble, but usually come off the hook and swim somewhere else. It's probably my pictures (not as good as other guys), and they say "women aren't 'visual'" or "don't care about 'looks'" but if THAT were the case, then WHY do they spend hundreds a month at their hairdresser??? It's funny seeing a woman not having enough money to doll herself up EVERY week, EVERY day. They just seem more depressed more sad, more hopeless, more apt to drugs. The warpaint they apply is more smeared and not very well done or paid attention to.

I'm on OLD as a 41 yr old. That stings as a WHITE, but honestly, I get about the same response I did when I was early 30s, not much. The Females are their to reign in the compliments. They don't give a rat's ass about You, unless they see a glaring benefit to be gained at minimal cost on their part (what they can 'get away with' always Scheming). Briffault's Law, very REAL and true.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I find that chart to be accurate. I get more initiation messages from Black and Indian women than my own Race, WHITE. I usually Only send a first message to my Own race. They'll dibble and dabble, but usually come off the hook and swim somewhere else. It's probably my pictures (not as good as other guys), and they say "women aren't 'visual'" or "don't care about 'looks'" but if THAT were the case, then WHY do they spend hundreds a month at their hairdresser??? It's funny seeing a woman not having enough money to doll herself up EVERY week, EVERY day. They just seem more depressed more sad, more hopeless, more apt to drugs. The warpaint they apply is more smeared and not very well done or paid attention to.

I'm on OLD as a 41 yr old. That stings as a WHITE, but honestly, I get about the same response I did when I was early 30s, not much. The Females are their to reign in the compliments. They don't give a rat's ass about You, unless they see a glaring benefit to be gained at minimal cost on their part (what they can 'get away with' always Scheming). Briffault's Law, very REAL and true.

What could they possibly want from you?

Money is the only thing I can think of.

D1ck, also, but they could get that from anywhere.

 

[Red Legg]

When I said OLD I meant Online dating

No sh!t Shelock...

 

[Solomon]

All of this in a White country. Odd that.

One wonders how it would go in non-white countries?

All of this in a White country. Odd that.

One wonders how it would go in non-white countries?

Additionally, you have only accounted for one component, race.

Where are the other controls? For black vetsus white men, what happens when one controls for income? Education?

I am reminded of the time I schooled a Phd on his $hit thesis that discrimination existed at the board room level since male CEOs were paid more than female CEOs. All he looked at was IRS data. That is it.

No accounting for hours worked, size of the company, type of company, etc,....

Any study that shows you only one dimension is worth $hit. Never listen to it.

More disingenuous

let's stick too facts instead of "what ifs" and "in other countries"

I'm talking about america cause that's where I live sir.

Fact is most white guys aren't just white women's top choice but black, Asian, Spanish women as well.

Where is your data to prove me different?

I'm done....

Toodles cupcake!

 

[Urbanyst]

More disingenuous

Fact is most ATTRACTIVE white guys aren't just white women's top choice but black, Asian, Spanish women as well.

I fixed your post for you.

Women prefer ATTRACTIVE high VALUE men. The likelihood that a WHITE guy will be tall, have MONEY and be attractive in the U.S. is higher simply because there are more white men in the U.S. than any other. White men are more likely to be ATTRACTIVE based on pure numbers.. and therefore more likely to get responses from women online.

Attractive ethnic men clean up too. Ugly and low value men have it hardest. There are many WHITE men who can't get a match on Tinder to save their lives lol.

 

[Good Gao]

Lets admit the real fact here, white men do better because they generally are better.

I know PC culture will blame racism on it all but lets say you're a woman, who would you rather have?

1. A socially well connected tall handsome white guy with a lot of friends, charisma, some cash, and love for life. The kind of guy who attracts quality people to his life and is a strong man through them all. Successful, handsome, well off, charismatic, socially well connected, and always has an idea of where the most fun events are.

2. A whiny ethnic who is likely out of shape, day in and day out cries about life, has a victim's mentality, probably has little to no friends, does not pick up on social cues, and feels inferior to whites. Women sense that and they pick up on that.

If things went haywire in this world, who would she rely on? Definitely not guy number 2 who is crying about how unfair life is because of his ethnic appearance.

Women aren't sympathetic, they want winners, not losers.

Even loser white guys have to settle for uglier ethnic women or mail order brides in most cases.

I've known ethnic guys who have wreaked havoc on the game, they were just quality guys, that is all.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Lets admit the real fact here, white men do better because they generally are better.

I know PC culture will blame racism on it all but lets say you're a woman, who would you rather have?

1. A socially well connected tall handsome white guy with a lot of friends, charisma, some cash, and love for life. The kind of guy who attracts quality people to his life and is a strong man through them all. Successful, handsome, well off, charismatic, socially well connected, and always has an idea of where the most fun events are.

2. A whiny ethnic who is likely out of shape, day in and day out cries about life, has a victim's mentality, probably has little to no friends, does not pick up on social cues, and feels inferior to whites. Women sense that and they pick up on that.

If things went haywire in this world, who would she rely on? Definitely not guy number 2 who is crying about how unfair life is because of his ethnic appearance.

Women aren't sympathetic, they want winners, not losers.

Even loser white guys have to settle for uglier ethnic women or mail order brides in most cases.

I've known ethnic guys who have wreaked havoc on the game, they were just quality guys, that is all.

I notice white guys doing significantly worse where I live.

I have never gotten anything for being white. I've gotten attention by dressing well and having money. Plus, when I used to sell drugs when I was younger.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I see ethnic guys of all types doing better than white guys, with white females.

Perhaps the white girls think the white guys are boring and only useful for money. Perhaps they think we're weak. Perhaps they think men of other ethnicities are stronger. Perhaps they are simply satisfying a natural instinct towards exogamy where they seek mates that are not closely genetically related to them in order to mix up the genes better.

 

[Good Gao]

I see ethnic guys of all types doing better than white guys, with white females.

Perhaps the white girls think the white guys are boring and only useful for money. Perhaps they think we're weak. Perhaps they think men of other ethnicities are stronger. Perhaps they are simply satisfying a natural instinct towards exogamy where they seek mates that are not closely genetically related to them in order to mix up the genes better.

The only race as a whole I see perhaps doing better than white guys in some areas are black guys and in some rare cases latinos, other than that I don't know where you live where you see it differently.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

The only race as a whole I see perhaps doing better than white guys in some areas are black guys and in some rare cases latinos, other than that I don't know where you live where you see it differently.

Orlando, FL.

 

[Good Gao]

Orlando, FL.

I can see it then, Florida is one of the most ethnic friendly states in the whole country, would be a different story if you were in California though.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I can see it then, Florida is one of the most ethnic friendly states in the whole country, would be a different story if you were in California though.

I thought California was liberal paradise?

 

[Urbanyst]

I see ethnic guys of all types doing better than white guys, with white females.

Perhaps the white girls think the white guys are boring and only useful for money. Perhaps they think we're weak. Perhaps they think men of other ethnicities are stronger. Perhaps they are simply satisfying a natural instinct towards exogamy where they seek mates that are not closely genetically related to them in order to mix up the genes better.

Perhaps those men are just high VALUE.

You don't have to be white to be high value lol. VALUE is all women care about.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Perhaps those men are just high VALUE.

You don't have to be white to be high value lol. VALUE is all women care about.

No, They're not.

 

[Urbanyst]

No, They're not.

Women get to decide that, not you lol.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Women get to decide that, not you lol.

Their perception of value is not necessarily actual value.

What is "value" about someone who makes little money and smokes weed every day?

 

[Urbanyst]

Their perception of value is not necessarily actual value.

What is "value" about someone who makes little money and smokes weed every day?

Everyone decides what "real VALUE" is to them. Some women prefer men who appeal to their lizard brain and offer some kind of emotional high they can't easily get with other guys.

HOT women who date losers don't bother me. I don't want to date a woman with a low IQ anyway.

Low IQ women are attracted to thugs, losers and bums. They are not smart enough to see the VALUE of a professional educated man with MONEY. But at the same time, what would I do with a woman like that other than f*ck her and move on? What kind of relationship can you have with a low IQ woman anyway?

Trying to find the logic in the decisions a low IQ woman makes is like trying to find the logic in why a dog licks its balls lol.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Everyone decides what "real VALUE" is to them. Some women prefer men who appeal to their lizard brain and offer some kind of emotional high they can't easily get with other guys.

HOT women who date losers don't bother me. I don't want to date a woman with a low IQ anyway.

Low IQ women are attracted to thugs, losers and bums. They are not smart enough to see the VALUE of a professional educated man with MONEY. But at the same time, what would I do with a woman like that other than f*ck her and move on? What kind of relationship can you have with a low IQ woman anyway?

Trying to find the logic in the decisions a low IQ woman makes is like trying to find the logic in why a dog licks its balls lol.

I fvck a low-IQ woman this weekend (Arabic). She was short kinda chubby, but Damn good in bed, horny. I've had a lot of girls lately tell me they wish they had blue eyes. I say why don't you buy blue-eyed contacts.
"High IQ" women I've been with lately are Less feminine or more Feminist. Such a turnoff. I HATE it! just they run counter to EVERYTHING you say and do. I say that I'm gaining weight getting a little chubby, she says, "no you're not.." I say that like my 5 'o clock shadow, she says it hurts her pvssy or chin/face. I hold her tight, and she says to hold her loosely like a faggot that I'm somehow "tense" or "too stressed" when I'm most certainly not! I know how I am, I'm just Strong that's all. But she'll run counter to EVERYTHING I do and say, that's feminist and SUCH a turnoff to me so to the low-IQ feminine Non-Feminist woman I went.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Everyone decides what "real VALUE" is to them. Some women prefer men who appeal to their lizard brain and offer some kind of emotional high they can't easily get with other guys.

HOT women who date losers don't bother me. I don't want to date a woman with a low IQ anyway.

Low IQ women are attracted to thugs, losers and bums. They are not smart enough to see the VALUE of a professional educated man with MONEY. But at the same time, what would I do with a woman like that other than f*ck her and move on? What kind of relationship can you have with a low IQ woman anyway?

Trying to find the logic in the decisions a low IQ woman makes is like trying to find the logic in why a dog licks its balls lol.

It hasn't occurred to me that so many females are low IQ in a while.

Maybe this is some of my problem.