Why do girls think they have some magical value?

[RichardTheFrog]

It's as if they think they have some insane amount of value just for being female.

They could be an unemployed drug addict, yet they will still think that the fact that they are female gives them enormous value. What is this about?

For example...

If a guy works at a bank, he is just a guy who works at a bank. If a girl works at a bank, she is a girl who works at a bank AND SO MUCH MORE!!! (especially if she's hot). What is this about?

The hotter the girl is, the worse this is. I understand that they lie and manipulate for their survival, but they take it to extremes that are not fun to deal with and can easily anger people.

 

[marmel75]

Because desperate dudes who can't get laid are constantly pumping up their value by being their orbiters and basically kissing their @ss...even ugly and fat chicks have multiple dudes that want to bang them and will jump through hoops for them.

The short answer is because too many guys give them those qualities.

 

[El Payaso]

Well, with the way Western society is currently structured, they do. They have the backing of everything and there's nothing you can do about it.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Well, with the way Western society is currently structured, they do. They have the backing of everything and there's nothing you can do about it.

What backing are you talking about?

 

[BeExcellent]

Well Richard try having children without a woman & you'll see.

You can pay prostitutes for sex all your life if that is how you want to spend your family's money & if that is the risk you want to subject your health to....

But who is going to have your babies & more importantly who is going to mother them?

That's the sad irony. You have young men running around saying I'll never get married...I'll never have kids, etc., etc., and then those men get older and they see people all around them enjoying the benefits of family, of children. I know several men who studiously avoided marriage & children and now they are regretful.

Now obviously not all men are & that's fine. Some are perfectly happy doing the player thing for life. More power to them.

But if you want a family & to carry on your family line, eventually that is going to require a woman, a GOOD woman. Banging prostitutes and having the requisite "all women are worthless" mantra is completely the opposite of action that will teach you to screen for a future mother of your children.

My advice to Richard is to figure out what is most important to him long term & spend several hundred a week on therapists rather than h o o k e r s or you're never going to get anywhere.

You complain about women & then when somebody goes to give you some actual advice you get extremely defensive, belligerent and start insulting people & demanding pictures, etc.

The money isn't yours. It's your daddy's. Don't think he isn't observing your behavior. You don't understand the first thing yet about women OR money (as evidenced by your belief that money will solve all your problems - a commonly held delusion of the broke.)

Get into therapy. Seriously. If you were my kid I'd set up a spendthrift trust and never give you blanket access to any large sum of money.

Your attitudes & beliefs currently repel women AND money. THAT is what you need help with, and that is beyond the scope and expertise of this board.

 

[skinnyguy]

As long as you're paying them $400 for sex, they will be special people.

 

[sazc]

You complain about women & then when somebody goes to give you some actual advice you get extremely defensive, belligerent and start insulting people & demanding pictures, etc.

These words you write describe another member very well. So much so that I feel as if I have figured out that another member, who likes to post and attention seek here a LOT, and frog guy, are the same poster.

And, if you think about it, the prostitute narrative totally fits into the other profiles penchant for a specific 'type' and caliber of female.

 

[marmel75]

Well Richard try having children without a woman & you'll see.

You can pay prostitutes for sex all your life if that is how you want to spend your family's money & if that is the risk you want to subject your health to....

But who is going to have your babies & more importantly who is going to mother them?

That's the sad irony. You have young men running around saying I'll never get married...I'll never have kids, etc., etc., and then those men get older and they see people all around them enjoying the benefits of family, of children. I know several men who studiously avoided marriage & children and now they are regretful.

Now obviously not all men are & that's fine. Some are perfectly happy doing the player thing for life. More power to them.

But if you want a family & to carry on your family line, eventually that is going to require a woman, a GOOD woman. Banging prostitutes and having the requisite "all women are worthless" mantra is completely the opposite of action that will teach you to screen for a future mother of your children.

My advice to Richard is to figure out what is most important to him long term & spend several hundred a week on therapists rather than h o o k e r s or you're never going to get anywhere.

You complain about women & then when somebody goes to give you some actual advice you get extremely defensive, belligerent and start insulting people & demanding pictures, etc.

The money isn't yours. It's your daddy's. Don't think he isn't observing your behavior. You don't understand the first thing yet about women OR money (as evidenced by your belief that money will solve all your problems - a commonly held delusion of the broke.)

Get into therapy. Seriously. If you were my kid I'd set up a spendthrift trust and never give you blanket access to any large sum of money.

Your attitudes & beliefs currently repel women AND money. THAT is what you need help with, and that is beyond the scope and expertise of this board.

It's obvious he hates himself and hating women is just an extension of that. He needs help to be quite honest.

 

[BeExcellent]

@sazc Huh?

Second account my ass

That's funny.

 

[BeExcellent]

It's obvious he hates himself and hating women is just an extension of that. He needs help to be quite honest.

Exactly.

 

[sazc]

@sazc Huh?

Second account my ass

That's funny.

not you, lol, chill woman

I quoted your post because your words actually describe another member very well and I've always noticed similarities between these two accounts, the way they write, the things they say. etc.

lol, I fixed the original post to reflect my intent better

 

[RichardTheFrog]

As long as you're paying them $400 for sex, they will be special people.

Never paid that much.

 

[Urbanyst]

It's obvious he hates himself and hating women is just an extension of that. He needs help to be quite honest.

This kind of response is what's wrong with our culture today. People run away from real DISCUSSION about things because someone shows anger or emotion. People run to the knee-jerk "he hates [insert group]" and immediately shuts down the discussion.

Do you think shaming people and telling people how much they suck is solving the problem?

This is why some people start things like MGTOW and join the alt-white movement of complainers. No one takes their problems and frustrations seriously.

Stop running away from these tough conversations you cowards.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

This kind of response is what's wrong with our culture today. People run away from real DISCUSSION about things because someone shows anger or emotion. People run to the knee-jerk "he hates [insert group]" and immediately shuts down the discussion.

Do you think shaming people and telling people how much they suck is solving the problem?

This is why some people start things like MGTOW and join the alt-white movement of complainers. No one takes their problems and frustrations seriously.

Stop running away from these tough conversations you cowards.

Thank you.

Like any of these people ever broke their ****ing necks before or spent 4 years locked up with murderers. They think I'm ignoring their "advice" when really it just doesn't always apply.

 

[marmel75]

This kind of response is what's wrong with our culture today. People run away from real DISCUSSION about things because someone shows anger or emotion. People run to the knee-jerk "he hates [insert group]" and immediately shuts down the discussion.

Do you think shaming people and telling people how much they suck is solving the problem?

This is why some people start things like MGTOW and join the alt-white movement of complainers. No one takes their problems and frustrations seriously.

Stop running away from these tough conversations you cowards.

Not running away from anything. He is an angry, bitter person that would suck the energy away from people he interacts with if he is indeed like this in person and this isn't some troll act he is putting on for the forum. He wonders why he is having issues and its because nobody wants to be around a person like that...people tend to push negative people away and gravitate towards positive people, and with good reason.

The problem is HIM and his negative attitude. If he wants things to change he needs to look at himself first and foremost and make a change there. The problem with culture today is people think they can just act however the hell they want and there should be no repercussions and everyone should just hold hands and sing Kumbaya together. You say society needs to accept people for who they are. I accept him for who he is...I just choose to keep as far away from that type of person as possible and so do a lot of other people.

Get over it snowflake. Stop making excuses and being an enabler for people who don't want to change and expect everyone to cowtow to them no matter how they behave. If he wants people to want to be around him, he is going to need to change his attitude, plain and simple. And if he doesn't, then that's his choice. But stop fvcking complaining and whining about not geting laid and not having this and nobody likes me etc...he is making that choice himself.

Negativity begets negativity. Positivity begets positivity.

If you are the average of your 5 closest friends who the hell is going to want to be a friend to someone who drags them down in the mud with them, sees the negative in every situation and complains about anything and everything, but chooses to do nothing to change any of that? Sure as hell not me.

 

[Urbanyst]

Not running away from anything. He is an angry, bitter person that would suck the energy away from people he interacts with if he is indeed like this in person and this isn't some troll act he is putting on for the forum. He wonders why he is having issues and its because nobody wants to be around a person like that...people tend to push negative people away and gravitate towards positive people, and with good reason.

The problem is HIM and his negative attitude. If he wants things to change he needs to look at himself first and foremost and make a change there. The problem with culture today is people think they can just act however the hell they want and there should be no repercussions and everyone should just hold hands and sing Kumbaya together. You say society needs to accept people for who they are. I accept him for who he is...I just choose to keep as far away from that type of person as possible and so do a lot of other people.

Get over it snowflake. Stop making excuses and being an enabler for people who don't want to change and expect everyone to cowtow to them no matter how they behave. If he wants people to want to be around him, he is going to need to change his attitude, plain and simple. And if he doesn't, then that's his choice. But stop fvcking complaining and whining about not geting laid and not having this and nobody likes me etc...he is making that choice himself.

Negativity begets negativity. Positivity begets positivity.

If you are the average of your 5 closest friends who the hell is going to want to be a friend to someone who drags them down in the mud with them, sees the negative in every situation and complains about anything and everything, but chooses to do nothing to change any of that? Sure as hell not me.

The irony is this is a very negative and whining post lol.

How about not responding to "people like him" if you have nothing useful to say outside of "man up"?

There is nothing insightful in your post at all. Just shaming someone because you don't like what they have to say.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

The irony is this is a very negative and whining post lol.

How about not responding to "people like him" if you have nothing useful to say outside of "man up"?

There is nothing insightful in your post at all. Just shaming someone because you don't like what they have to say.

Plus, nobody has ever answered my request to post pictures of attractive girls they are ****ing that they aren't paying and that aren't using them in any way.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

The irony is this is a very negative and whining post lol.

How about not responding to "people like him" if you have nothing useful to say outside of "man up"?

There is nothing insightful in your post at all. Just shaming someone because you don't like what they have to say.

It's a discussion forum.

You seem to want it to be a monologue forum full of head nodding, enabling, yes men in a circle jerk hug box.

 

[Urbanyst]

It's a discussion forum.

You seem to want it to be a monologue forum full of head nodding, enabling, yes men in a circle jerk hug box.

Not at all.

I'm just pointing out the fact that the OP is asking for help he was responding by giving him the middle finger. Just calling him out and giving him a little taste of his own medicine.

Don't dish it out if you can't take it lol.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Not at all.

I'm just pointing out the fact that the OP is asking for help he was responding by giving him the middle finger. Just calling him out and giving him a little taste of his own medicine.

Don't dish it out if you can't take it lol.

I can call every one of these people out by asking them to show me pictures of hot girls they **** for free. Nobody has been able to do it so far. Not even Mr. "Pimp".