Do white dudes “win” at online dating?

[Leisuresuitlegend]

There’s been many threads in the past in regards to whining about white dudes getting the most replies etc. using OLD. But are they really “winning”? IMO they aren’t in the slightest.

Not just any white dude scoops up the majority of women using OLD. It’s the tops in looks white dudes in their area that does.

Now if those tops in looks white dudes get the majority of replies, dates, sexx etc are they really “winning”?

Only if they don’t mind being number X on the list of tops in looks white dudes she’s slept with. And only if they don’t mind that the vast majority of chicks using OLD are shyt quality no matter how “good” they might look. Don’t kid yourselves. Women who use OLD sites are on them for a reason. And it’s not a good one. So don’t feel bad if you aren’t white and the tops in looks of white dudes in your area that “succeed” with OLD. Because “winning” on OLD is the equivalent of being a garbage man. You “clean up” yet are only collecting trash.

 

[Dingo]

Ugh... Here we go again...

 

[Solomon]

ha ha ha

OLD white men are the most desired this isn't a punchline this is a fact

Proof but men will deny empirical evidence @Danger

More evidence
Does this mean men of color can't win online? no, but you have to be in the top 10%

IMO for men of color you better of hitting the field or doing social circle gaming

 

[Urbanyst]

High VALUE men clean up in all areas of life when it comes to women and sex.

All other men get the leftovers.

 

[Bible_Belt]

“winning” on OLD is the equivalent of being a garbage man. You “clean up” yet are only collecting trash.

A buddy of mine was a garbage man for a while. He got all kinds of free sh!t. People throw away good stuff all the time, out of accident, ignorance, or whatever. One man's trash is another man's treasure. I think that is a good description of on-line dating.

 

[Fruitbat]

White dudes win with white and Asian women mainly.

There are more white women willing to date black men than white men willing to date black women. Black women have it worse than black men.

Issue is, that black men often want to date white women. Everybody wants to date white women it seems. So white women are truly top of the tree. I've seen many black/asian dudes with tons going for them, who settle for a fat white slvt because she;s white.

Asian men are below black men. A lot of white chicks find black guys attractive, rarely Asians.

The issue is as much that everyone wants a white GF as much as white guys are top of the tree. If we like a woman of our own race, we have every other dude on planet earth in compatition with us. Which makes them spoiled.

There are massive excptions of course to all of this.

 

[guru1000]

I have an olive complexion. So the "white" men rule OLD mantra is nonsense.

Also, two-dimensional pics do not reveal how you truly appear IRL as variables such as lighting, angles, motion, mannerisms, physiology, and behavioral acumen lend to your physical projection. So as much as we ALL know that Naughty Ninja loves OLD, I would recommend men to test their pics with different angles, lighting, and cropping on sites like photofeeler.com to gauge how their pics appeal to the objective eye.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

ha ha ha

OLD white men are the most desired this isn't a punchline this is a fact

Proof but men will deny empirical evidence @Danger

More evidence
Does this mean men of color can't win online? no, but you have to be in the top 10%

IMO for men of color you better of hitting the field or doing social circle gaming

The point I was making is there has been a lot of dudes that complain about their race being the issue with not succeeding with OLD and assuming only if you are white you “succeed” with OLD which isn’t true at all. Only the top white dudes in looks, physique etc. “succeed” if you want to call it that. And even those dudes are simply sharing the next top OLD male’s leftovers which the majority of the chicks are all damaged goods regardless. So being a trash collector isn’t “winning” anything.


Being a top % male in online dating is the equivalent of wasting your time becoming successful, wealthy, and working out etc. only to hang out in the hood/ trailer park.


I looked at OLD as nothing more than pictures on a screen. As if I had a catalog of chicks in a magazine and was putting post it notes on them. Meaning I had zero emotional attachment, never “fantasized” how “perfect” this one may be off looks or conversation, and didn’t care if I had gotten zero replies.


I’d send out the most ridiculous “complimentary” shyt I could think of (as let’s face it those chicks are insecure basket cases with paper thin egos.) and it worked like a mofo. After a few months I had 33 thirty three pages filled with different chicks replies and unsolicited emails. I also used my absolute most flattering pics. Got tons of noodz, numbers etc.


How I looked at noodz? One could get c0cky and think they’re an “All-star”. I looked at it though I was getting them how many freaking dudes do these chicks send their n00dz to and they’re most likely “stock” pics in their phones they take of themselves to send to the next dude they try to lure in. So they meant little to me.


Replies? Yes I had ten replies a page. 33 pages. All I looked at that was the SAME chicks that reply to me are replying to X number of other dudes.


Numbers? Talked with countless. I can’t remember ONE chick that didn’t have serious issues. Not one. You’d be amazed the shyt they’ll tell a perfect stranger on the phone if they feel comfortable enough.


Eventually I had enough of the nonsense, left three years ago and never went back.

Anyone who brags about getting chicks off online dating because they’re “high value and alpha” enough as if these chicks automatically morph into high quality, angelic, wifey material is doing nothing but attempting to polish turds that just need to be flushed.

No dude really “wins” at OLD.

 

[raider87]

An 8/10 male won't do well on OLD for the most part.

I cant match with anything decent online but in real life do very well... It is night and day. Why?

1. It's a lot easier to be the best looking guy in the room/the best-looking guy she talked to that week in person then it is to be the best looking guy on all of online dating(the whole city basically).

2. My sense of humor really isn't on display online

3. There is no raw physicality present online

4. People tend to look better in person than in photos at least without filters

5. There is no demeanor or dominance present online



I do know some guys that aren't really too attractive but have that party lifestyle and the pictures to back it up, they seem to do okay on there or at least that is the image they present.

Others that appeal specifically to Asian or Jewish women do well on Asian or Jewish dating sites.

Great post. I have random women compliment me on my looks in public & I struggle on tinder to get a decent match.

 

[Solomon]

High VALUE men clean up in all areas of life when it comes to women and sex.

All other men get the leftovers.

and let me guess you're one of these "High value men" right?

bwhahahahahahah

 

[beforeimgone]

ha ha ha

OLD white men are the most desired this isn't a punchline this is a fact

Proof but men will deny empirical evidence @Danger

More evidence
Does this mean men of color can't win online? no, but you have to be in the top 10%

IMO for men of color you better of hitting the field or doing social circle gaming

In the field daily. Lol

There’s been many threads in the past in regards to whining about white dudes getting the most replies etc. using OLD. But are they really “winning”? IMO they aren’t in the slightest.

Not just any white dude scoops up the majority of women using OLD. It’s the tops in looks white dudes in their area that does.

Now if those tops in looks white dudes get the majority of replies, dates, sexx etc are they really “winning”?

Only if they don’t mind being number X on the list of tops in looks white dudes she’s slept with. And only if they don’t mind that the vast majority of chicks using OLD are shyt quality no matter how “good” they might look. Don’t kid yourselves. Women who use OLD sites are on them for a reason. And it’s not a good one. So don’t feel bad if you aren’t white and the tops in looks of white dudes in your area that “succeed” with OLD. Because “winning” on OLD is the equivalent of being a garbage man. You “clean up” yet are only collecting trash.

Lol yes. I collect trash from online for a quick fvck then I send it back to the landfill.

I'm not sure how white dudes fare, but I'm relentless. I'll hit a chick up and get ignored on most occasions on OLD. If I see her Page again and a week has passed, I'll hit her up again. Eventually she will respond and I get laid or get blown out. Being persistent is my magic bullet. Besides being overconfident as fvck

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

In the field daily. Lol



Lol yes. I collect trash from online for a quick fvck then I send it back to the landfill.

I'm not sure how white dudes fare, but I'm relentless. I'll hit a chick up and get ignored on most occasions on OLD. If I see her Page again and a week has passed, I'll hit her up again. Eventually she will respond and I get laid or get blown out. Being persistent is my magic bullet. Besides being overconfident as fvck

dude I get it.

I've heard so much wtf is this real life? shyt from chicks personally on old over the phone I never bothered with them after. I mean shyt I couldn't make up if I tried.

tats, single moms, hoes were the tip of the iceberg. one after the other I couldn't count were so fcked up I would be lowering myself to waste any time on them. incest, drug addicts, alcoholics, insane chicks, I could go on for days. I swear I wish I had recorded and posted all the shyt I had. eventually I got bored with it and just left.

 

[beforeimgone]

dude I get it.

I've heard so much wtf is this real life? shyt from chicks personally on old over the phone I never bothered with them after. I mean shyt I couldn't make up if I tried.

tats, single moms, hoes were the tip of the iceberg. one after the other I couldn't count were so fcked up I would be lowering myself to waste any time on them. incest, drug addicts, alcoholics, insane chicks, I could go on for days. I swear I wish I had recorded and posted all the shyt I had. eventually I got bored with it and just left.

Why? Low hanging fruit is an easy way to empty a load

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

Why? Low hanging fruit is an easy way to empty a load

I'll pass. if you can meet and get normal chicks there's no need to lower yourself for easy trash that have God knows what.

I don't care what she looked like vast majority of them were toxic garbage.

but if you prefer to sift through sewage. have at it

 

[wifehunter]

 

[beforeimgone]

I'll pass. if you can meet and get normal chicks there's no need to lower yourself for easy trash that have God knows what.

I don't care what she looked like vast majority of them were toxic garbage.

but if you prefer to sift through sewage. have at it

Sounds like u believe that OLD women are of less value than women that don't use it. You r incorrect. Women are women. Most of them are broken. It doesn't matter what medium u use to bag them

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

Sounds like u believe that OLD women are of less value than women that don't use it. You r incorrect. Women are women. Most of them are broken. It doesn't matter what medium u use to bag them

That's just an excuse you need to believe to "justify" your own insecurities and chase low quality trash.

might as well say women that live in dive bars are women therefore "all women live in dive bars".

there are women that prostitute therefore "all women are prostitutes" yet a prostitute will take practically any man that offers her money, other women won't take every mans money for a date let alone sleep with thrm because they have a type they actually want and have lives.

 

[Fruitbat]

There is a slightly higher percentage of women online with mega red flags, but the idea that OLD is a sewer and real life is where better women hang out is not true.

Look at all the stories on here about the utter trash met in bars. Bars are an even surer-firer way to meet trash.

OLD has a lot of women who don't like drinking in bars. It also has a lot of women who are like me - have a full on career with few options through work and social life.

It seems in the states, it is more socially acceptable to just approach women and laid back in that respect so things may be different. A huge number of people meet each other online here. There is no beach to go and talk to women, it's cold. Other than that, you are hanging around clubs, trying to hit on work colleagues/friends......it's not that easy to do here, unless you just approach women in the street, and that's kind of what OLD is, without the risk of her being married etc.

Also, guys under 8/10 do well on OLD. I do. I get at least 3 dates a month if I work, sometimes more. It's bars and clubs where I fail, where it IS all about looks. You are in a public space, she is picking a guy, with everyone watching. She will not look deeper. So OLD isn't any more looks based. ONLY FOR SLOOTs on OLD with underwear pics in their profile.

If was in it for "hot chicks to scree" then I doubt I would do well, but there is a whole other world of OLD called "emotionally mature people looking for actual partners". Plus, I would wager all those knocking OLD used Tinder and POF and not a decent paysite.

 

[Solomon]

There is a slightly higher percentage of women online with mega red flags, but the idea that OLD is a sewer and real life is where better women hang out is not true.

Look at all the stories on here about the utter trash met in bars. Bars are an even surer-firer way to meet trash.

OLD has a lot of women who don't like drinking in bars. It also has a lot of women who are like me - have a full on career with few options through work and social life.

It seems in the states, it is more socially acceptable to just approach women and laid back in that respect so things may be different. A huge number of people meet each other online here. There is no beach to go and talk to women, it's cold. Other than that, you are hanging around clubs, trying to hit on work colleagues/friends......it's not that easy to do here, unless you just approach women in the street, and that's kind of what OLD is, without the risk of her being married etc.

Also, guys under 8/10 do well on OLD. I do. I get at least 3 dates a month if I work, sometimes more. It's bars and clubs where I fail, where it IS all about looks. You are in a public space, she is picking a guy, with everyone watching. She will not look deeper. So OLD isn't any more looks based. ONLY FOR SLOOTs on OLD with underwear pics in their profile.

If was in it for "hot chicks to scree" then I doubt I would do well, but there is a whole other world of OLD called "emotionally mature people looking for actual partners". Plus, I would wager all those knocking OLD used Tinder and POF and not a decent paysite.

Lol this most of you guy's problem meeting women at bars/.OLD on this site

The best place to meet women is through your social circle, especially if you have one with hot women

I rather still meet a chick at bar than OLD, but guess what there more places to meet chicks than bars/OLD

quality women for the most parts can be found doing quality things such as hiking, working out, salsa dancing, fashion events etc

Stop thinking that women can only be found in bars and OLD

If you only approach chicks at OLD/bars you're doing it wrong and your perception is gonna be limited

When you do 1000 approaches at those other venues that I mentioned let me know what you think than

 

[Fruitbat]

Lol this most of you guy's problem meeting women at bars/.OLD on this site

The best place to meet women is through your social circle, especially if you have one with hot women

I rather still meet a chick at bar than OLD, but guess what there more places to meet chicks than bars/OLD

quality women for the most parts can be found doing quality things such as hiking, working out, salsa dancing, fashion events etc

Stop thinking that women can only be found in bars and OLD

If you only approach chicks at OLD/bars you're doing it wrong and your perception is gonna be limited

When you do 1000 approaches at those other venues that I mentioned let me know what you think than

I love hiking but hiking is 100% middle aged couples here and I doubt there are 5 single hot women in the UK who do it.

All the other things involve me changing what I am interested in and living a fraudulent life.

Happy with screwing/meeting chicks off OLD and the odd one socially. Remoddellng my life to meet women isn't my thing.

My mate does stuff like this and screws tons of chicks. I just don't want it that bad. He's a confirmed narc and only gets validation from screwing women.