Looking for advice with my 2nd child on the way

[RichardTheFrog]

There's no "implying" anything .

Did you BOTH agree to get pregnant? If not then this was a deviant move on her part.

She HAS locked you down. If things don't work out between you two she now has income for the next 18 years.

Depending on who has custody and how much she makes.

 

[sazc]

@RichardTheFrog depends on the state of residence

 

[Glassguy]

It is the same woman I posted about in the past, but why is this a recipe for disaster?

Based on her being a wh0re in your other 200 threads about her, I would say a paternity test would be imminent as soon as the baby pops out if I were you.

This thread makes me happy in a very vindictive sort of way. We all told you to get away from this attention seeking tramp, now you are stuck with her for the next 18 years. Well, only if you're not smart enough to get a test done.

Sometimes people do actually get what they deserve after all

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Do you see why I have lost motivation to go out? This is the end result of everything? Custody disputes and child support payments? What fun.

Even the fat girl with 4 cats from POF said her life's dream was to become a stay at home mom.

And then I suppose it would be my fault for not being "exciting enough" to keep her interest or some retarded logic like that. She would live off my child support and curse the fact that she wasn't able to squeeze alimony out of me.

All for sex that I could have gotten from a hooker for $150.

 

[Glassguy]

Something tells me Randal Johnson and Frog are the same poster.

Yep, I am sure of it.

I think his/their mom threw the baby away and named the after birth after reading some of the stupid crap they post.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Something tells me Randal Johnson and Frog are the same poster.

Yep, I am sure of it.

I think his/their mom threw the baby away and named the after birth after reading some of the stupid crap they post.

I think you hang out with ugly girls and call them hot. I actually know this because you've posted pictures.

I also KNOW that you're a humongous flaming vagina with no balls. But I suppose I'll get kicked off for defending myself.

 

[dude99]

Hey all. So my girlfriend (whom most of you are familiar with) is pregnant with my child and she's moving in to live with me and my kid. We've been together for just under a year. We each have a 9 year old, from seperate relationships. (I took on the father role for her kid and she loves that.) I'm sure many of you will tell me I made a huge mistake and that she's (still) going to leave me in the future. However, I'm looking for advice and insight from my fellow DJs.

Make her sign a contract (like a prenup) that she is entitled to nothing. Not half the equity in your home, not alimony for "common law living together" no child support for her other kid should she decide 1 -5 years from now in that you've become boring but still good enough to pay the bills

 

[dude99]

Which is interesting because before we met, when she was single, she was actively on birth control and making sure guys wore rubber (I know this because one of her best friends mentioned this to me)

Just looking for insight on your opinions about this and how to proceed

So she was on the pill. Meets you then gets pregnant?

Dude i smell a girl with a plan. See my previous message.

 

[dude99]

It is the same woman I posted about in the past, but why is this a recipe for disaster?

Dude. Really?

 

[BeExcellent]

I agree a paternity test is of the utmost importance.

Another reason NOT to move her in with you.

You might be the wealthiest man she was having sex with rather than the only one. That would be a clever trick for her to have you paying for & raising another man's child if she were to pull it off. Until these questions are answered (AFTER the birth) do NOT turn your 9 year old's life to crap by moving her in.

Obviously she has worn you down. You are afraid of this woman's wrath when your #1 concern ought to be the emotional wellbeing of your 9 year old. Don't be a bad dad to the kid you already have. Read that again.

This woman does NOT care about your 9 year old. She cares about herself, your money, the baby, her 9 year old, you, & your 9 year old IN THAT DESCENDING ORDER.

Tell her to move nearby but not into your home. If she is understanding and agreeable to do that at her own expense then I withdraw my opinion expressed in the above paragraph.

Tell her you have reconsidered the moving in because you are concerned about your 9 year old.

Your kid is supposed to be your top priority. Stop being an ass hat to the kid you already have. Time to step up to the plate dad.

 

[Glassguy]

I think you hang out with ugly girls and call them hot. I actually know this because you've posted pictures.

I also KNOW that you're a humongous flaming vagina with no balls. But I suppose I'll get kicked off for defending myself.

The same "ugly girls" that you were calling hot and arguing with BigNeil over being hotter than his girls. Don't be a hater because I figured out your little tricks kid.

It was actually quite easy to do.

And I don't pull anything below 8s outside of the occasional 7.5 that can't wait to smash. Just as my pics showed.

Nice try kid.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

The same "ugly girls" that you were calling hot and arguing with BigNeil over being hotter than his girls. Don't be a hater because I figured out your little tricks kid.

It was actually quite easy to do.

And I don't pull anything below 8s outside of the occasional 7.5 that can't wait to smash. Just as my pics showed.

Nice try kid.

I'm not a kid. You are.

I was referring to pictures of plain looking girls you posted possibly a month ago.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Hey all. So my girlfriend (whom most of you are familiar with) is pregnant with my child and she's moving in to live with me and my kid. We've been together for just under a year. We each have a 9 year old, from seperate relationships. (I took on the father role for her kid and she loves that.) I'm sure many of you will tell me I made a huge mistake and that she's (still) going to leave me in the future. However, I'm looking for advice and insight from my fellow DJs.

My advice is to get a DNA test once the baby is born to make sure it really is yours.

 

[Desdinova]

Hey all. So my girlfriend (whom most of you are familiar with) is pregnant with my child and she's moving in to live with me and my kid. We've been together for just under a year. We each have a 9 year old, from seperate relationships. (I took on the father role for her kid and she loves that.) I'm sure many of you will tell me I made a huge mistake and that she's (still) going to leave me in the future. However, I'm looking for advice and insight from my fellow DJs.

Remember how you said I was "triggered" for some reason by your situation? Yup, I still am.

You're going to be stuck dealing with this broad for the next 18 years. You've sealed that fate. I'm a bit pissed that you wasted everyone's time asking for advice on what to do with that bytch, and you continued to ignore everyone's advice and warnings.

I have no advice for you. I've already given it to you multiple times and all you did was wipe your ass with it and flush it down the toilet.

 

[Glassguy]

I'm not a kid. You are.

I was referring to pictures of plain looking girls you posted possibly a month ago.

Oh....the ones that even Big Neil's photo graders scored the lowest at 7.8 and the highest was 9.

Nice try kid. I know what kind of wool I pull. Go back to your serial killer mirror selfies on POF and tell them how much money you make flipping houses...which I dont believe btw. Anyone that can figure out how to make serious money can figure out how to get @ss in abundance....thats a fact).

 

[stovepipe]

I'm not the least bit surprised shes prego. This chick knows whats shes doing and locked you down. You are the perfect target to get trapped in a Cluster B's web of death.

All the time we spent trying to knock some sense into you was nothing more than a waste a time. You seemed to not care what everyone with experience was trying to tell you, yet you constantly ask for help/advice. There is still a part of me that thinks no one can be this gullible, that you're trolling us all. Either way, prepare yourself for the roller coaster ride to hell.

May God be with you

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Oh....the ones that even Big Neil's photo graders scored the lowest at 7.8 and the highest was 9.

Nice try kid. I know what kind of wool I pull. Go back to your serial killer mirror selfies on POF and tell them how much money you make flipping houses...which I dont believe btw. Anyone that can figure out how to make serious money can figure out how to get @ss in abundance....thats a fact).

Oh so you're saying my pics are the problem?

I don't make that much money yet, but I will within 2 years. Maybe not $720k, but at least $300k, but $720k isn't out of question.

I have always done much better in person than online, anyway.

 

[Glassguy]

You're a troll, as well as the same person posting under Randall Johnson. Period.

 

[randalljohnson]

I'm not the least bit surprised shes prego. This chick knows whats shes doing and locked you down. You are the perfect target to get trapped in a Cluster B's web of death.

All the time we spent trying to knock some sense into you was nothing more than a waste a time. You seemed to not care what everyone with experience was trying to tell you, yet you constantly ask for help/advice. There is still a part of me that thinks no one can be this gullible, that you're trolling us all. Either way, prepare yourself for the roller coaster ride to hell.

May God be with you

Define "locking me down." Is it

A) keeping me all for herself (not a bad thing)

Or

B) in a devious way trying to collect my money and assets and then leave me high and dry (which i don't believe, but u can be judge of that)

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Define "locking me down." Is it

A) keeping me all for herself (not a bad thing)

Or

B) in a devious way trying to collect my money and assets and then leave me high and dry (which i don't believe, but u can be judge of that)

Why are you asking for advice on this matter from this website? I find that ridiculous.