GF's Sexual Past...Might Break Up With Her

[speed dawg]

I would say you need to worry about your own one-itis.....because if you keep up like this, and she is as good as you say, she will leave your ass.

Quit worrying about her 'number'. Does she act like a sl*t, or does she act like she has some class? Only you can know this. If you are worried about other guys plowing her pretty little p*ssy and making her squirt, get over it. It definitely DID happen. But who cares.

 

[CMNILS87]

That is unrelated. This isn't about me. This about her sexual past. Yes despite my number it bothers me. Higher count means less value in my eyes

Lololololololol. Tell her you've slept with 40+ women and wait to see the look on her face. Guarantee it's one of disgust and thrn she'll talk to her chick friends and they'll say that's too many, he's a man *****. 10 is very low for a 30 year old if true. Quit being a nub and over critical of things that don't matter

 

[MG7592]

I would say you need to worry about your own one-itis.....because if you keep up like this, and she is as good as you say, she will leave your ass.

Quit worrying about her 'number'. Does she act like a sl*t, or does she act like she has some class? Only you can know this. If you are worried about other guys plowing her pretty little p*ssy and making her squirt, get over it. It definitely DID happen. But who cares.

She'll leave me cause of the Waco described her? How the fuk does that make sense. I don't treat her like she's some amazing goddess.

You can fuk off too you worthless ****

 

[MG7592]

Lololololololol. Tell her you've slept with 40+ women and wait to see the look on her face. Guarantee it's one of disgust and thrn she'll talk to her chick friends and they'll say that's too many, he's a man *****. 10 is very low for a 30 year old if true. Quit being a nub and over critical of things that don't matter

I did tell her, didn't seem to bother her much

 

[Julian]

dude if shes half of what you describe, the number is definitely MORE then 10. LOL way more.

 

[Desdinova]

She's 30 and has been with 10 other guys.

What did you expect from a 30 year old woman? A virgin? One lover? When you date childless women older than 23, you're going to be encountering high mileage. This shouldn't be a surprise.

She had 5 guys from 17-26, 5 more guys 26-30.

This sounds about right.

BUT, she is one of the nicest and most thoughtful girls I've ever met.

Many women are very nice and thoughtful. It's in their nature to be this way.

The girl is straight obsessed with me tho too.

So let me ask you this question... What make the 11th c0ck in her vagina more special than the other 10 c0cks that have been there? (I'll give you a hint... it's NOT more special.)

She sounds like a rare gem, you got a good one there

I have to ask @MG7592, what are you looking for? If you're looking to just get laid, then mileage doesn't matter. If you're looking for a good woman, you're looking in the wrong age bracket.

she was in a long on and off relationship from 17-26. 9years.

This is a huge key here.... The only good women you're going to find are in the younger age brackets. You'll have the best luck between ages 18-23. There's a reason why this woman stayed in contact with this guy for 9 years - because he's at the top of her High Score List. Guess what? She still loves that guy, and she loves him more than all the c0cks that have been in her vagina since - including yours.

If you're looking to get yourself a good woman by your side, you have to BE that guy she has difficulty letting go. You have to get in early, make your emotional imprint, and she'll stick with you. Women are like post-it notes, they lose more of their stickiness everytime the're exposed to a new surface.

 

[MG7592]

Many women are very nice and thoughtful. It's in their nature to be this way.


So let me ask you this question... What make the 11th c0ck in her vagina more special than the other 10 c0cks that have been there? (I'll give you a hint... it's NOT more special.)







I have to ask @MG7592, what are you looking for? If you're looking to just get laid, then mileage doesn't matter. If you're looking for a good woman, you're looking in the wrong age bracket.



This is a huge key here.... The only good women you're going to find are in the younger age brackets. You'll have the best luck between ages 18-23. There's a reason why this woman stayed in contact with this guy for 9 years - because he's at the top of her High Score List. Guess what? She still loves that guy, and she loves him more than all the c0cks that have been in her vagina since - including yours.

If you're looking to get yourself a good woman by your side, you have to BE that guy she has difficulty letting go. You have to get in early, make your emotional imprint, and she'll stick with you. Women are like post-it notes, they lose more of their stickiness everytime the're exposed to a new surface.

Why can't a 30 year old women be a good women? She's more mature, she's been single up until 29 with 3 relationships cause of those relatioships ended at 26. Doesn't automatically write her off as no good. Even very attractive 20-23 year old women have even with 12-20 guys. So they aren't all that better either.

She was so stuck to that guy cause she was her first and she was set on the idea of marrying her first.

And why can't I be more special? Out of all the women I've been with I can certainly say some are much more special than others. Her mom came up to me after we went out to her birthday and told me "I haven't seen her this happy in years, ever since her relationship with her ex" I make this girl happy as hell. And again I'm sure I'm the best looking dude she's ever had. I'm a bodybuilder, a fitness model, actually signed with an agency in New York, I have a social media following of around 30,000 people, I have the looks, shes told me I'm completely mind blowing in bed and amazing (which it shows, she has that after sex glow and smile on her face the rest of the day and the orgasms I give her are intense and she initiates sex just as much as me) I have the body that 99% of men will never achieve, I have the personality, I'm highly wanted by other women which attracts more women, i have the social status. So yeah I probably am more fuking special. You don't know me or her at all. You're going beyond what the question is in the first post of this thread. Which only asked "what would ylu think of a 30 year old with 10 guys" I didn't ask for your shiitty opinion on what she's like. Do your friends (if you have any) and your family (if you have one) and kill yourself.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

And again I'm sure I'm the best looking dude she's ever had. I'm a bodybuilder, a fitness model, actually signed with an agency in New York, I have a social media following of around 30,000 people, I have the looks, shes told me I'm completely mind blowing in bed and amazing (which it shows, she has that after sex glow and smile on her face the rest of the day and the orgasms I give her are intense and she initiates sex just as much as me) I have the body that 99% of men will never achieve, I have the personality, I'm highly wanted by other women which attracts more women, i have the social status. So yeah I probably am more fuking special. You don't know me or her at all. You're going beyond what the question is in the first post of this thread. Which only asked "what would ylu think of a 30 year old with 10 guys" I didn't ask for your shiitty opinion on what she's like. Do your friends (if you have any) and your family (if you have one) and kill yourself.

Oh wait a sec everyone, I didn't realize we were dealing with a certified badass here. My mistake.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Ummmm... this may be the first time I have looked for the 'dislike' option.....

 

[Desdinova]

Why can't a 30 year old women be a good women?

Because women aren't naturally wired to have inconsequential sex with multiple partners. Men are.

Even very attractive 20-23 year old women have even with 12-20 guys. So they aren't all that better either.

You have a better chance of finding an untainted, non-jaded, low mileage woman in that age range. They are more likely to stay with you.

She was so stuck to that guy cause she was her first and she was set on the idea of marrying her first.

No, it's because he got in early and made his emotional imprint on her. All the men after him aren't going to make an emotional impact on her that will be more intense than the 9 year rollercoaster he took her on. She will always love him regardless of who or what you are.

And again I'm sure I'm the best looking dude she's ever had. I'm a bodybuilder, a fitness model,

That means nothing. Women can be more interested in a fat welfare bum if he's one of the first to get in her vagina.

So yeah I probably am more fuking special.

Come back and say that when she's making contact with the 9 year rollercoaster guy.

 

[Red Legg]

If she has slept with 10 men at 30 she is a slvt and well established on the c0ck carousel....sounds like she's putting on a pretty good show though...( if she says it's been 10 men then it's really 20,women always low-ball)

 

[speed dawg]

2 things come to my mind about this thread:

1) A single 30 year old woman who isn't married, is sort of a red flag, to be honest.
2) If OP is talking about sex partner numbers, he most definitely has one-itis and will be back soon asking us to 'analyze' his situation.

I agree with Desdinova, I still think this girl is probably hung up on her first guy. That's who she wants to marry. If you want to stay with her you'll have to elevate yourself to his status in her chick mind. And stay there.

 

[exhausted]

To each their own. If it makes you that uncomfortable then you will be resenting her for it down the road.

I'd say at 30 years old should be no more than about 6- 7. That's me and I grew up near Cleveland so I'm not in a bubble.
The fact men have been acceptable to higher numbers year after year is why they keep going up in partners.

Ltr's are understandable nut banging 5 guys off dates shows she does not value herself and her future husband.

Think 1 hs sweetheart. A few ltr's in college then 2 after.

That's just my wish i suppose.

 

[Prime_Beef]

Couple of things..
1. Always double as an approximate number what she tells you. They rarely count the guys they f@ ked bit didnt orgasm or otherwise ring her bell.
2. Why early guy special? Mental memory imprinting. When people are young, on an emotional roller coaster, they have a hard time letting go. Same reason young soldiers who see combat at 19 are more likely to get ptsd than a first time 30 + year old first time same unit, same time. Way the brain works.

Good luck

 

[speed dawg]

To each their own. If it makes you that uncomfortable then you will be resenting her for it down the road.

I'd say at 30 years old should be no more than about 6- 7. That's me and I grew up near Cleveland so I'm not in a bubble.
The fact men have been acceptable to higher numbers year after year is why they keep going up in partners.

Ltr's are understandable nut banging 5 guys off dates shows she does not value herself and her future husband.

Think 1 hs sweetheart. A few ltr's in college then 2 after.

That's just my wish i suppose.

I think this is reasonable considering the reality of the world we live in.

 

[exhausted]

2 things come to my mind about this thread:

1) A single 30 year old woman who isn't married, is sort of a red flag, to be honest.
2) If OP is talking about sex partner numbers, he most definitely has one-itis and will be back soon asking us to 'analyze' his situation.

I agree with Desdinova, I still think this girl is probably hung up on her first guy. That's who she wants to marry. If you want to stay with her you'll have to elevate yourself to his status in her chick mind. And stay there.

Agreed with #1 but all of us carry hope our wife has not been with 10- 20 guys.

A lot of women will say if a girl gets into double digits she is a *****.

So some do value the count.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Yeah, knowledge is over-rated. It's good to keep some illusions in life. A relationship is a little bit like that. You tend to overlook some of the negative stuff and focus on the more positive... building each other up kind of thing.

 

[CMNILS87]

Like others said, focus on her nature and the way she treats you. Dwelling on the number will get you nowhere.

Does she constantly talk about exes? About sexual experiences? Is her sex talk focused on YOU or on "this one time, I..."

If she brags like a dude-bro, there probably is something wrong. And yeah, she could be omitting several experiences, but the fact is you will never know for sure.

What I don't get is why the number of partners ever comes up at all. When a girl/girlfriend asks me, I dodge the question. I truly don't know the number anyway. And I never, ever ask her because frankly I don't want to know, whether it's a lie or not. She'll give away her slvttiness level in other ways.

Break up with her, I'll date her and fondle her sexy bod

 

[exhausted]

Like others said, focus on her nature and the way she treats you. Dwelling on the number will get you nowhere.

Does she constantly talk about exes? About sexual experiences? Is her sex talk focused on YOU or on "this one time, I..."

If she brags like a dude-bro, there probably is something wrong. And yeah, she could be omitting several experiences, but the fact is you will never know for sure.

What I don't get is why the number of partners ever comes up at all. When a girl/girlfriend asks me, I dodge the question. I truly don't know the number anyway. And I never, ever ask her because frankly I don't want to know, whether it's a lie or not. She'll give away her slvttiness level in other ways.

I'm like you. I honestly dont know but have an idea of mine, but i never want to know my companions count unless red flags pop up.
My ex told but i didnt ask or want to know. She more told me as she confided in me about every thing. Not many girls do that.


The best thing if u truly like her do NOT ask as it can be a bother down the road.

 

[marmel75]

She's 30 and has been with 10 other guys. What do you guys think? Too high? I was thinking I was number 6-7 based off the things she told me and by saying she "hasn't had very many partners." So when I found out 10 I was in complete shock. Now I know you're all saying double or triple the number but I really believe her. I originally guessed I was her 8th (purposely over guessed what I actually thought) and she could have stopped me there and said yeah 8, but she said no 10 others. It wasn't until the 5th time we hung out we finally had sex so she's not easy. She had 5 guys from 17-26, 5 more guys 26-30.

BUT, she is one of the nicest and most thoughtful girls I've ever met. She's very attractive, gets tons of attention, makes six figures, doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, no partying, does have 3 tattooos unfortunately, eats healthy, works out, great body, very smart, athletic, very close with her family, and she claims every guy she ever had sex with, she had gone on many dates with, had a connection to, cared about. 3 of the 10 were boyfriends, one of them was kinda almost a boyfriend, she said she doesn't consider it cause it wasnt quite serious enough, and the 6 others were guys she went on dates with, but it just happened to not work out in the end.

The girl is straight obsessed with me tho too. She pursued me, I ignored her the first 3 times cause I was talking to other girls. She was persistent, she said she can't describe the feeling I give her, her mom came up to me and told me she hasn't seen her this happy in years, she'll do anything for me, the sex is great, it just felt right from the beginning. Just immediate strong sexual chemistry and compatibility that just felt so right. And she's told me sex with me is just completely mind blowing and she brags to her friends about it and me as a whole.

So despite all that, I'm still considering breaking up with her for having 10 previous partners. Which I realize actually isn't bad for a hot 30 year old, since I know plenty of girls 18-24 year old girls with 8-20 partners. But it still bothers the hell out of me. I've heard stuff to that a girls ability to bond with another guy diminishes after having so many partners


What do ya'll think? Gf material or no

Pointless to even worry about.