Abundance Mentality is a wishful thinking crutch for the needy.

[switch7]

When you have actual abundance you automatically have abundance mentality. It's as automatic as breathing and requires no effort. It simply is the state you exist in.

Getting the mentality first in order to get ACTUAL abundance requires getting over yourself & requires that you STOP caring one iota what anybody else thinks.

It's also habit driven as success in anything is. Get into the habit of social interaction with those around you at all times. By doing this you learn social calibration and overcome fear.

Fear is what drives all scarcity thinking. Fear of rejection, fear of looking stupid, fear of what others think or say....fear fear and more fear.

They are ALL imaginary fears. Change your fundamental thinking, habituate yourself to the change, and your results WILL be different.

@BeExcellent can you recommend any books on overcoming fear?

 

[Urbanyst]

10/10 is considered 100% mathematically. If someone's taking a class and gets 100% on a test that means he/she got a perfect score.

If you rate a girl 10/10 you're giving her a perfect score.

I could give a rats @$$ about a rating system that was created by man through means of technology. Means nothing.

10 = 100% of straight men would f*ck her. Give or take.
9 = 90% of straight men would f*ck her.
2 = 20% of straight men would f*ck her.

You get the idea. Its not about perfection. Its about f*ckability.

 

[Julian]

10 = 100% of straight men would f*ck her. Give or take.
9 = 90% of straight men would f*ck her.
2 = 20% of straight men would f*ck her.

You get the idea. Its not about perfection. Its about f*ckability.

can you please NOT nerd out and put some corny lame autistic rating system on females? Either shes hot/fukkable or shes not. its as simple as that. yes or no. not oh wait she a 6.37 blablabla like dude stfu. thanks.

 

[BeExcellent]

@BeExcellent can you recommend any books on overcoming fear?

There are so many. Most of the books I listed in the early posts in Success Starts Between Your Ears in the Wealth & Success forum address this.

I like some of the blogs on the web, especially John Maxwell's. Napoleon Hill has books about overcoming fear & so do many psychologists. So my suggestion would be to Google a bit and find an author who resonates with you. Or go to a Barnes & Noble. Maybe you can browse some good books and work in an approach or two while you're at it.

Fear is a personal struggle and each of us has differing degrees of fear, and different triggers.

I used to have a fear of being poor when I'm old and becoming a burden to my kids. I harnessed that fear to help fuel my ambition toward success (along with several other deep motivators). I no longer have that fear. Action slayed it.

 

[Urbanyst]

can you please NOT nerd out and put some corny lame autistic rating system on females? Either shes hot/fukkable or shes not. its as simple as that. yes or no. not oh wait she a 6.37 blablabla like dude stfu. thanks.

Some women are more f*ckable than others.

I'm not going to craft my posts based on your standards and opinions. Sorry.