How Strict Are You About Disrespect?

[Billtx49]

Disrespect ? Zero tolerance.
You treat her well, expect the same from her.
That aspect requires 50/50.

 

[Trump]

How long do you think she will stick around, when she does not respect you? Not long..

Who cares? What does one thing have to do with the other? Are you telling me you wouldn't do it for a 27 year old Hollywood actress because she may or may not do something in the future?

Eventually her vagina will dry up, when she gets sick of dealing with a beta, spineless excuse of a man, who cannot stand up for himself..

That value and sex will only be TEMPORARY up untill she finds someone more attractive who has self respect and is more of a man..

What are you left with after she dumps you? Nothing man!

Your self esteem will have tanked, your dignity in ruins.. Is it really worth it?

Again what does one thing have to do with the other? Experience, image, and sex is more important than anything else.

"Hey, did you have the 2nd date with that good looking actress that everyone wants a piece of?"

"No bro, I brought her home and she asked to have sex, but I felt she disrespected me a bit while we were in the car. We got home and again, the biggest star in Hollywood wanted to have sex with me but I'm alpha, I don't take any disrespect so I sent her home without having sex with her. She also wanted to hang out this weekend but I told her I'm alpha."

"So what are you doing this weekend?"

"Nothing bro. I'm going to sit at home alone in my alpha condo, with my alpha clothes and have my alpha car parked in my garage. No one puts me down."

 

[Trump]

I say again... if you do not like the way you are being treated then you should walk away. If you are willing to tolerate behavior in the interest of getting regular sex... well.... then I guess it doesn't bother you enough to get rid of that trade off. I'm not going to judge anyone on that. Men should do what they want.

Fair and decent point.

But if you have more than one chick then you won't put up with anything except fun and happiness because you don't have to. One chick stops being fun, go get another one.

Very good in theory. Reality is much much different.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

01. How many incidents before you dump her?

02. How do you deal with smaller offences?

03. Are you likely to forgive and overlook disrespect, if she is hot and is of high value, successful etc?

From my own experience, it's better to cut your losses and get rid, sooner than later.. A girl who is going disrespect you, doesn't actually care about you, or value you..

Don't drag it out, hoping for change..

Some woman are just bichy by nature, and will say and do things, that will feel rude or insensitive.. They don't even realise how disrespectful or rude they are, it's just the way they are.. TOXIC

The question is: Does the level of respect you get from others for being with her "override" the level of disrespect she gives you.

In other words would you stay with a person who continually disrespects you simply because others respect you just for being seen with her.

Better to worry about your self respect above all.

 

[Roober]

I've come to terms with that fact that everyone doesn't view disrespect the same way. Which is why communication is so important.

A woman might do something that she doesn't believe to be disrespectful. You have to educated women on how you expect to be treated and if you're not on the same page you can agree to disagree and part ways.

I have a zero tolerance policy for the most part. If a woman disrespects me I tell her that her behavior is not something I will tolerate. If she becomes defensive, b*tchy or argumentative, she is out the door. If she apologizes I give her another chance.

This is pretty much it right here. Nobody is perfect, we all make mistakes. We also come from different backgrounds. For example, some cultures find it disrespectful to not ask for seconds when eating at their house.

I expect a woman to be respectful because I treat her with respect. If you find you are regularly being disrespected, then you probably need to look at yourself and the way you treat women. Other than my current situation with my ex wife, I don't think I have had a woman really disrespect me. At least, it wasn't anything that I really considered disrespect.

If someone does do something and you call them out on it. The response relies on two things,

1) your response to their disrespect. If you are a d1ck about it, you can't expect her to respect you because you showed your weakness in reacting strongly and you didn't treat her with respect

2) her maturity. If she can't acknowledge her mistake and learn from it, you need to move on. If she flips out or overreacts, she is a child and needs a caretaker not a man

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Very strict.

Read my last thread about my little afc rampage after making out and almost f8cking my former oneitis. She saw my afc me years ago and it came back out after all the pvssy, bullsh1t and wins with loads and loads of women the last years. Im still not cold as ice like I claimed to be.

But after the disrespect of my male buddies in the house that came in while knowing I like that girl I left the joint eventually and deleted them everywhere.

They know that they disrespected me but they also know that they lost me.

I told my former oneitis while making out with her this is going to be the last time that you see me. Because you did drugs (first time in her life that night).

I told her a woman that is going to raise my kids used drugs? Never.

She said ''I knew you didnt like that, I knew it'' (5 times in a row)

She was undressing on top of me when the idiots came in the room to f8ck sh1t up for me.

She left to sit on the lap of my buddy and I left the joint. Her friend told me to leave and that she was fed up with talking to me.

I removed them all from my life. This is a good example of walking away for good and never ever look back.

People won't respect you if you don't respect yourself. I made a statement and I will carry it for the rest of my life. I devalued her in the end even though she knows I have a weak spot for her, couldn't hide that I was drunk.

But the statement and living by that choise you made is all you got as a man. Even though she works at a bank and makes a lot of money, even though her a$$ is perfect, even though she got style and her face and shes a model. She hops from my lap in 2 mins to another ones lap. A true DJ knows he can seduce a better girl who doesn't disrespect him.

Word.

And this makes me stronger, all of my plates know that they can't disrespect me, if they do, im gone.

Remember to f8ck them hard always, make them ***, be the bad boy that they crave for. If you walk, they will always keep fantasizing about you. And if you play it well, the hamster will explode and they will start to come back.

You did good but you should have left out your last sentence... because who gives a F if they start to come back, by then you should be long gone.

 

[Thorninmyside]

The older I've become, the more brutal. In my 20s I was passive, in my 30s I was passive/aggressive and would blow up at the last straw. Now in my 40s, I can honestly walk away with NFG if the offense warrants it.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

I've come to terms with that fact that everyone doesn't view disrespect the same way. Which is why communication is so important.

A woman might do something that she doesn't believe to be disrespectful. You have to educated women on how you expect to be treated and if you're not on the same page you can agree to disagree and part ways.

I have a zero tolerance policy for the most part. If a woman disrespects me I tell her that her behavior is not something I will tolerate. If she becomes defensive, b*tchy or argumentative, she is out the door. If she apologizes I give her another chance.

ROFL LOL.... A woman apologizing... now that's a good one.

A woman will make everything your fault, even if what she says makes no sense... YOU are the one who F up.

 

[Desdinova]

01. How many incidents before you dump her?

One major one gets one warning. If she's got an orbiter she wants to hang out with, she gets one warning about it. If she comes back to me and says "I won't get rid of my friends for anybody", then she's gone.

02. How do you deal with smaller offences?

The same way. I won't tolerate garbage. There's no need to when there are lots of women out there.

03. Are you likely to forgive and overlook disrespect, if she is hot and is of high value, successful etc?

Nope. There's no amount of looks, money or sex that will cause me to put up with bull5hit. I'm better off fvcking my hand.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The treating you real good in public but disrespect in private is not the majority of these situations. With that situation you can spend time in public, only see her in private for intimacy and your golden. The disrespect in private is likely to distance herself but she likes having you in public. Most of the time one who disrespect you in private will disrespect you in public.

 

[dude99]

What if the chick treats you well in public, and everyone can see you have a good looking girl and it helps with your image, and she gives you good sex, but doesn't treat you great at home? Still walk away?

In laymans terms, go out with a good looking girl Friday/Saturday and be somewhat beta, or stay at home Friday/Saturday night and be alpha?

I think 99% of the men on this site, heck 99% men in the North America, would take enormous hits from a young good looking girl if she was giving him sex and helped his image.

This site acts like young good looking girls wanting to have a boyfriend to have sex with grow on trees.

Date other women.


Disrespect is disrespect. Public or private.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I don't mean this toward anyone here in particular, but I think demanding respect is pathetic. If you have to demand it, you've lost already. Demands will get you lip service but not actual respect. I also think one's own personal insecurities play a large part in feeling disrespected, especially by women. The more secure you are with yourself, the less you are concerned.

So the question of what to do when disrespected is much like the popular 'how do I get my ex back?' By the time you're asking that question, it's already over.

 

[Trump]

Did you just get a girlfriend for the first time or something? The rest of us have had 5-10 girlfriends, we know they are replaceable

Not sure what that has to do with anything.

It just seems this forum, and men in general, would not replace a good looking young girl who gives them sex and helps their image and goes on vacation with them at a few small signs of disrespect.

The way the questions are asked in this forum, the way the answers are given in this forum, the way the system is, the scarcity of young good looking decent with little baggage, suddenly we are alpha and James Bond and can get any women we want at our will?

It just seems far fetched to me. But hey, maybe I've misjudged everybody and am completely wrong. We are all smooth and can get any young women we want at a moments notice.

 

[wifehunter]

How strict are you about breathing air? Would you try to breath toxic fumes like gasoline, methane, paint thinner, or dead bodies?

 

[Urbanyst]

ROFL LOL.... A woman apologizing... now that's a good one.

A woman will make everything your fault, even if what she says makes no sense... YOU are the one who F up.

Which is why none of my relationships have last longer than a year lol.

 

[Urbanyst]

Can she apologized and do it again ?

If she does it again then she was never truly sorry. So that's when you drop her.

Again.. I've never had a LTR last longer than a year. Used to think I was the problem. And maybe I am. I want a partner who consistently shows respect and commitment. Yet to meet such a woman. If a woman would rather sh*t test me than enjoy my company.. I don't know what I need her for.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Either way my friend its not demanding. Its a simple choice whether or not you choose to be around such situations. Or people.

I very much agree. RangerMike made some good points earlier along those lines.