Abundance Mentality is a wishful thinking crutch for the needy.

[Leisuresuitlegend]

If Abundance Mentality weren’t a wishful thinking crutch for the needy you wouldn’t need “abundance mentality” to begin with as you’d actually have an abundance of women or you’d be a whole complete person on your own without needing others to fill a void.

Abundance Mentality = imaginary friends coping mechanism. Big difference between mentality and actual reality.


Think about it.

 

[Dash Riprock]

If Abundance Mentality weren’t a wishful thinking crutch for the needy you wouldn’t need “abundance mentality” to begin with as you’d actually have an abundance of women or you’d be a whole complete person on your own without needing others to fill a void.

Abundance Mentality = imaginary friends coping mechanism. Big difference between mentality and actual reality.


Think about it.

Wrong on so many levels I'm not even going to waste time typing.

 

[skinnyguy]

If Abundance Mentality weren’t a wishful thinking crutch for the needy you wouldn’t need “abundance mentality” to begin with as you’d actually have an abundance of women or you’d be a whole complete person on your own without needing others to fill a void.

Abundance Mentality = imaginary friends coping mechanism. Big difference between mentality and actual reality.


Think about it.

Wrong. Try again.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

Wrong on so many levels I'm not even going to waste time typing.

Inform the rest of us how “abundance mentality” magically morphs you or anyone into having actual abundance in reality if you aren’t they type to be in demand in the first place?


And how needing to have “abundance mentality” translates into being a whole and complete person with or without needing others to complete you as if you aren’t a needy dude dependent on “abundance mentality”? Is this “abundance mentality” simply wishful thinking imaginary friends? Because a mentality doesn’t automatically and definitely = abundance REALITY.


Just because I could have an “abundance mentality” of friends doesn’t mean I would actually have an abundance of friends nor would it mean I’d be accepted as a friend by any and anyone I wanted to be friends with. It’s simply needy behavior, approval seeking, and delusional wishful thinking. No matter the mental gymnastics to convince yourself otherwise.


But I get it. The black and white thinking is in full swing on SS. If you disagree with the daily affirmations of wishful thinking on here you’re branded automatically a “negative” thinker. Not so. It’s just wishful thinking isn’t going to make you hit the lotto because you need the cash.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

If Abundance Mentality weren’t a wishful thinking crutch for the needy you wouldn’t need “abundance mentality” to begin with as you’d actually have an abundance of women or you’d be a whole complete person on your own without needing others to fill a void.

Abundance Mentality = imaginary friends coping mechanism. Big difference between mentality and actual reality.


Think about it.

It's simple...

All you need to do to be able to **** ANY GIRL YOU WANT is...

Maintain frame, spin plates, and keep an abundance mentality while reading the book of Pook.

You'll be banging supermodels in no time.

 

[MrJack]

Inform the rest of us how “abundance mentality” magically morphs you or anyone into having actual abundance in reality if you aren’t they type to be in demand in the first place?


And how needing to have “abundance mentality” translates into being a whole and complete person with or without needing others to complete you as if you aren’t a needy dude dependent on “abundance mentality”? Is this “abundance mentality” simply wishful thinking imaginary friends? Because a mentality doesn’t automatically and definitely = abundance REALITY.


Just because I could have an “abundance mentality” of friends doesn’t mean I would actually have an abundance of friends nor would it mean I’d be accepted as a friend by any and anyone I wanted to be friends with. It’s simply needy behavior, approval seeking, and delusional wishful thinking. No matter the mental gymnastics to convince yourself otherwise.


But I get it. The black and white thinking is in full swing on SS. If you disagree with the daily affirmations of wishful thinking on here you’re branded automatically a “negative” thinker. Not so. It’s just wishful thinking isn’t going to make you hit the lotto because you need the cash.

My take on it is that if you don't have an abundance REALITY but then you discover and LEARN to have an abundance MENTALITY you're mindset and way of thinking will adapt to that and you will just become a person who has a natural abundance REALITY.

Abundance mentality first, abundance reality second.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

My take on it is that if you don't have an abundance REALITY but then you discover and LEARN to have an abundance MENTALITY you're mindset and way of thinking will adapt to that and you will just become a person who has a natural abundance REALITY.

Abundance mentality first, abundance reality second.

That's like saying you can become rich just by wanting to be rich.

It's great to have a positive attitude, but without some substance to your product or service, and even proper financing, it's never going to happen.

 

[MrJack]

That's like saying you can become rich just by wanting to be rich.

It's great to have a positive attitude, but without some substance to your product or service, and even proper financing, it's never going to happen.

Not a comparable analogy because getting rich is gaining something physical which is money. You can't THINK you have a bunch of money and all the sudden it appears. But you can THINK in an abundance mentality way and then you have it inside your mind. It's like flipping a switch.

I'm literally doing it right now. I have a chick that I really want to contact right now but **** that because I HAVE TEN MILLION WOMEN WHO WANT MY ****. But for real I can make the want to text this girl go away just by "flipping that switch". It takes practice.

And actually... for all I know there are ten million women out there that would want my **** if I were to talk to them and spin dem plates. Now that's thinking big picture

 

[Meektrop]

I reject P.ussy all the time. I know I got abundance you don't have to f.uck to have that mentality. I just dgaf anymore, and don't put in the effort. I know for a fact I got 10 girls in my social circle ready to f.uck me whenever i ask.

 

[BeExcellent]

When you have actual abundance you automatically have abundance mentality. It's as automatic as breathing and requires no effort. It simply is the state you exist in.

Getting the mentality first in order to get ACTUAL abundance requires getting over yourself & requires that you STOP caring one iota what anybody else thinks.

It's also habit driven as success in anything is. Get into the habit of social interaction with those around you at all times. By doing this you learn social calibration and overcome fear.

Fear is what drives all scarcity thinking. Fear of rejection, fear of looking stupid, fear of what others think or say....fear fear and more fear.

They are ALL imaginary fears. Change your fundamental thinking, habituate yourself to the change, and your results WILL be different.

 

[Billtx49]

They are ALL imaginary fears.

Exactly. The future is Never as bad as we imagine it to be.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

If Abundance Mentality weren’t a wishful thinking crutch for the needy you wouldn’t need “abundance mentality” to begin with as you’d actually have an abundance of women or you’d be a whole complete person on your own without needing others to fill a void.

Abundance Mentality = imaginary friends coping mechanism. Big difference between mentality and actual reality.


Think about it.

And beware of 'fake' abundance... where you meet a cool woman, yet you don't even bother... as if you had so much abundance.

Probably more important is to avoid a scarcity mindset, where you come across as desperate, than having to have some abundant mindset [can come across as arrogant... not to mention 'incongruent' and delusional]. You want to have the mindset of... enough - I am interested in this woman... she could become part of my life, but then again it is no tragedy if she doesn't.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I reject P.ussy all the time. I know I got abundance you don't have to f.uck to have that mentality. I just dgaf anymore, and don't put in the effort. I know for a fact I got 10 girls in my social circle ready to f.uck me whenever i ask.

I am no super-Casanova such as this, but am at a stage where I can reject a less suitable woman as I can see it being more bother than it is worth.

 

[bigneil]

If Abundance Mentality weren’t a wishful thinking crutch for the needy you wouldn’t need “abundance mentality” to begin with as you’d actually have an abundance of women or you’d be a whole complete person on your own without needing others to fill a void.

Abundance Mentality = imaginary friends coping mechanism. Big difference between mentality and actual reality.


Think about it.

Winner! Most desperate attempt to justify not being able to attract enough women.

OP thinks having 2 hot girls is a fantasy??

Consider: The first time I kissed my last girlfriend, it was part of a three way kiss with an equally hot girl, and there was a third girl there who I have a second date with tomorrow. Two of them are pictured below.

That said, men are vine swingers, not branch swingers. We are actually much more faithful than women. We don't have backup women because women won't wait in reserve like men will. Women don't jump at sloppy seconds like men do. Thus, when a man is in a relationship, and the woman ends it suddenly, he becomes single, he doesn't call his backup orbiter like she does.

 

[Trump]

Inform the rest of us how “abundance mentality” magically morphs you or anyone into having actual abundance in reality if you aren’t they type to be in demand in the first place?

And how needing to have “abundance mentality” translates into being a whole and complete person with or without needing others to complete you as if you aren’t a needy dude dependent on “abundance mentality”? Is this “abundance mentality” simply wishful thinking imaginary friends? Because a mentality doesn’t automatically and definitely = abundance REALITY.

Just because I could have an “abundance mentality” of friends doesn’t mean I would actually have an abundance of friends nor would it mean I’d be accepted as a friend by any and anyone I wanted to be friends with. It’s simply needy behavior, approval seeking, and delusional wishful thinking. No matter the mental gymnastics to convince yourself otherwise.

I see your point, and personally I think we are too quick to 'dismiss' girls on here. It's not like we are CEOs, or celebrities, or rich directors.

I think 'abundance mentality' is more 'don't sacrifice your self respect, dignity, finances, health, mental well being' to be with a girl. But to not work in her, wear her down, put time and effort, I think that's where this site loses its focus.

'She said something you didn't like? Screw her! You are alpha and the prize!'
'She didn't call when she was supposed to? Screw her! There are tons of women in the sea!'
'She didn't give you sex on demand? Screw her! You are alpha, tons of women should be begging to have sex with you!'

It's like finding a good looking young women to go out with is easier than getting a chocolate bar from 7-11.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

the deluded responses itt are hilarious. you have to be capable of not only getting abundance but actually having abundance. Not some ridiculous I am superman cartoon mentality.

Cult voodoo isnt going to change the world or reality to suit you no matter how much you backflip with mental gymnastics.

there's levels to shyt in life. Not everyone is going to just achieve off a "belief". they're going to plateau even with putting work in.

"abundance mentality" is nothing more than needy, validation seeking wishful thinking. Keep living in cartoon fantasy world with a "mentality" and not reality.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

When you have actual abundance you automatically have abundance mentality. It's as automatic as breathing and requires no effort. It simply is the state you exist in.

Getting the mentality first in order to get ACTUAL abundance requires getting over yourself & requires that you STOP caring one iota what anybody else thinks.

It's also habit driven as success in anything is. Get into the habit of social interaction with those around you at all times. By doing this you learn social calibration and overcome fear.

Fear is what drives all scarcity thinking. Fear of rejection, fear of looking stupid, fear of what others think or say....fear fear and more fear.

They are ALL imaginary fears. Change your fundamental thinking, habituate yourself to the change, and your results WILL be different.

not caring what anyone else thinks means diddly squat when others could care less if you "don't care".

If you are shooting for "abundance mentality" you DO CARE. who the hell are you kidding.

"don't care your way to abundance" lmfaoo

 

[BeExcellent]

not caring what anyone else thinks means diddly squat when others could care less if you "don't care".

If you are shooting for "abundance mentality" you DO CARE. who the hell are you kidding.

"don't care your way to abundance" lmfaoo

My first paragraph says all you need to know. I myself have more choices than I have time for both personally & professionally. This affords the luxury of choice.

It's not that one doesn't care. It's more a gracious appreciation & satisfaction that casts an appealing aura. It is thankfulness for ones blessings and also ownership of ones own role in the opportunities set before you.

But if I had the wrong attitude and/or belief system I would not be in this position for it has very little to do with luck and is anything but random.

Attitude is everything.

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

My first paragraph says all you need to know. I myself have more choices than I have time for both personally & professionally. This affords the luxury of choice.

It's not that one doesn't care. It's more a gracious appreciation & satisfaction that casts an appealing aura. It is thankfulness for ones blessings and also ownership of ones own role in the opportunities set before you.

But if I had the wrong attitude and/or belief system I would not be in this position for it has very little to do with luck and is anything but random.

Attitude is everything.

Brilliant. So let's all spew "Abundance Mentality" to everyone and they can only have "Abundance Mentality" if they already have abundance. That's like asking a billionaire how to become a billionaire and he tells you: "Billionaire Mentality! If you already have billions you have "Billionaire Mentality"! Fantastic.

"Abundance Mentality" sounds more like a hoarding disorder for shut ins. What's next? Crazy Lady Cat collecting mentality? And then you walk up to non pet owners and parrot "cat collecting mentality"! LMAO.

And this "abundance mentality" affords you the choice to instead post about "abundance mentality" on SS every chance you get rather than simply not bothering with SS and actually enjoying your "abundance". Hilarious.

 

[BeExcellent]

Nothing like watching a dog chase it's tail. Hilarious indeed. Agreed.