How to become girls' f uck buddies?

[marmel75]

Or not.

Clueless is as clueless does.

 

[Serenity]

I also have made zero progress, when it comes to women at least, get me to listen!

Have you actively done anything?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Clueless is as clueless does.

Show pictures of hot girls that you've been with.

I get attention from attractive girls basically every time I go out. I ignore it every time.

I can practically guarantee that the girls you talk to would not even grab my attention for 3 seconds.

 

[marmel75]

Show pictures of hot girls that you've been with.

I get attention from attractive girls basically every time I go out. I ignore it every time.

I can practically guarantee that the girls you talk to would not even grab my attention for 3 seconds.

Lmao...right...

You are on here trying to figure out how to get laid and when hot women show you attention you ignore it.

Does that make any sense??

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Lmao...right...

You are on here trying to figure out how to get laid and when hot women show you attention you ignore it.

Does that make any sense??

Here's a story from late last year. I went out down town. At this point, I hadn't had a drop of alcohol in over a month. I went from place to place. The third place I went to was a club that charged a cover so I rarely go in there. I think this was on a Tuesday. There are two bars at this club. I went to one bar and got a juice. I walked around kind of aimlessly, then went over to the other bar and just stood around. I walked around a little bit more and then eventually just stood there.

Then this guy walks up to me and says "dude... did you know you got like 20 fine a$$ girls looking at you right now?" I said "really?" He says "yea you got it GOING ON tonight!!!"

At this point, I felt pressure to approach someone. So I walked up to this group of 4 girls standing near the middle of the club. Turns out they were "house party strippers" (and basically brain dead). We made some boring small talk and then they got bored of the boring small talk. I then got bored and left the club.

Is it my fault that I couldn't "entertain" the brain dead strippers?

Then there's the girls that work at the courthouse that think I'm hot. Then there's the girl at the bank. I could literally list like 1000 instances of this, especially when I was younger.

"Getting laid" is not a big deal. I could do that any time I want if I wanted to pay a little bit.

I find it a little frustrating that I have to wait in line for girls that I don't think are even worth my time, such as the obese girls with 4 cats that watch TV all day that I meet on POF.

I have spent basically the past 3+ months at home, showering once maybe twice per week. I am waiting for my business to start, which will happen on 9/1, which is 6 days because that is when I will be able to borrow money to flip my first house.

 

[marmel75]

Here's a story from late last year. I went out down town. At this point, I hadn't had a drop of alcohol in over a month. I went from place to place. The third place I went to was a club that charged a cover so I rarely go in there. I think this was on a Tuesday. There are two bars at this club. I went to one bar and got a juice. I walked around kind of aimlessly, then went over to the other bar and just stood around. I walked around a little bit more and then eventually just stood there.

Then this guy walks up to me and says "dude... did you know you got like 20 fine a$$ girls looking at you right now?" I said "really?" He says "yea you got it GOING ON tonight!!!"

At this point, I felt pressure to approach someone. So I walked up to this group of 4 girls standing near the middle of the club. Turns out they were "house party strippers" (and basically brain dead). We made some boring small talk and then they got bored of the boring small talk. I then got bored and left the club.

Is it my fault that I couldn't "entertain" the brain dead strippers?

Then there's the girls that work at the courthouse that think I'm hot. Then there's the girl at the bank. I could literally list like 1000 instances of this, especially when I was younger.

"Getting laid" is not a big deal. I could do that any time I want if I wanted to pay a little bit.

I find it a little frustrating that I have to wait in line for girls that I don't think are even worth my time, such as the obese girls with 4 cats that watch TV all day that I meet on POF.

I have spent basically the past 3+ months at home, showering once maybe twice per week. I am waiting for my business to start, which will happen on 9/1, which is 6 days because that is when I will be able to borrow money to flip my first house.

Your social ineptness is becoming legendary...

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Your social ineptness is becoming legendary...

Would you have gone home with those strippers that night for free?

 

[marmel75]

Would you have gone home with those strippers that night for free?

Impossible to know or answer.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Impossible to know or answer.

Would you have had 20 girls looking at you at one of the largest clubs in town?

Btw, the answer was no. Not for free.

I know much more about people than you do. I know that they are all potentially psychotic given the right circumstances. I know that they are all self-serving. I know that they are not on my side no matter how much they can pretend. I know that many of them make great liars. I know that it is stupid to trust anyone completely, and many people should not be trusted at all.

 

[marmel75]

Would you have had 20 girls looking at you at one of the largest clubs in town?

Btw, the answer was no. Not for free.

I know much more about people than you do. I know that they are all potentially psychotic given the right circumstances. I know that they are all self-serving. I know that they are not on my side no matter how much they can pretend. I know that many of them make great liars. I know that it is stupid to trust anyone completely, and many people should not be trusted at all.

I could care less how many of them are looking, I only care how many of them I am fvcking. And the answer would be more than you.

 

[bigneil]

It's "couldn't care less". Get it? I could not care less than I do? Yes, everyone else says it wrong too, but think about the words you are speaking.

Back on topic, f*ck buddies are based on failed relationships. You can't directly skip to that stage. Women are not seeking failures who are kinda hot.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I could care less how many of them are looking, I only care how many of them I am fvcking. And the answer would be more than you.

Not hot ones.

I've turned down girls hotter than any you could ever get.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Would you have had 20 girls looking at you at one of the largest clubs in town?

Btw, the answer was no. Not for free.

I know much more about people than you do. I know that they are all potentially psychotic given the right circumstances. I know that they are all self-serving. I know that they are not on my side no matter how much they can pretend. I know that many of them make great liars. I know that it is stupid to trust anyone completely, and many people should not be trusted at all.

Especially a stripper. It's like being able to trust a con-artist. It is what they do. But if a stripper has physical attraction she will phvck.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Especially a stripper. It's like being able to trust a con-artist. It is what they do. But if a stripper has physical attraction she will phvck.

True. Or if you have drugs she likes.

I'm just saying it can't be all "on me" for not being able to get a good conversation going with stripper party girls. Even if I did manage to, they would have forgotten about me by the next day.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

True. Or if you have drugs she likes.

I'm just saying it can't be all "on me" for not being able to get a good conversation going with stripper party girls. Even if I did manage to, they would have forgotten about me by the next day.

The drugs or the parties is the real hook for stripper girls. I got a stripper girl number last nite. They showed me the game real quick. Basically they have to be into you. Buying a drink, spending money on em in there or staring makes you submit and they won't phvck.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

True. Or if you have drugs she likes.

I'm just saying it can't be all "on me" for not being able to get a good conversation going with stripper party girls. Even if I did manage to, they would have forgotten about me by the next day.

You can just have a look they like. Phck and don't talk much only to setup the next meeting.

 

[marmel75]

It's "couldn't care less". Get it? I could not care less than I do? Yes, everyone else says it wrong too, but think about the words you are speaking.

Back on topic, f*ck buddies are based on failed relationships. You can't directly skip to that stage. Women are not seeking failures who are kinda hot.

Actually not so fast...could care less was the original term.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/video/could-care-less-or-couldnt-care-less

 

[Serenity]

I've actively walked around wanting to approach if that counts

That doesn't count, intent is not enough. Stop thinking and just do it.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You know it's easier said.

I tell myself that I have to face my fears etc. It just doesn't happen, been like this for years.

I realized there is no magic pill to get me to start enjoying life to the max, that I just have to face it head on.

Oh well it'll happen

Gotta just jump in. Like a cold swimming pool.

 

[Serenity]

You know it's easier said.

I tell myself that I have to face my fears etc. It just doesn't happen, been like this for years.

I realized there is no magic pill to get me to start enjoying life to the max, that I just have to face it head on.

Oh well it'll happen

It's not easier said. Just doing it is just as easy, you're just procrastinating. You're right, there is no magic pill. In fact there is nothing between you and how you want to be, there's a magic wall separating you from it that you seem to believe actually exists. It does not, so go ahead and take action. You feel anxious about doing something? Great, more reason to do it.