POLL: would you rather only date girls who have sex on the first date, OR only after the fifth date?

[devilkingx2]

basically, a demon appears in the road and blocks your path, he curses you to a fate of your choice, you may either ONLY date girls who would be DTF on the first date (if you play your cards right) OR only girls with the restraint, willpower, mental fortitude, lukewarm interest, etc. to resist having sex with any man until at least the fifth date.

girls who are DTF on the first date:
Pros- you're going to have more sex than ever before while dating. many types of undesirable women (women who suddenly found religion/"aren't like that anymore"/are boring prudes/etc.) will be filtered out automatically forever. Also this option has a complete lack of slvts, you'll probably never date one ever again, very high chance of meeting marriage/LTR material
Cons- if you don't play your cards right (whatever that means for the girl in particular) you won't get laid, the curse only guarantees that it was possible for you to get her into bed on the first date, not that you actually will. Also you're going to most likely meet a higher percentage of slvts for the rest of your life, making it hard to ever trust women or get into serious relationships. oh and most of the women you'd meet will have high mileage unless they're all 18, also the wording of the curse means that these women will also bang any other guy they date on the first date if he plays his cards right, rather than that you're some super special DJ for bedding her immediately.

girls who'll make you wait until the fifth date:
Pros- as part of the curse it is guaranteed that she would make any man she dates wait 5 dates, so whatever her reasoning you'll know she really is chaste/religious/looking for an LTR/whatever excuse she gives you
Cons- waaay less sex than before, way more girls who are controlling, neurotic, prudish, not very into you and stringing you along as a plan B/side dish, gold diggers, etc. if she doesn't like having sex at the beginning of the relationship what's going to happen once you get married/leave the honeymoon phase...


which is the raw deal in your opinion? which would you pick?

 

[Thorninmyside]

Demon can kiss my ass. Any girl who has a fixed number in her head can go jump. I'm not jumping through hoops to reach some magic number. I guess that would put me in the DTF1 category, but I just hate rules.

 

[Billtx49]

Demon can kiss my ass. Any girl who has a fixed number in her head can go jump. I'm not jumping through hoops to reach some magic number. I guess that would put me in the DTF1 category, but I just hate rules.

Agreed. Attraction varies, and bedding a woman should be a natural occurrence, not a rule driven option. If she's got rules about sex, it's a big sh|t test / power move giving her added control, and you can exit when you want.

 

[bigneil]

First date. By the fifth date they are definitely not that into you. If you make them come on the first date, you sort of rule.

 

[dustmuffin]

I have a three date rule. No sex after three dates I walk.

 

[Trump]

Bro what's with the 3rd option? A man: goes bankrupt, gets sick, loses his friends, loses his family, gets beaten up, goes to war, or loses his job, he doesn't kill himself.

A woman he likes doesn't have sex with him after 5 dates, and THEN he kills himself?

Holy cow these women have power.

 

[skinnyguy]

First date, because my plan is to pump and dump.

 

[devilkingx2]

Bro what's with the 3rd option? A man: goes bankrupt, gets sick, loses his friends, loses his family, gets beaten up, goes to war, or loses his job, he doesn't kill himself.

A woman he likes doesn't have sex with him after 5 dates, and THEN he kills himself?

Holy cow these women have power.

the point is that it's an eternal curse, you will have to deal with one of the two options for the rest of your life, so the third option is for any variety of never dating a woman ever again whether that means MGTOW, turning gay, kiling yourself, etc.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Very easy choice. Option 2 because you will soon tire of option 1 which is essentially mutual masturbation.

 

[devilkingx2]

Very easy choice. Option 2 because you will soon tire of option 1 which is essentially mutual masturbation.

I mean, things will run their course with either set of girls like normal, the only guarantees are that option 1 could get you laid on the first date, after that things go how they go. however it guarantees you the kind of girl who has sex with any smooth talker on the first date, whatever kind of girl you think that is.

with option 2 there's no guarantee you make it to date 5 without messing up (although if you're a DJ that's not a worry I'd concern myself with), nor that you have sex on date 5, just that the chance of sex is 0% for the first 4 dates. and of course, you get the kind of woman who only has sex with guys if she's in a relationship or if she really really likes them or after she has made them prove they're not just players.

I think the whole thing boils down to sex life vs. relationship health. option 1 is a much better sex life, option 2 is probably a more stable relationship finder

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I mean, things will run their course with either set of girls like normal, the only guarantees are that option 1 could get you laid on the first date, after that things go how they go. however it guarantees you the kind of girl who has sex with any smooth talker on the first date, whatever kind of girl you think that is.

with option 2 there's no guarantee you make it to date 5 without messing up (although if you're a DJ that's not a worry I'd concern myself with), nor that you have sex on date 5, just that the chance of sex is 0% for the first 4 dates. and of course, you get the kind of woman who only has sex with guys if she's in a relationship or if she really really likes them or after she has made them prove they're not just players.

I think the whole thing boils down to sex life vs. relationship health. option 1 is a much better sex life, option 2 is probably a more stable relationship finder

It's a simple choice for me because I just don't find a super easy girl attractive. Just last night I had a girl I'd met recently call me at midnight in a sleepy sultry voice, and wants to meet, but also mentions there's another guy in the picture. Any interest I had in her plummeted to zero.

I'm an older guy, and I choose to play 'gentleman' game. It can be a difficult one because sometimes a woman I'm interested in will perceive me as a 'player' and run, and sometimes a woman I'm not interested in, who herself plays games, will be attracted to me. Game responds to game. That's why the more natural you become, the better.

Now if the demon could help me hone my skills to be attractive to the more attractive not so easy women....

I think the whole thing boils down to sex life vs. relationship health. option 1 is a much better sex life, option 2 is probably a more stable relationship finder

Yes, I don't want to be at the whim of my libido [and women] 24/ 7. I prefer some self-control, with almost a MGTOW at the core. It's good to know you can take or leave women... or in other words, can screen heavily. You have to in this 'market'.

 

[derby1]

i thought i overthought stuff.... jesus

 

[Desdinova]

I would date women who are DTF on the first date, and make them wait until the 5th date

 

[devilkingx2]

I would date women who are DTF on the first date, and make them wait until the 5th date

Wow you just won the game, reminds me of tribute by tenacious D