Girl eyeballin me for free ride.

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Wanted to get some ideas from the community. Got this girls number and turns out she wanted to trade a back rub for a room in South Beach (rooms in south beach are expensive). So I just dropped contact with her as I just didn't feel like being hustled. But I just kept telling myself I should have tried to work the connect a bit. Looking for stories of when a girl tried to hustle you and you turned things around.
 

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theres no hustlin chicks like this unless you have $$$ and are willing to hold it like a carrot on a stick. IE, yeah we can get a southbeach room but we are definitely going to fuk in it ;). see how she reacts etc. Honestly as soon as a chick tries to pull some chit i dip on her...not tryin to sponsor some little hoe.
 

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Unnecessary drama. You're only reconsidering her because of low options.
 
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theres no hustlin chicks like this unless you have $$$ and are willing to hold it like a carrot on a stick. IE, yeah we can get a southbeach room but we are definitely going to fuk in it ;). see how she reacts etc. Honestly as soon as a chick tries to pull some chit i dip on her...not tryin to sponsor some little hoe.
What is forcing her to **** you once you give the money? She could just refuse.
 

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Personally, games like this don't interest me. I would probably ignore her & focus on another chick.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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What is forcing her to **** you once you give the money? She could just refuse.

I dont understand what you are assuming. The point is you dont give the money. Thats what the carrot on the stick analogy means.

I guess what im saying is a woman is very visual and material in alot of ways. you go out and meet a woman and tell her you have a suite at the W hotel she is going to be very likely down to smash if shes attracted to you. you are subconsiously implanting your status by having a nice hotel room thus shes attracted to the sign of wealth.
 
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I dont understand what you are assuming. The point is you dont give the money. Thats what the carrot on the stick analogy means.

I guess what im saying is a woman is very visual and material in alot of ways. you go out and meet a woman and tell her you have a suite at the W hotel she is going to be very likely down to smash if shes attracted to you. you are subconsiously implanting your status by having a nice hotel room thus shes attracted to the sign of wealth.
Okay. I own a 4 bedroom house. Is that status and they would want to **** me?

I don't know why anyone would spend any portion of their life living in hotel rooms unless they were a prostitute or felon.
 

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Okay. I own a 4 bedroom house. Is that status and they would want to **** me?

I don't know why anyone would spend any portion of their life living in hotel rooms unless they were a prostitute or felon.

4 bedroom house doesnt impress. unless its a mansion/new in an affluent area and you live in an area where most people are living in trailers an apartments etc. 4 bedroom house spells : divorced/dad/suburban/not sexy

And alot of business people spend a great portion of their lives travelling and living in hotels. I had a company put me in a luxury hotel for 3 months. Lets say i fukked ALOT of hotties in that room. Women like the idea of a playboy type guy in a hotel and getting their brains fukked out over the downtown skyline.
 

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A buddy of mine owns an automotive repair shop. He is a pretty good looking guy, very friendly, and in good shape. Over the years, many women have offered sechs in an attempt to get out of paying their bill. He was married so he never took them up on it.
 

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Wanted to get some ideas from the community. Got this girls number and turns out she wanted to trade a back rub for a room in South Beach (rooms in south beach are expensive). So I just dropped contact with her as I just didn't feel like being hustled. But I just kept telling myself I should have tried to work the connect a bit. Looking for stories of when a girl tried to hustle you and you turned things around.
A backrub really?

She must have a lot of thirsty orbiters to think you'd pay for her room on such a lousy offer.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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A buddy of mine owns an automotive repair shop. He is a pretty good looking guy, very friendly, and in good shape. Over the years, many women have offered sechs in an attempt to get out of paying their bill. He was married so he never took them up on it.
At least that is a better attempt than a back rub.
 

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The most I would have done is to buy her a couple drinks if she was reasonably receptive to my advances. I just felt that she was targeting me from the beginning and I didn't like that at all. I mean at the club we were eyeballin each other, then I went over and danced with her a bit thinking she was interested in something other than whatever freebies she can pry out of my wallet. I just didn't want to get caught up in that "well maybe she'll bang me" mentality so many men get worked over with.
 

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The most I would have done is to buy her a couple drinks if she was reasonably receptive to my advances. I just felt that she was targeting me from the beginning and I didn't like that at all. I mean at the club we were eyeballin each other, then I went over and danced with her a bit thinking she was interested in something other than whatever freebies she can pry out of my wallet. I just didn't want to get caught up in that "well maybe she'll bang me" mentality so many men get worked over with.
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