Soulforge,
The problem isn't that women are scumbags. The problem is never women. The problem is: YOU.
Can you handle a woman? Can you get a woman chasing you? Can you get a woman to open her legs for you within two hours of the date? Can you close the deal with her quickly? If you can---then you can handle a woman with ease. An expert in female psychology.
If you can't handle a woman then you need to work on your self-worth and build up your emotional and mental strength to handle them.
Big deal that you got 4 phone numbers and that you have physical muscle. That will not get you laid. Some regular dude will be pounding her in the bathroom that night after she gives you her phone number. What is more important? Sex close or number close? I will let you decide.
BOYS NEED SEX BADLY. They will do whatever it takes to get laid. Lift weights, look good, smell good, wear the best clothes. All needy behaviors towards a woman.
A boy gets needy, desperate, jumps through hoops, jumps when she says "jump!", Showering, shaving, getting dressed and preparing for the date because you both agreed on a time/place is in itself BEING NEEDY. Stop doing that. Only boys do that. Your frame should be ---"I don't feel like meeting this nasty ho tonight."
You see when boys need sex--they get flaked on, they get cancelled on, they get handed lame excuses, their car breaks down, yadda, yadda, yadda, they get mistreated by women, their penis gets no action, they get strung along------all because they need sex so bad. Then their ego gets bent and they have to get other phone numbers to show her I am worthy. Hence, you become like a frustrated boy with a broken toy.
MEN NEVER NEED SEX. The more control over your penis the more you take away her power. Real men share their women with other men. They let her go free. A man lets his girl fvck other guys and it shouldn't bother him at all.
Sometimes I tell a girl to go out with another man to give myself a break. But if you are too insecure about doing that --- than tell her to go have fun with her girlfriends. It jolts women and they want you more. It is because you are a strong, secure man who doesn't need her or satisfies you.
In regards to dating? I never prepare myself before a date. Never.
Instead, I am lying on the couch in my shorts and tshirt when I am supposed to be meeting her at 7pm. I don't get my lazy self off the couch until she texts me and says.."I am here waiting for you where are you?" At that point I drag myself off the couch and drive to the bar to meet her with very little effort and investment. I show up 20 minutes late and tell her traffic was bad or say I got lost. After about an hour, I am banging her in my car.
So much for not caring about her time or looking my best when I show up. Nor do I care what she thinks of me.
Forget about building muscles to attract woman -- that's a waste of time and effort. Build muscles for fitness not to impress women. If you want to get laid like a rockstar you need to workout your emotional muscles instead. Everything you have been taught about women - must look handsome, must build muscles, must be a good guy rarely gets you laid--especially if you don't have the emotional strength to back it up.
Its your emotional and mental strength that produces the most amazing results with women. Be deeply secure within yourself. Never let them push you off center. If she cancels a date it shouldn't faze you at all. Don't even respond to it. Would it matter if she cancelled if you had two other dates that night? You should be happy she bailed.
You must have the emotional and mental strength that you are VERY WORTHY and that you ABSOLUTELY DO NO WANT HER and could care less.
It is about denying them d1ck, not being needy, walking out on them, cancelling dates, not caring, blowing them off, not being horny for her, not giving her any power. That is when her panties come off easily.
For an experiment - stop lifting weights, dress sloppy, eat whatever you want, don't shave. Work on your inner strength, your inner happiness, learn to fall in love with all flaws. Get deeply secure in yourself, learn to laugh at rejection.
Learn to stop focusing on your outer appearance and focus deeply in your emotional strength. When you really let go and you no longer crave sex---- If you can do that -- you will have women lined up ready to fvck you anytime, anywhere.
