Sh!ttest ?

[Prodoge]

Been talking to a girl on snapchat and she is showing some interest (Initiating with "Good Morning" pics etc)

Now she sent me a photo of her from a professionnal Photoshoot and asked me what i think of it. Obviously she wants me to tell her how hot I find her.

Is this some kind of sh!ttest to boost her ego ?

 

[marmel75]

"You look nice". It's about the most ambivalous thing you can say about a pic, she will take as a meh...

Have you been out with this woman yet , asked her on a date, anything?

If not stop playing penpal and get her out

 

[RangerMIke]

Make a date... go from there. You can't tell anything from a woman by what she does with social media, texting, or emails.

 

[Prodoge]

I already asked for a date and she said she wanted to text more to screen if i wasn't a wierdo.
You may say low interest but since then her interest seems to have increased significantly (initiating, asking me things) so ill try again and see what she says. If she doesn't want a date next time i next.

 

[wifehunter]

"I really don't want to see what you look like in the morning."

 

[sph21]

I already asked for a date and she said she wanted to text more to screen if i wasn't a wierdo.
You may say low interest but since then her interest seems to have increased significantly (initiating, asking me things) so ill try again and see what she says. If she doesn't want a date next time i next.

Texting will usually do that. Not in a good way, though. Her interest seems to have increased significantly because she's considering you more of a friend than a BF material. Too much texting will land you in friendzone. What do girls do to her girl friends? That's right. They text & talk a lot. You're not a girl, so stop trying to create interest by texting/ talking. It won't work. Stop this.

Where I work, I ask the women why they found a co-worker to be so desperate. Here are some of their answers:

-always giving the women attention.
-calling all the time (and calling immediately once getting the number, immediately returning a call, etc.)
-taking every opportunity to talk to them (and telling everything about yourself)
-always available.
-NEVER willing to walk away (NEVER willing to disagree, ALWAYS supplicating).
-etc.

What theme can we find in the above? It is that the man puts the woman on the pedestal rather then himself.

Imagine if a woman did all of the above to you. Imagine if a woman was OBSESSED with you, always calling you, always available, and always spending her free time FOR YOU. Any interest you had for this woman would soon evaporate. Why? Because in your own mind you are thinking two things: "No one else must want her," AND "If I can get her OBSESSED about me, I know I can get BETTER girls to be interested in me." Her desperation is turning you off. The same is true for women.

You said "what about her talking to me..."

Computer talk is just TALK. It is NOT a relationship. She prefers to just TALK to you. She could pick up her phone at any second. She never will. Why? You are giving her all the attention she needs. Why should she call you. She can get what she wants from you everyday. SHE KNOWS HOW TO HAVE IT ALL HER WAY. She dumped you when SHE wanted. She keeps TELLING you to call (ordering).

She thinks (incorrectly) you'll do what ever she wants. You see she won't call because she's programmed by the little file box. It tells her you're willing to go along with her.

A relationship has to be 50-50. Alot of women think equality means having it all their way. WRONG!

Prove me wrong. Call her. Ask her out . I guarantee that she will be TWICE as ONE-SIDED as she was. Why? Because you have shown that you are a willing victim. You are willing to give her lots of your Don Juan time. If you want to be friends that's alright. Just don't think she will suddenly turn into Miss Cooperation. It will never happen.

She's not interested in you the person. If she was your phone would be exploding. She sees the new you. She talks to the new you. Is the phone ringing?

 

[Trump]

I already asked for a date and she said she wanted to text more to screen if i wasn't a wierdo.

Just like Poon King said, girls best live in a world of indirect communication. When you force them to answer directly, you reveal the truth.

Suppose you had 2 tickets to a concert in a week and wanted her to go with you. Would you say "OK" to her getting to know you more through texting or would you say, "I need to know by tonight if you can go with me, let me know." That way, she either speeds up the inquires or she says no and you ask someone else.

Men, I think one way to get things done is to assume someone is always after you and you have a deadline. If you assumed this, you wouldn't play around with this girls. You would force them to answer directly to you and either seal the deal or move on.

 

[icantgetlaid]

She's not interested in your d1ck - only your attention. Move on.

 

[cola]

Everyone saying don't text her other than to set up dates is not well versed in modern dating and doesn't know what they are talking about ..