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Real Social Dynamics Do you think that they are legit? I disregarded them awayz back, like 2005, 2006 etc etc. but they are still around, and I've started attempting their teachings and am back hitting the clubs...Even. Though. I'm 38 o_O
College pubs, solo, at 38. It would help if I was back in the 90s when I was young and in a frat lulz
I will report some lays when this year: Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter, even Really didn't get laid much at all last year, tbh, I've been prepping for eotwawki and SHFT it's time for me to stretch, yawn, and get amp'd and get outta my bunker, and snatch some tail, cause really, that's all that matters, FVCKIN. That's All that matters in this life, my life. Also, going to get even fitter than I already am. I eat like a horse and have gotten massive arms/chest (and a bit of a pooch in the belly) the past couple of months, so, the long-distance (time-consuming) cardio I plan on doing soon, may shrink me a bit :( but I think I need it just to make me more alive for clubbing at this age. Thinking of getting back into Brazilian Ju-Jitsu wrestling as well - I never was a fanatic just used to get with some dudes on a Saturday morning and practice moves (They were all more experienced and I didn't even have knee pads, mouth piece at the time, but still learned a bit, while they went harder at it, more serious). I may get into some fights as I go out more, not sure. Do you guys, who hit the clubs a lot, see a lot of fights these days?? I'm considering Country Western Cowboy bars as well, even dressing the part with a hat and boots, bandana, etc. So don't know if in such drunken nights there what I'll run into. It's been awhile. I'm going to try one I'd always wanted to try in the past but just never got around to it, it's in another town about 40 miles from me, but it's a popular one, line-dancing then etc.

The cops are pretty strict where I live, so, I remember there not being many fights breaking out in the past, and most people never got caught.
 

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I met up with some guys from rsd in Vegas last summer. They were chinky Asian dudes with no game.
 

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I met up with some guys from rsd in Vegas last summer. They were chinky Asian dudes with no game.
Thanks. I am good-looking and tall hmm I shouldn't be having these hangups just that Now, as of this year, I notice wrinkles/creases in my left eye/eyelid (also I have to clip those fvckin eyebrows or it's a dead giveaway) It's inevitable and I never would get any of that g4y/weird surgery. I was told recently by a young'un that she really thought I was 29, maybe 30 (she brought it up just in normal convo). I didn't tell her my age, but maybe it was cause she just wasn't very perceptive, and women, in general, do see as much as they Hear. That's to our advantage. Sound is the way to women more over than sight or "acute" sight (like we have when we are analyzing a female mate). But, let's say, you wear some article (shoes, clothes, watch, whatever) that is POPULAR or tha trend, SHE will notice (visually, especially shoes, cause they're b!tches, stoopid b!tches who care about that sh!t waste of money). It's really Only when it's tied to "what's popular" will a woman immediately Notice a DHV about you..on your person. What YOU may notice as something like "Hey, I actually look good, blah blah (in your Own mind)" she will overlook (cause she's not visual) unless your "look" is popular. So Badas5 in the movies portrayed (She's seen all her life little girl on up to now), she'll See and want that total package, but if you are not the been-thru-h3ll type, then you must rely on "what's popular" to catch her eye, cause it takes a lot to catch a woman's EYE (cause they're stupid and blind in that way, most of them, except maybe the tomboys, but even They are oblivious to the way We see things acutely with our eyes). You must lead them through sound, hypnotize them, if you will....
 

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Julien was my biggest influence when I started out. I have seen probably all his videos and they have helped me immensely with game and life in general. I owe rsd alot to be honest. All the rsd dudes are solid and have my full respect.
 

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I'm generally not a fan of PUAs and their advice as it all seems aimed at trickery, deception and short term success.

However, RSD seems a lot more focused on self improvement, self acceptance and becoming high quality, confident men who enjoy life and enjoy seducing women and I have so much respect for Owen (aka Tyler) in particular.

When you watch Owen's videos, you can just sense how much he's loving life and how at peace he is with himself and that's such an awesome way to live.

To be honest, his videos helped me a lot during my post break up depression and I've posted them in this forum a number of times now.
 

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I have read a fair bit of the Tyler Durden archive and it all stacks up when applied in the field. The guy has so much energy in videos I have seen that it honestly looks like he's speeding, except that he is way too calibrated.

I still haven't figured out if his "secret society" post is a parody or not though...
 

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really, that's all that matters, FVCKIN. That's All that matters in this life, my life.
That seems like a pretty poor attitude, but to each his own I guess.

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I may get into some fights as I go out more, not sure. Do you guys, who hit the clubs a lot, see a lot of fights these days?? I'm considering Country Western Cowboy bars as well, even dressing the part with a hat and boots, bandana, etc.
I know some very attractive women who are hung up on the cowboy image, they want a cowboy, that's their fantasy. I'm surprised you don't read more about this type of guy and his appeal here, honestly. I lost my high school girlfriend to one of these guys way back when. Best of luck to you.

I like RSD, I think a large percentage of their stuff is good, not all of it of course, but they're as good as anyone IMO. Good stuff on inner game. I still read their forum from time to time, because they have a much more positive slant than SoSuave has, for one thing. But it does seem to be more focused on club game, and it still has its share of BS.

For one thing, you asked about fights. I remember watching a video of Tyler's, and he was talking about how he had clubbed all these years and never seen a fight. Since then, I notice he's backed off of this assertation, and if you read their forum, you will see stories about fights pretty regularly. A guy going around hitting on a lot of women is almost certainly going to rub some other guys the wrong way, especially in venues where alcohol is involved.

Someone here also said that RSD pays girls to flirt with their students in their bootcamps. I don't know if that is true, although I have no reason to doubt it. On one hand, it makes sense to give them someone to practice on, and to build some confidence by getting a positive response. But then, they may wonder why the girls aren't reacting the same way once they get home.

Finally, Tyler is notorious for denying that looks have any effect or advantage at all, and that sounds suspicious to me too. It smacks of telling students what they want to hear instead of what is reality.
 

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^^ Yeah, I did not know about those assertions. My town isn't "gangland" and I used to see fights, in line going into the club, In the club, later on in the evening/morning when losers are left empty and drunk so they just start fighting on the way out of the club/bar, or walking down the middle of a main strip road. Even I got into a couple and they never really went full blown cause I scared the sh!t outta a couple of dudes just by that I'd, my confidence in what I knew (that I could take him out pretty quickly) and had practiced. These days I'm not young enough like I was then to athletically whip some dude, but I'm definitely stronger, just not as adept, and certainly a lot dumber than I was before, not as sharp, quite dumb actually :D Mainly cause I've been a slave for almost a decade in the name of Money. Just chasing after dollas makes you DUMB, cause you ain't being imaginative or exploring/creating...just sleeping, eating, fvcking, sleeping, eating, fvcking, sleeping, eating, fvcking like an animal.
 

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Unfortunately RSD is not dealing with daygame and wont be anytime soon. They've become part of the old school pua crowd, they depend on state to perform so they can only go succeed at night game, not a very efficient approach. Since your chances of meeting a girl you can see again are substantially higher in daygame.
 

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Watch Julien's videos. I randomly stumbled across them today and they seriously helped. He isn't the typical "PUA" like Mystery. Julien's game is more DJ style rather than peacocking like a fool.

He breaks down your interaction with women on a human level. He describes most PUAs as extremely emotional men (Mystery). This is why they succeed with picking up but can't follow through on relationships.

My favorite video from him is why most men can't keep a relationship: it comes down to beta backsliding once you "get" the girl. This described my relationship to a T and really struck a chord with how I act.
Here's the video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2lwNe-sTtA

If you can watch their videos with an open mind and with a goal not to be a shady player (lies to women to get in their pants)...you will learn a lot about how to be the best you can be. They say some things I don't agree with, like stealing another guy's girl. But that all comes down to your own set of values.
 

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RSD focus mostly on deep layers of inner game and mindsets, then the fuse it with heavy physical game. The things they talk about have almost nothing to do with the seduction process. They also plough through sets and only eject if the set is calling the bouncers or walking away. That is all you need for good club/night game.

The inner game things of RSD, and the underlying seduction communicated via body language, alpha male behaviour etc is what makes them stand out.

However, RSD (outer game methods) is difficult to implement during daytime. During day time, subtle physical and seductive conversational skills is key.

So RSD is brilliant in teaching night/club game, as well as the deeper layers of seduction.
 

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Be wary of anyone trying to sell you something. Because they are also trying to turn you into their consumer. Even if they don't come in the form of a PUA.

What people here call inner game and I myself have used the term a lot, is basic self-esteem and self-confidence overcomplicated with new words to describe thousand year old ideas.
 

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I have gone out with some RSD guys, these guys will approach and will get results however these guys don't know how to chill
What I mean by that is, they only care to approach women, it's not like going out having a drink or two with some buddies, sometimes you just wanna relax
All they care about is constantly approaching women, even ones they aren't attracted too, in the end they are great to game with if you wanna approach a lot
But they make shyt friends and are awkward blokes
 

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Real Social Dynamics Do you think that they are legit? I disregarded them awayz back, like 2005, 2006 etc etc. but they are still around, and I've started attempting their teachings and am back hitting the clubs...Even. Though. I'm 38 o_O
College pubs, solo, at 38. It would help if I was back in the 90s when I was young and in a frat lulz
I will report some lays when this year: Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter, even Really didn't get laid much at all last year, tbh, I've been prepping for eotwawki and SHFT it's time for me to stretch, yawn, and get amp'd and get outta my bunker, and snatch some tail, cause really, that's all that matters, FVCKIN. That's All that matters in this life, my life. Also, going to get even fitter than I already am. I eat like a horse and have gotten massive arms/chest (and a bit of a pooch in the belly) the past couple of months, so, the long-distance (time-consuming) cardio I plan on doing soon, may shrink me a bit :( but I think I need it just to make me more alive for clubbing at this age. Thinking of getting back into Brazilian Ju-Jitsu wrestling as well - I never was a fanatic just used to get with some dudes on a Saturday morning and practice moves (They were all more experienced and I didn't even have knee pads, mouth piece at the time, but still learned a bit, while they went harder at it, more serious). I may get into some fights as I go out more, not sure. Do you guys, who hit the clubs a lot, see a lot of fights these days?? I'm considering Country Western Cowboy bars as well, even dressing the part with a hat and boots, bandana, etc. So don't know if in such drunken nights there what I'll run into. It's been awhile. I'm going to try one I'd always wanted to try in the past but just never got around to it, it's in another town about 40 miles from me, but it's a popular one, line-dancing then etc.

The cops are pretty strict where I live, so, I remember there not being many fights breaking out in the past, and most people never got caught.
It is marketing women to geeks.

Better to be a man... and go Greek.

That said, reading a bit of their stuff helped me get over 'approach anxiety'. It is like a set of training wheels for hard cases. Once you are riding, you want to move on from their stuff pronto.
 

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I have gone out with some RSD guys, these guys will approach and will get results however these guys don't know how to chill
What I mean by that is, they only care to approach women, it's not like going out having a drink or two with some buddies, sometimes you just wanna relax
All they care about is constantly approaching women, even ones they aren't attracted too, in the end they are great to game with if you wanna approach a lot
But they make shyt friends and are awkward blokes
Exactly. They care too much about women. Better to have a quiet beer with a mate. If you happen to meet a women, she will likely be of better quality.
 

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Unfortunately RSD is not dealing with daygame and wont be anytime soon. They've become part of the old school pua crowd, they depend on state to perform so they can only go succeed at night game, not a very efficient approach. Since your chances of meeting a girl you can see again are substantially higher in daygame.
It is ridiculous hearing chaps describe how they need to 'get in state'. How about they just get grounded and learn to be themselves. I think a lot of RSD just messes men up.... they OVER value women and end up with a distorted psyche thanks to an over-inflated libido.
 
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Julien was my biggest influence when I started out. I have seen probably all his videos and they have helped me immensely with game and life in general. I owe rsd alot to be honest. All the rsd dudes are solid and have my full respect.
Julien Blanc?

I doubt he even gets laid.
 

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only videos of RSD I ever watched were a few of the guys talking about mindset, it was a few videos about how all women are slvts and you should get out of the mindset that any girl is a princess or that having sex is a bad thing (since you want to get laid don't you? surely the fact that this girl fvcks people is good news)

haven't seen much else of their stuff but I thought that advice was pretty solid so I definitely trust them
 

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Their inner game stuff is pretty good, as has been said. The in field videos I've seen of them, it looks like they run around very high energy, amped up like they're on meth or something. Like they're talking, thinking, and moving around at a thousand miles an hour. Their aim is to be fun party guy, I guess.
 
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