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Guys I've been around here for a couple of years now and I feel like saying this to all of you.

We need more field rapports.

More actual happenings, date rapports, journeys, approach rapports and actual life happenings instead of keyboard jockeying. Theres too much negativity imo. Too much philophosizing like Plato, Aristoteles, Corey Wining about how women think, act, how they have too much power and blugghh im sick of it.

We need more succes stories, less long as$ discussions about bullshqt.

If you lack knowledge, read the Bible and go out and explore instead of reading articles and discuss PUA visions. Every story has a small truth in it. We should accept women the way they are and just go out and have fun. Use all the great knowledge from the forum to your advantage and post more field rapports on here. Go out, use whatever you learned here and post it back to us, texting rapports (we need more) that work, lay rapports, and sh1t that worked out for you to get her to chase.

Ofcourse it is important to discuss how we can improve our lifes, how you should put the focus on yourself and how you should be the best you, you could be but I vote for less jockeying and quotes about James Bond and more actual life stories that could help others out.

Pook already figured it out for us, don't try to be Pook, get laid and report back. It's about life succes not kudos on your So Suave figure.
Bradd80 is a good example of a quality poster, less theory more practice, uplifting and reachable and usefull for everyone.

Word.
 
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Well I had field reports but then guys said I was lying about who I was banging. It leads to a lot of negativity sometimes.

Often the guys who are struggling post because they need help with something and I don't blame them.
 

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I only do field rapports, I never ever lied over anything I posted here. Why would you lie? Your only lieying to yourself. Why do you care what fellow DJ's think about your knowledge? It's all about life succes for me and happiness, getting the perfect women for yourself. I encourage your field rapports Skinnyguy. Theres nothing wrong with struggling that's the process of falling down and getting up too reach succes. Everyone started from scrap.
 

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I remember putting report out about banging a 10/10. Then the keyboard jockey, plastic 'DJs' descended and we ended up with three page debate about whether or not 10/10's exist :lol:

Thing to remember is, you can and should filter attention. At least 25% of guys here are only here because they are either bored or procrastinating, or both.

Field reports rely on guys actually going out in to the field in the first place.

On the plus side, you have motivated me to go out tonight.
 
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I remember putting report out about banging a 10/10. Then the keyboard jockey, plastic 'DJs' descended and we ended up with three page debate about whether or not 10/10's exist :lol:

Thing to remember is, you can and should filter attention. At least 25% of guys here are only here because they are either bored or procrastinating, or both.

Field reports rely on guys actually going out in to the field in the first place.

On the plus side, you have motivated me to go out tonight.
Yea but did you post a picture? A 10 to you might be a 5 to someone else. The rating system is not universal to every person.

And same is true of a guys attractiveness to girls. I've been called "hot" by hot girls, I've been called "ugly" by ugly girls, and everything in between.
 

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A 10 to you might be a 5 to someone else. The rating system is not universal to every person
Do you understand what a non-sequitur is? If not, it means you've basically validated and contradicted yourself, all at once.

I did post a picture of a similar girl. But by your own argument, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, only what I think. Anyway, that wasn't the debate; as I said, the debate was whether 10s exist or not, not if my girl was a 10. Do try to keep up.

[Still working out if you're a troll or just thick as pigsh!t by the way. Still giving you the benefit of the doubt. For now.]
 

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It's the guys obsessed with race or being short, fat, balding, etc. etc.... that does it for me.... Constantly complaining.... making excuses as to why they can't get the mythical 10/10 blond......

I get it.... the struggle is real but I'd love to read how they apply things they learn here and go out and be successful.
 

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Yea but did you post a picture? A 10 to you might be a 5 to someone else. The rating system is not universal to every person.

And same is true of a guys attractiveness to girls. I've been called "hot" by hot girls, I've been called "ugly" by ugly girls, and everything in between.
This is a very stupid post. Why the hell would it matter if his judgment of attractiveness doesn't match yours? If he says she's a 10 she's a 10 by his standards (which you can interpret as very attractive), the whole point of a field report is to show the techniques/theory in use not to critique the ****ing girls looks.
 

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I don't understand what value lay reports provide to a truly RED PILL man.

A red pill man understands that women only care about looks, MONEY and status. If you have one or all of those, you will get laid. There is really nothing to "report".

I would rather talk about having a better understanding of how to protect yourself from the bad women and the latest market trends related to where the dating culture is today.
 

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This forum was invaded by the mgtow/beta male crowd en masse. Most lurk but the drop in post quality has hit the forums hard.


It began as the alternative to the pua community like fastseduction. The way I always felt over here was we were more so the dreamers and philosophical REAL MEN type of bros. As in, instead of being a PUA with a bright yellow shirt and some corny recited lines, we would be the opposite...organic/natural...beginning with our INNER GAME. (can anyone on here even name the last time someone on here said INNER GAME..lol)

The problem is this forum has the same issue as the rest of the internet. as it has gotten saturated, the overall quality has gone down...as the current collective unconsious is very negative in the world when it comes to men and women and sex and gender and it just trickles down and permeates into our atmosphere. This forum has always been about gaming women and self improvement and becoming a DJ...DON JUAN.

Now the world has turned upsidedown and most guys on here dont know WTF to do about it or how to adapt. The game has changed drastically. and now this place is corroded.

Theres no field resports an lay reports because no one on here is pulling like that. and those that are arent talking about it on here..which is wierd af because there are forums i visit where they talk about gaming women and chit all day and if you post a fr and lr you better have pics and proof etc. the atmosphere here seems very neckbeard/fedora wearing nowadays. the real player have all been ran off.
 

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This forum was invaded by the mgtow/beta male crowd en masse. Most lurk but the drop in post quality has hit the forums hard.


It began as the alternative to the pua community like fastseduction. The way I always felt over here was we were more so the dreamers and philosophical REAL MEN type of bros. As in, instead of being a PUA with a bright yellow shirt and some corny recited lines, we would be the opposite...organic/natural...beginning with our INNER GAME. (can anyone on here even name the last time someone on here said INNER GAME..lol)

The problem is this forum has the same issue as the rest of the internet. as it has gotten saturated, the overall quality has gone down...as the current collective unconsious is very negative in the world when it comes to men and women and sex and gender and it just trickles down and permeates into our atmosphere. This forum has always been about gaming women and self improvement and becoming a DJ...DON JUAN.

Now the world has turned upsidedown and most guys on here dont know WTF to do about it or how to adapt. The game has changed drastically. and now this place is corroded.

Theres no field resports an lay reports because no one on here is pulling like that. and those that are arent talking about it on here..which is wierd af because there are forums i visit where they talk about gaming women and chit all day and if you post a fr and lr you better have pics and proof etc. the atmosphere here seems very neckbeard/fedora wearing nowadays. the real player have all been ran off.
This forum will always reflect the most current market trends.

Don't hate on the posters.. hate on the culture that is creating things like MGTOW.

Btw.. a true MGTOW is not posting here. They don't care about women. They have given up. They are playing video games and eating potato chips.

The guys posting here claiming to be MGTOW are guys considering it but hoping someone will talk them out of it lol.
 

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This forum will always reflect the most current market trends.

Don't hate on the posters.. hate on the culture that is creating things like MGTOW.

Btw.. a true MGTOW is not posting here. They don't care about women. They have given up. They are playing video games and eating potato chips.

The guys posting here claiming to be MGTOW are guys considering it but hoping someone will talk them out of it lol.
IMO this forum is the polar opposite of a Feminist forum. It's one of the last areas that encourages men to be men. I enjoy it way more than Facebook or LinkedIn. While we should never tell our women about it, we should be proud to be here.
 

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So here we are again, prepping kudos.

Guys just go on with the field rapports guys, push it, go out and live it. Even the real DJ's that have 10+ plates that fvck them drop it on here and show us what WORKS for you so that others can adept it and go out instead of trying to be a philosopher of women.
 

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I don't understand what value lay reports provide to a truly RED PILL man.

A red pill man understands that women only care about looks, MONEY and status. If you have one or all of those, you will get laid. There is really nothing to "report".

I would rather talk about having a better understanding of how to protect yourself from the bad women and the latest market trends related to where the dating culture is today.
You really need to understand the difference between red pill and MGTOW. The 'red pill man' you describe is actually MGTOW. An actual red pill man is Neo in the Matrix. There's a world of difference.
 

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I agree with most here. If I posted even half the stuff that happens to me I would be accused of lying and bragging. Right now I have 5 chicks chasing me. You see... sounds like bragging and bvll****. Two of them just came back after I walked away from them a couple of months ago... good stuff but if I posted how that happened... well there really isn't much to it... they backed away and I let them go... now they are back... Anyway here it goes, toss stones if you like I really don;t care if you believe me or not, in no particular order since all chicks are the same:

HB 7.5, 40, divorced two kids, Director of a Major company in our city. She has the body of a 25 year old, smart speaks 5 languages. Just sent me a text wondering if I needed a BJ today, (BTW just now, sent me a second butt hurt text that she hasn't heard from me).

HB 8, 27, never married, I've known her for a couple of years, just broke up with her boyfriend was with her the first time last Wednesday... said it was the best sex of her life and that she 'really needed that'

HB 7, 28, widowed, one kid, business owner and entrepreneur. She is one that I walked away from and started blowing up my phone yesterday... date with her tonight.

HB 9, 38, divorced, 2 kids, smoking hot Latina... rich, father owns millions in property. Has everyone chasing her... so she drifts in and out and just drifted back... saw her Monday and will see her again next week.

HB 7, single mom 30, never married, one kid, Bank executive, face is so-so, but her body is ROCKIN. She drifted off when she had some weak beta fvck commit to her... now she's getting tired of it, and keeps putting herself in my orbit hoping to make something happen... maybe I will.. it's tempting, but the truth is when you have options you get picky.

HB 7, single never married no kids, just turned 50, looks really good for her age and takes care of herself. She is rich and famous, I promise you guys have heard of her. I see her 4 or 5 times a year when she comes in town, or if I decide to meet her in her city. All she wants form me is sex, and she likes me because I keep my mouth shut. She's my dirty little secret.... she knows she can be a total freaking kicky slut with me tell me anything and I will NEVER spill the beans.

New chicks I went out with this past week, but they are too new to rate as anything yet.

HB 8, 24, single never married, She works at a not for profit I work with, she has potential.

HB 9, 25, single never married, Works for a client of mine, date went okay but I'm not really that interested. I think she is going to be too much work. You date enough and have been around as long as I have you get a gut instinct...

Also over the last two weeks I have been shot down 10 times. Mostly BFs and husbands, but a couple of flakes that just weren't interested. FLAKING HAPPENS TO EVERYONE. So I got two new dates from 10 attempts, with one that might turn into something steady for awhile at. least.

I promise you that in 3 months, everything will be different. There will be a new 1-2 I haven't met yet... a couple that I walked away from and drifted back... a couple more. They drift in and most drift out.... eventually.
 

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Not even full fledged field reports, just actual in field shít. I'd love to read and discuss on a thread about someone's experience at a club or festival. There was this big parade thing in Toronto not too long ago. Did anybody go? Sometimes I feel like this thread and it's people are cut off from the real world.

The poster who described it as "fedora and neckbeardy" is right. 80% of this forum seems like complete social rejects. The other 20% doesn't want to do anything but cry about the state of dating

"wahhhhhhh women are selfish"
"wahhhhh feminism"
"wahhhhhh BPD"


the shìt is annoying.

And let's not talk about the wannabe Pook's. We got 4 or 5 narcissitic retards desperately trying to seem intellectual and insightful when its really no more than the same shít we've read 50 times over. Like that guy who keeps plugging his book. Idk what his handle is.

We need to stop this immense super psychoanalysis that seems to be popular.

"You should stand exactly here in a club."

"Blink 2 times do a spin, wear red and she'll fall in love."

"Breathing exactly at this rate increases the odds she'll like you"

This type of analysis is not necessary to be successful at dating and is really no more than a waste of time. Just putting a sock over your head and blowing mental masturbation loads all over the place. How many RSD Julian videos can you watch before you realize you are not getting any better with women. Stop the mental masturbation and go live you fūcking life for God sakes.

\Rant
 

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Not even full fledged field reports, just actual in field shít. I'd love to read and discuss on a thread about someone's experience at a club or festival. There was this big parade thing in Toronto not too long ago. Did anybody go? Sometimes I feel like this thread and it's people are cut off from the real world.

The poster who described it as "fedora and neckbeardy" is right. 80% of this forum seems like complete social rejects. The other 20% doesn't want to do anything but cry about the state of dating

"wahhhhhhh women are selfish"
"wahhhhh feminism"
"wahhhhhh BPD"


the shìt is annoying.

And let's not talk about the wannabe Pook's. We got 4 or 5 narcissitic retards desperately trying to seem intellectual and insightful when its really no more than the same shít we've read 50 times over. Like that guy who keeps plugging his book. Idk what his handle is.

We need to stop this immense super psychoanalysis that seems to be popular.

"You should stand exactly here in a club."

"Blink 2 times do a spin, wear red and she'll fall in love."

"Breathing exactly at this rate increases the odds she'll like you"

This type of analysis is not necessary to be successful at dating and is really no more than a waste of time. Just putting a sock over your head and blowing mental masturbation loads all over the place. How many RSD Julian videos can you watch before you realize you are not getting any better with women. Stop the mental masturbation and go live you fūcking life for God sakes.

\Rant
Woah buddy. Is it normal that IM KIND OF TURNED ON BY THIS POST
 

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@narcissist @Amante Silvestre and @RangerMIke get my votes for best field testing threads & posts. @Gambino also does good ones from time to time as well as others. There was a guy in the beverage business who I've not seen in a while who used to do FRs and LRs from NYC club game. His stuff was always interesting (and helped me understand what actually goes on the scene now - I've come to discover I'm a bit square :eek: based on some of what I read here, but it's good to know what my kids are facing out in the world.)

When you have abundance you do sound like you are bragging, you might get labeled arrogant etc., but really the purpose of sharing any of this stuff is to help other people learn and gain confidence and get better. I actually really dislike all the petty stuff, but I'm not going to stand for having somebody recreate/recast what I say either. At the end of the day I think folks here are smart enough to figure that out on their own and they can take or leave the different viewpoints for what they are. Anybody who has been her for a while has a track record, which will say a lot more than any one post, exchange, or conversation can reveal.
 
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