The ONLY thing hot girls (18-25) care about

[DreamAgain]

1. Your social status
2. Your social status
...
100. Your social status

If you are a guy with a ton of friends/contacts, always getting invited to parties (or hosting them), posting "cool" pictures on instagram/facebook with a ton of likes, have a completely nonchalant attitude, like you are the best thing since sliced bread...

An extroverted, fun, "cool" guy trumps anything said on this site. Girls just want to have fun and post pictures of themselves on social media having the best time possible. Regardless of how disenchanted from reality this actually is.

A lot of these things imply that you have money though. Probably a trust fund kid without any real job or responsibilities. Shockingly though, it doesn't matter in the slightest.

You can be short, weak, uneducated, ugly, it doesn't matter. You'll have so many options ringing your phone you won't know what to do with them.

A lot of this stuff goes against the introverted, intellectual mindset a lot of people on this site naturally have, myself included.

Opinions gentlemen?

 

[BeTheChange]

Agree. I'm in NYC now for 2 weeks partying like crazy with my bros and a side peice I know out there. Recently started using instagram so posting pics of the festivities. Getting crazy attention from these h0es. They all want a taste of that lifestyle.

Would say I'm 60% extrovert, 40% introvert.

 

[dynamically]

Women care about dominance too. You can be socially proof and gay acting (I know a lot of these guys). You also need to be able to sexually escalate and connect with women. I know a lot of popular guys who are deathly afraid to escalate on women throwing themselves at them because of their status. They are afraid of escalating because if they get rejected , they lose status. Status is a double edged sword. A lot of women will go after you only for validation and not sex, and if you escalate on the wrong chick, your ego would be obliterated.

So yeah, here is the attraction hierarchy in ORDER:

1. Dominance (status, money, looks, pre-selection)
2. Ability to create sexual tension (Women don't fvck shy guys)
3. Intrigue (Challenge, mystery, unsolvable and uncontrollable).
4. Connection.

Notice connection is LAST. Nice guys try to go for connection first and fail. But no one ever said you didn't need connection. WOmen only care about your "connection" if you had the first 3 in SPADES.

 

[wifehunter]

Social status demonstrates FRAME.

Most guys are worms with no backbone.

 

[Dash Riprock]

1. Your social status
2. Your social status
...
100. Your social status

If you are a guy with a ton of friends/contacts, always getting invited to parties (or hosting them), posting "cool" pictures on instagram/facebook with a ton of likes, have a completely nonchalant attitude, like you are the best thing since sliced bread...

An extroverted, fun, "cool" guy trumps anything said on this site. Girls just want to have fun and post pictures of themselves on social media having the best time possible. Regardless of how disenchanted from reality this actually is.

A lot of these things imply that you have money though. Probably a trust fund kid without any real job or responsibilities. Shockingly though, it doesn't matter in the slightest.

You can be short, weak, uneducated, ugly, it doesn't matter. You'll have so many options ringing your phone you won't know what to do with them.

A lot of this stuff goes against the introverted, intellectual mindset a lot of people on this site naturally have, myself included.

Opinions gentlemen?

They're immature and practically or still adolescents who are not emotionally developed. What did/do you expect?

 

[wifehunter]

They're immature and practically or still adolescents who are not emotionally developed. What did/do you expect?

As are most women.

 

[beforeimgone]

1. Your social status
2. Your social status
...
100. Your social status

If you are a guy with a ton of friends/contacts, always getting invited to parties (or hosting them), posting "cool" pictures on instagram/facebook with a ton of likes, have a completely nonchalant attitude, like you are the best thing since sliced bread...

An extroverted, fun, "cool" guy trumps anything said on this site. Girls just want to have fun and post pictures of themselves on social media having the best time possible. Regardless of how disenchanted from reality this actually is.

A lot of these things imply that you have money though. Probably a trust fund kid without any real job or responsibilities. Shockingly though, it doesn't matter in the slightest.

You can be short, weak, uneducated, ugly, it doesn't matter. You'll have so many options ringing your phone you won't know what to do with them.

A lot of this stuff goes against the introverted, intellectual mindset a lot of people on this site naturally have, myself included.

Opinions gentlemen?

Maybe this is accurate. Maybe this isn't. I don't party or smoke and no chick ever meets my friends. I also reveal as little as possible to them about my life unless I am boasting because of something awesome I did. I prefer to let others entertain them and only call on them when I want something ie pvssy money etc.

It's easier this way because I don't have vultures that want to suck on my status.

This lifestyle let's me duck in and out of taken women's life and allow me to manage a pretty healthy harem

 

[BeExcellent]

I disagree with the contents thus far of this post.

Really young hot women are on a spectrum from less jaded/more innocent to more jaded/less innocent. For the more to most jaded side of the spectrum (and all the associated baggage that entails) the posts so far are accurate.

But for the less jaded/more innocent? Women want love & acceptance as the highest priority. They want intimacy.

How the hell do I know? I've been an 18-25 year old hot woman with many others for friends. Many women pair off & marry & that's it when they are young. The husbands of the happy married high school sweethearts & the like are not here on SS with very few exceptions. So you aren't getting that perspective here.

I'm sure everyone may at me...but what I'm saying is true. For the less innocent/more jaded women the advice is accurate for the less, it isn't.

Part of the problem is learning what sort of woman you are dealing with. Just like men, women vary. It's not as one size fits all as gets preached around here.

When I was in that age range I and my social circle were all dating men who were the same age or within a 3 year range. That's largely still the case with young women in high school & university.

My daughter & her teen friends aren't yet jaded so they think love and acceptance is what is important. And it IS, but they don't understand "game" and all the context & constructs.

It's interesting seeing it as a parent having lived it as a young woman. They really don't yet understand men & how men, particularly older, experienced men operate. They are so clueless they can't hear it if you try to explain it either. But as a parent you have to keep explaining, because lots of men who would take advantage of a young woman's innocence are everywhere. And you know in time they will begin to see it for themselves, hopefully without making unfortunate mistakes.

Honestly that is good news for the younger guys. This idea that younger guys aren't worth much is completely untrue. The younger guys have the best opportunities in their peer group and the most access to young women.

They simply need to quit being so self absorbed and go meet people & develop social skills. Anytime I hear posts from a young man complaining about he isn't this so he can't have that...I want to say:

Get over yourself & just go do it! No excuses!

 

[bigneil]

Just go do it! (She doesn't mean get a job, she's a kept woman in Nikes).

Indeed, from 18 to 25 women only care about social status.

Then they turn 26 and you need status PLUS a nice house, plus she wants free sneakers.

 

[bigneil]

When I was in that age range I and my social circle were all dating men who were the same age or within a 3 year range. That's largely still the case with young women in high school & university.!

Women today are the same as our generation? You wish.

It's true that in 1985 men that age could afford a house, plus you had the Baby Boomer men who were older and took pretty much all the money, and (yes) all the hot women, at the expense of every subsequent generation, which is why it took me to my 40's to be able to afford the lifestyle women my age insisted on. By the time I could keep them happy, I could keep their daughters happy. Hmm... who will I choose? I'll take the daughter, as much as that pisses off mommy.

 

[bigneil]

I I've been an 18-25 year old hot woman with many others for friends.

Yes, from 1982-1989. Back then (I was 19 in 1989) I could get a job as a landscaper for $6 an hour under the table and afford my own apartment. Stop pretending young men today should be able to support women their age in your shameless attempt to manipulate the dating market for your own personal gain.

 

[BeExcellent]

A kept woman? I keep myself and I am self made with no financial head start or leg up whatsoever. I voluntarily (no court mandate) support my ex husband and 3 kids too.

So sure. If me (a girl) can make it...surely men can. I mean after all men don't have to be pregnant or give birth or any of that and men are able to focus. So if I can do it a guy ought to run circles around me.

Why are you so focused on me? You've never in your life been a woman, much less a hot woman & you don't have daughters either. I was hot at 18-25, I'm still hot, and I have beautiful daughters who are nearing dating age.

So yes I know what I'm talking about. High school kids & college young people more often than not date each other & many pair off, get married & have families.

This isn't a news alert. It's normal behavior.

I am curious about something. Just how is this creating "personal gain" for me or manipulating the dating market? Are you trying to say you want to pay me? How quaint.

Men are smart. Nobody here is manipulated by anything I say. You assign me way too much influence.

I think you follow me around & pull pigtails because you like me. That's very sweet.

 

[BeExcellent]

Just go do it! (She doesn't mean get a job, she's a kept woman in Nikes).

Indeed, from 18 to 25 women only care about social status.

Then they turn 26 and you need status PLUS a nice house, plus she wants free sneakers.

False in some cases. But this serves your narrative. Some here it helps, some here it doesn't.

 

[wifehunter]

most women are 'self worshipping' trash.

 

[Good Gao]

You can tell by reading this thread what users clearly don't get laid due to how they are insulting women for liking what they like, a guy who got laid could care less about any of that sort of stuff, he is happy getting sex and that is that. Nope, just a bunch of bitter guys who will never get hot girls and will always be seen as losers by them so they make up these fictional stories of hot 20 year old sorority girls going for older dudes with dad bods xD

B-b-b-b-b-bbbut social media is for losers and bishes

Instagram is evil and a waste of time

OP, you are 100% correct and anyone with real life experience will easily agree with you.

Hot girls judge guys based on appearance, lifestyle, and what they are doing on social media. Most hot girls dig through Instagram to see what a guy has going on in his life and a lot of followers plus tons of likes on photos means he is a desirable guy, it is social proof at its very core.

In fact, I would argue that most hot girls past the age of 25 care a ton about it too if they have looks and are worth a lot on the dating market. In fact a lot of older ones will secretly love a social media celebrity and see him as that unattainable guy only their younger selves could get.

Your post is one of the best I have seen, in fact it shows me that you go out.

 

[DreamAgain]

The one problem with this is that it sort of cuts fundamentally against some of my principles, which is why I didn't do it for so long.

Self-aggrandizement, rather empty experiences when you cut through the illusion that these pictures and posts provide...I felt disingenuous.

But to deny its importance in the overall scheme of things today was just putting my head in the sand and pretending it didn't matter. In the little time I've invested in bolstering my instagram profile, its already paying dividends, with a few girls I've been interested in liking a few of my pictures and viewing my stories. This may be innocuous...but it plants these little subconscious seeds in her mind, as what she is actually doing is comparing you to to the rest of the competition on her high score list.

 

[bigneil]

Social media regarding the dating scene is for women. Men cannot convey the same information about what makes them attractive with photos. Asking for advice for working out is one thing, but publishing tons of photos of yourself to get attention is a girly thing to do.

For example, studies show that tone of voice alone makes a man 58% more attractive to women. Height and confidence cannot be conveyed in a photo.

Instagram is a bunch of illiterate DB's liking each other and saying "Hey come over so we can screw".

 

[Urbanyst]

At all ages women want VALUE.