Don't go for the "9s" and 10s"

[bigneil]

There are levels of hotness. There should be some DEFCON system - Level 5 hotness is imminent danger.... level 4 and level 3 would be the livable level avoiding the utter boredom of 1 and 2. Everything in moderation... including hotness.

I hear what you are saying, to choose women who choose us, but level 5 is hotter in direct proportion to the other BS you may or may not choose to endure, so they are a calculated risk.

 

[Trump]

Here is my personal experience regarding this: most of the most beautiful women are nothing more but genetically lucky. Because they're beautiful, they are born in a position of natural power, meaning a lot of men wanna bang them so that they can possibly have beautiful, healthy children.

For sure. Every heterosexual man thinks like this.

Here is the problem: since the most basic and strongest instinct in humans is the reproducing desire, as a woman, when you're wanted by doing nothing else other than having a **** and being beautiful, you know that the reproduction chances are not simply high, but for a good amount of years from around 17/18 to around 30 at least, you can even pick some of the best options. That is the reason why almost every beautiful woman doesn't have anything for you other than a **** and an arrogant behaviour of "well, that should be enough for you, mister, now give me everything you got".

Bro this isn't a "problem", it's reality. If you were born rich you wouldn't go to the worst hotels and drive the worst car and live in the worst place. You would expect good good service since you got lucky. It's life.

It sometimes seems like you guys want to go against reality because you don't like it.

I say, look for the women who are not so super beautiful. The reason I say this is not because you should lower the quality of the woman you're looking for. If you're a civilized, mature man living in the 21st century, you probably do not measure the quality of your woman just by how beautiful she is. If you do, you're way behind (in my opinion). I would definitely take a 6 or a 7 (and most of these are still cute girls anyways, not talking about dealing with ugly ass women) that is submissive by nature, that treats me like a king, cooks for me, wants to **** me anytime I want to and often and is also willing to learn sexual skills to seduce me better and is willing to be my companion and support me in what I am doing in my life OVER a 9 or a 10 that is trying to overpower me, wants to earn more than me and is an arrogant **** who's "independent" and a "strong woman".

I would suggest you go for the women that give you a good feeling. Try to make her submit right away by expressing how you feel about her. Not all women will submit, but if one does, trust me, she will be to you more than enough and you won't even chase any kind of women around anymore. For whatever reason you're chasing a woman, do so until it feels right. Listen to your gut feeling, it prevents you from wasting time on the wrong women. When something feels off, it usually is. Listen to it. And stop going after women that your friends or society thinks they're hot. Hot is a complex and personal concept so go after what makes you hot.

Just my experience and 2 cents.

Bro what you are saying is: don't go for the hot girls because they have too many options and will outsmart you and leave you for someone better. Stick with the less attractive ones who know they can't do any better than you and then you'll be happy.

I don't know bro. If I want to be with a girl, I want her to be as hot and attractive as possible. You want to think big, swing for the fences.

Instead if thinking "I want a 6 who will cook and clean and won't leave me." You should think "I want a 9 to enter into my world, and if I don't like her, I'll drop her for a 10."

Come on men!

 

[lizardking82]

For sure. Every heterosexual man thinks like this.



Bro this isn't a "problem", it's reality. If you were born rich you wouldn't go to the worst hotels and drive the worst car and live in the worst place. You would expect good good service since you got lucky. It's life.

It sometimes seems like you guys want to go against reality because you don't like it.



Bro what you are saying is: don't go for the hot girls because they have too many options and will outsmart you and leave you for someone better. Stick with the less attractive ones who know they can't do any better than you and then you'll be happy.

I don't know bro. If I want to be with a girl, I want her to be as hot and attractive as possible. You want to think big, swing for the fences.

Instead if thinking "I want a 6 who will cook and clean and won't leave me." You should think "I want a 9 to enter into my world, and if I don't like her, I'll drop her for a 10."

Come on men!

No, "bro", I did not say that. Hot women are generally not that smart anyways and noone needs them to be smart. I have never had a woman "outsmart" me up to now, whatever outsmart means here. I guess I am a bit more traditional and I perceive hotness in more than just looks. To each their own, I guess.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Everyone sounds like they are coming from below. Dating 8s and 9s shouldn't be that big of a deal because you should be an 8 or 9 yourself.

Social exchange theory states that humans date on their corresponding levels. Celebs date celebs. Nerds date nerds. 5s date 5s. 9s date 9s.

If you feel like 9s and 10s are different than any other women then you need to work on your own value.

You should be to the point where you can't date below 7 because your value is so much higher its jarring.

Ever see a guy in public with a fattie and you just know he's using her for money or easy sex.

Thats where you should be when with below 7s.

 

[marmel75]

I disagree.

Advantages to Dating 9's and 10's

1) You get desensitized to the most beautiful women, so 8's won't get under your skin any more.
2) You prove to the world you are capable of dating such women (social proof).
3) You get feedback from them, and in the process you learn what to say and not say.
4) They are practically impossible to please, telling you stories of yachts, penthouse apartments, $5M bank accounts and limo rides, so they force you to learn about the finer things to please them.
5) It's often the best sex you ever had.
6) If you get them to be genuinely attracted to you (i.e., come), they will be like the fountain of youth to your body.
7) You prequalify for other 9's and 10's.
8) They energize you so you can work harder and earn way more than the extra they expect.
9) You get revenge on all the 6's, 7's and 8's who didn't treat you right.
10) They inspire you to work out.
11) When they leave you (they will eventually) you will be inspired like never before to study SS material and diet, etc.
12) When you learn to walk away from a girl you see as a 10, you will become more powerful than you can imagine (think Ben Kenobi getting killed by Darth Vader).

Why do you need to prove anything to anyone? It would be like if I went around and tried to prove I wrote better code than other programmers. That doesn't make any sense.
I know my code is good. The reason why is because when I am working with other people they come ask my opinions of things and how they should design something. Obviously if they didn't respect the code I wrote they wouldn't do that. They also gave me the nickname "RAID" for my penchant for killing bugs.

I know I'm a good coder because I simply understand it intrinsically. It's like a fish swimming...it didn't have to think about how to do , it just does.