This girl is being so clingy before our first date. We set up the date already and I tried to tell indirectly that I do not want to text but she keep on texting me. When I leave my phone for around half an hour I would see 15 fcking texts, and that happened more than once! I mean we have not even dated nor see each other yet so it is annoying that she keeps on texting/sending photos every single time hell she even called me. Good thing is we have a couple of sexting and I do not want to have a relationship just bang her. How do you deal with this type of girl?? how can I tell her to chill out with the texts? she is 19yrs old.
Help with this clingy girl
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RangerMIke
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Just keep fvcking her and eventually this behavior will die down when you don't respond. She's 19.... perfectly normal for a young chick. You can not control what she does... only how you respond. just don't respond to her texts. Or just send he a quick message that you are busy but want to see her and make a date... tell her you are looking forward to seeing her and she'll be fine.
El Payaso
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He hasn't fvcked her yet. They've only sexted. They are yet to have their first date.
190cmofcancer
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i wish im you OP lol
Yes, so now that we actually met, I realized that she is a sweet and good girl but I am still not attracted to her. We agreed before the date to go to my place next day(we both know why). But now that I know her better, I feel like sht for just wanting to have sex with her. She is such a good person but the fact that she thinks that we are going to have something serious make me feel so guilty. What should I do? should I have sex with her or straight up tell her that I am not interested on her(so I do not hurt her feelings before she gets too attached)
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Lol I used to think the same, but it is actually annoying when someone keeps on texting you tons of messages even though you made clear you do not want to text anymore.
beforeimgone
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Get a phone number from an app and give it to her so her texts are less intrusive.
She's ready to give her your soul, bank account, etc. Take. She's primed to give
marmel75
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Why? You barely know her..certainly not enough to know if she is a "good girl". You only know what she told you. How do you know that's the truth?
And why would you feel bad? Are you deluded enough into thinking that she doesn't want to fvck just as much as you do?