My Date With A Gold Digger

[soulforge]

Ok so been on a date tonight with a hb8

Damn this girl was HOT crazy sexy body

Anyhow I bought her the first drink.. we then went to the bar for a second drink and she refused to pay..

She was expecting me to pay for the drinks all night... which I refused to do..

The date went well.. lots of laughs, touching and some kissing!


After the date she messages me this..

HER - I like you, but I am not an equal opportunities kind of girl.. i want to be looked after, all the best..


So to me this translates as, she is looking for a simp who will pay for chit for her..

She did not like the fact, that i expected her to pay for one drink...


Anyhow I kept my frame, and did not even bother to reply her back..


Fuking pof chicks! How did I handle this?

Girl was hot..but I aint a fool either!

 

[Glassguy]

I would give her NO response to that AT ALL.

At least leave her wondering how you felt it went and why you didn't respond to her.

 

[Thorninmyside]

No response is the right one. But of course it's fun to imagine the look on her face if you sent back something like "I only reserve that kind of treatment for higher quality women. No hard feelings".

 

[AJ84]

Wow. Dodged a bullet. You should text her back the link to sugardaddy.com where she can find some old fat dude to sweat all over her while she fakes interest for designer clothes, because that's the direction she's going in, clearly.

 

[soulforge]

The girl was stupid fuking HOT she is a personal trainer..

Amazing legs.. shame she had such a chitty attitude..

Still I am not selling more soul, my standards for puzzy!

 

[Jifto]

I have been running into this too man. Some girls even have this spelled out on their OLD profiles. "If you can't afford to pay for me, you can't afford to date."

WTF is this? What happened to equality?

I also love it when a girl has her salary listed as 25-50k but is only looking for 150k+. Please.

 

[AJ84]

The thing is, girls like that basically advertise their bodies as commodies then get upset when they are used for secs.

" If you can't afford to pay for me." Is it any wonder they are expected to put out?

I have a friend who is like this. Expects expensive dinners on first dates, tells guys she's worth it, then gets offended if a date tries to get in her pants after the first date. Well when you dress with your breasts hung out, tell the date you expect a nice dinner and say you're worth it, what do you think they interpret ' worth it' to mean. She's a pill but funny as hell and I don't have to date her so we hang out from time to time but wow her attitude around men is borderline toxic.

 

[soulforge]

I have been running into this too man. Some girls even have this spelled out on their OLD profiles. "If you can't afford to pay for me, you can't afford to date."

WTF is this? What happened to equality?

I also love it when a girl has her salary listed as 25-50k but is only looking for 150k+. Please.

I know man.. this chick even claimed she liked me..

She is willing to lose out on a guy she likes, because he aint bending over backwards paying for ALL her drinks..

That girl needs a beta faggot in her life.. not a man with a spine!

Man we live in dark times.. these hoes are fukery on another level..

 

[zekko]

Soulforge, sounds like you handled it perfectly.

WTF is this? What happened to equality?

They only want equality when it's convenient.

 

[SuckItUp]

The thing is that many physically attractive women get to a point where their interactions with men become a question of what can I get with the least amount of effort and interest.

Chances are this "woman" uses men to get free drinks/dinners/etc. because men who want validation of eye candy on their arm are willing to pay.

This type of woman is not worth your time. She might be hot, but she's a user/taker and appears to care little for anyone but herself.

Eventually she falls for a player and/or bigger user taker who crushes her soul by using her as *** dumpster or her looks fade and she ends up lonely because the **** carousel has far fewer rides and fewer men are willing to deal with her bs.

 

[Jifto]

The thing is that many physically attractive women get to a point where their interactions with men become a question of what can I get with the least amount of effort and interest.

Chances are this "woman" uses men to get free drinks/dinners/etc. because men who want validation of eye candy on their arm are willing to pay.

This type of woman is not worth your time. She might be hot, but she's a user/taker and appears to care little for anyone but herself.

Eventually she falls for a player and/or bigger user taker who crushes her soul by using her as *** dumpster or her looks fade and she ends up lonely because the **** carousel has far fewer rides and fewer men are willing to deal with her bs.

I like this. She'll keep going round that sh!t carousel until it stops, because nobody wants to get on that old, beat up ride.

 

[sazc]

The BEST reply is silence. If you reply anything at all she is going to think she may have frame. If you say nothing you are going to set the hamster wheel of self doubt in motion....that's why NC is so awesome, esp strategic NC.

She' going to find someone who will pay for all of her drinks, and other chit. It Doesn't matter because that isn't the personality trait you are looking for in a female. Move on from this one.

Why do they think they can do this? Because they have done it and they want to see what kind of guy you are.

@SuckItUp stated exactly where I was going to go next. he hit the nail. she's going to milk a bunch of betas and then fall for a bad boy who will use her all up. And then she'll start that merry go round again, over and over again

 

[Jifto]

I tend to notice this type of behavior more from women with income significantly lower than mine. Only my experience, but perhaps there is something to that.

 

[skinnyguy]

The more you desire sex, the thinner your wallet will be.

If she's as hot as you say she is, she knows she won't have to pay for dates. Plenty of thirsty betas will pay for her and not get sex in return.

 

[darksprezzatura]

I'd disagree with everyone supporting you and telling you she's a b!tch.

Firstly, assuming you were leading, you asked her out, bought her a drink and took her to a bar.

Secondly, you set the frame of the interaction and venue, refusing to pay for drinks was similar to her refusing you sex after she took you to the bedroom.

You shouldn't have cared about the money and offered to pay even if she insisted otherwise because you were leading.

The only time I tell a woman to pay is when she leads and hints she's thirsty, I tell her "Me too, buy me a drink" with a sly smile.

Calling her a "gold digger" who wants a "beta faggot" in this situation is similar to her thinking you are "sex crazed fiend" who wants a "wh0re" if she took you to the bedroom and refused sex.

The blue pill runs deep in this forum.

 

[Trump]

I'd disagree with everyone supporting you and telling you she's a b!tch.

Firstly, assuming you were leading, you asked her out, bought her a drink and took her to a bar.

Secondly, you set the frame of the interaction and venue, refusing to pay for drinks was similar to her refusing you sex after she took you to the bedroom.

You shouldn't have cared about the money and offered to pay even if she insisted otherwise because you were leading.

The only time I tell a woman to pay is when she leads and hints she's thirsty, I tell her "Me too, buy me a drink" with a sly smile.

Calling her a "gold digger" who wants a "beta faggot" in this situation is similar to her thinking you are "sex crazed fiend" who wants a "wh0re" if she took you to the bedroom and refused sex.

The blue pill runs deep in this forum.

I agree with this.

Bro, YOU asked her out because if her crazy, insane, body. You took her to the bar. Money should have no object for one night, let alone a few hours. We ask a hot hot girl out and we don't have enough money to cover a few drinks? We want them to give us sex because we haven't had it in a long time and because of who we are? Come on guys, get your act together and then work the game.

I love it when men don't get what they want in this forum. They trash the other party like crazy, and then rationalize their own behaviour to make themselves feel better.

 

[jboyd5]

This the same girl that flaked on you three times?

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I know man.. this chick even claimed she liked me..

She is willing to lose out on a guy she likes, because he aint bending over backwards paying for ALL her drinks..

That girl needs a beta faggot in her life.. not a man with a spine!

Man we live in dark times.. these hoes are fukery on another level..

Meet. girls. offline. POF sounds like a waste of time, and drama you don't need.

As far as money goes, I'm not stingy. I took a woman I met a few weeks ago [in a coffee shop] out for some drinks last night. I picked up the tab... on the understanding it is her round next time. It might or might not pan out... but what's a few dollars.

 

[wifehunter]

High Maintenance

Think about this...

If you end up in an LTR with her...you'll be doing all the work. She'll just lay there and eat her gluten free bon bons.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I know man.. this chick even claimed she liked me..

She is willing to lose out on a guy she likes, because he aint bending over backwards paying for ALL her drinks..

That girl needs a beta faggot in her life.. not a man with a spine!

Man we live in dark times.. these hoes are fukery on another level..

Weren't you the guy getting blown out by an abusive ex gf? You've learned. It's for the B12 check to pursue you. If she contacts you again and brings it up let her know your not cool with that paying all the time bull****.