Refusing to Compromise

[bigneil]

Gentlemen,

It's time we put a stop to this. To the blatant disrespect we receive as we get texted from girls who (let's face it) are currently in bed with their underemployed, tattooed f*ck toys (who probably need their daddy's money just to pay for their ink).

I for one will no longer tolerate:

1) Being called letter 'u'.
2) Getting 5 straight two-word replies.
3) Girls with tattoos.
4) Girls who cancel ANY date within one hour - ever, for any reason, life sentence.
5) Girls who are married (pump and dump only).
6) Girls who don't say thank you after a date - ever, life sentence.
7) Girls who try to sneak nasty emoticons like Grimace or Slanty face into their texts (to please their pimp who apparently reads their messages).

Add yours here. This sh!t stops here.

And another thing - men, we need to kick the asses of any men who agree to put up with this to get laid. They are the ones who sold us out to the new marriage laws, these losers.

 

[zekko]

"U" is just an abbreviation, I wouldn't give that a first thought, let alone a second thought.
I have no problem with the rest of your list, really.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

In times like these, I ask myself: "who gives a fuck?" It is then that I realize I do not. So I don't. And neither should you.

 

[Red Legg]

2) Getting 5 straight two-word replies.

I hate this one...this would garner a life sentence from me..

 

[bigneil]

I just dumped my date for tomorrow.

I texted "Just think, your not typing the letter 'o' and 'u' in 'you' cost you a trip to Boston.

She replied with a thumbs-up emoticon.

F*ck these b!tches.

 

[Von]

Money doesnt by love Neil

But you right on the methology

 

[resilient]

Acronyms I don't like "wbu" what about you, "rn" right now" or pointless texts like "hey" or "hiii" no substance after those texts. "omg" or "lol" because they were passive and not active listening. "Idk" I don't know is also lazy thinking.

My personal favorite from a lady I next recently. I emailed something cool and put time into creating the message. I get a reply back a few hours later with three pointless words "oh cool, thanks!" She might as well not have replied to the message and I would have taken the hint of the low interest level.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

WORST WORD hands down... is..

ur

/thread, flamethrow the cvnts house.

 

[Urbanyst]

Small tattoos can be cute. As long as they don't go crazy and cover their entire arm or leg.

 

[bigneil]

In times like these, I ask myself: "who gives a fuck?" It is then that I realize I do not. So I don't. And neither should you.

Who cares about being respected?? I care.

 

[BeExcellent]

I just dumped my date for tomorrow.

I texted "Just think, your not typing the letter 'o' and 'u' in 'you' cost you a trip to Boston.

She replied with a thumbs-up emoticon.

F*ck these b!tches.

In other news Neil was simply being used for a trip to Boston. Fortunately he caught on in time by assuming the role of grammar police.

I mean these girls are 20 & easily distracted. A grammar lesson is a drag to them. Just enjoy them & don't be a drag.

Respect I can understand but you aren't going to change the 20 year old culture...rather you'll come off like a fuddy duddy.

 

[Trump]

For me;

1) Being called letter 'u'.

Don't care

2) Getting 5 straight two-word replies.

Frustrating but is ok

3) Girls with tattoos.

Small tattoo is OK

4) Girls who cancel ANY date within one hour - ever, for any reason, life sentence.

Frustrating but is OK. Wait until she reaches out again, then you respond accordingly.

5) Girls who are married (pump and dump only).

Don't go there.

6) Girls who don't say thank you after a date - ever, life sentence.

Don't care.

7) Girls who try to sneak nasty emoticons like Grimace or Slanty face into their texts (to please their pimp who apparently reads their messages).

Don't care.



Worst thing for me is the 2 word replies. Other than that don't care about the rest. I'm trying to have fun with the girl, have her come along for the ride. Yes it's nice to be respected and have the perfect girl, but no one is perfect, and at the end of the day you want to go out with the girl, not stay at home alone.

Now if you MARRY the girl, then everything on the list applies because you have entered a legal contract. But to cancel a trip with a good looking girl over something trivial? I don't know if I should be impressed or dumbfounded.

 

[Konada]

For me;

1) Being called letter 'u'.

Don't care

2) Getting 5 straight two-word replies.

Frustrating but is ok

3) Girls with tattoos.

Small tattoo is OK

4) Girls who cancel ANY date within one hour - ever, for any reason, life sentence.

Frustrating but is OK. Wait until she reaches out again, then you respond accordingly.

5) Girls who are married (pump and dump only).

Don't go there.

6) Girls who don't say thank you after a date - ever, life sentence.

Don't care.

7) Girls who try to sneak nasty emoticons like Grimace or Slanty face into their texts (to please their pimp who apparently reads their messages).

Don't care.



Worst thing for me is the 2 word replies. Other than that don't care about the rest. I'm trying to have fun with the girl, have her come along for the ride. Yes it's nice to be respected and have the perfect girl, but no one is perfect, and at the end of the day you want to go out with the girl, not stay at home alone.

Now if you MARRY the girl, then everything on the list applies because you have entered a legal contract. But to cancel a trip with a good looking girl over something trivial? I don't know if I should be impressed or dumbfounded.

Are you Gandalf? Time to get off your high horse.

Kind of explains why you have such a negative outlook that you have on women when you tolerate the crap listed by OP. (I don't agree with #1 but rest yes).

 

[bigneil]

Yesterday I noticed my would-be date was sending Grimace faces instead of smiley faces, but at times when it seemed she was happy. "U are the best! (Grimace)". That ultimately was the reason I broke the date, although I told her it was because she kept calling me 'u'.

Respect I can understand but you aren't going to change the 20 year old culture...rather you'll come off like a fuddy duddy.

As BeExcellent tries to change 40 year old culture. The fact a woman hates my rules is proof positive that the rules are good.

 

[bigneil]

Regarding the man texting first after the date, it has been my experience (in about 40 examples) that if the woman is interested she will reach out first. ANY time I broke this rule (which happened a handful of times thanks to the advice of many here who don't have the balls to dream of employing this rule), it NEVER led to sex. EVER.

If she doesn't text first after the date, she is soft-nexting you.

 

[zekko]

U guys r way 2 thin skinned.

 

[bigneil]

U guys r way 2 thin skinned.

I really wish you were correct. I wish those 5 girls who I took to dinner who didn't send a thank-you after really liked me and were just old-fashioned. I did reach out to them and I learned that was not the case.

My last girlfriend texted after every single date without fail. I never broke that rule with her.

 

[sazc]

@bigneil @BeExcellent isn't trying to change 40 year old culture, she's pointing out the obvious, and it's something I thought as well.

All the behavior you described is the traditional genre for the age group that you like to date in. You will probably have more luck with females (be seen as cool instead of Gramps) becoming a part of the culture, then trying to figure against it.

It's a normal part of who these females are. This is the lingo of their peers and social circle. To put it succinctly, you are a man that is closer to 50 than 40. If you want to be successful in this dating Circle of 20 year olds you may want to consider integrating their culture into Who You Are.

In fact, neither of us hate your rules, so your point there is completely invalid. I find the lingo these days absolutely annoying. However, it seems that adaptation is the key to success if you plan to date within that age group. This is all just an observation. Don't bunch your panties yet again because someone is disagreeing with you.

 

[Glassguy]

In regards to the texting abbreviations, its part of the culture. I dont do it, but if you're dating/humping the younger generation its just part of it. Accept it (frustratingly) and just have fun with it.

While I'm never really one to burn bridges, there are actions that get life sentences.

1- The hot/cold (normally someone monkey branching from their man and checking to see if the water is warm). If they cant make their mind up (quickly) about getting together, I will make their mind up for them. Next.

2- Cheating (while in a relationship). Self explanatory. This would get them purged from all contact, social media, etc immediately.

3- The over texter/over thinker/insecure woman- Send me 10 messages on fb, text, etc because I didnt respond (busy life) and they get the boot. Texting should have a good even flow to it if there is interest on both sides.

My current FWB sent me 6 FB messages in a row yesterday saying how she wants more, blah blah. I told her that I was fine with the way things are due to my busy schedule (too busy for HER). She says she wants a relationship and will have to look elsewhere if I cant give her more than showing up and screwing for an hour here and there. I tell her to do what she has to do. Later in the day I see her profile on OLD (I was checking a bunch of messages that I had not read this week. She likes one of my pics. She obviously started the account after reaching out to me, wanting more (which ended in her saying she was fine with FWB).

"So you're OLD now? Thats cool. I hope you find that relationship you're looking for. I will start looking elsewhere as well. Maybe we can fvck once or twice more in the meantime, but that will be the end of it". Then she starts back peddling and saying she was just playing around with it........

So that leads me to #4: Make threats of looking elsewhere, leaving, etc.........they get a "BYE" and then ghosted.

The old Glassguy would have negotiated, or appeased them. The new Glassguy has no time for that sh!t and doesnt put up with disrespect. It really is my way or the highway UNLESS its a LTR. Then I dont care to compromise just a little bit.

Lastly, and most importantly, I dont do disrespect. I am respectful to all people, not just women.

My ex fiance, with brashness, tried to correct me in front of several of her family and friends in a very b!tchy way. Shaking her head and and acting all stupid. While I didnt say anything in front of others, as soon as we left I told her if she ever acted like that again she could fvcking walk home because I would leave and never speak to her again. 5 months later she did it to my daughter and I ended it.

Too many women out there to be putting up with these disrespectful characteristics that some women portray. Learn to walk, truly walk, and you will automatically increase your value.

 

[bigneil]

@bigneil @BeExcellent isn't trying to change 40 year old culture, she's pointing out the obvious, and it's something I thought as well.

All the behavior you described is the traditional genre for the age group that you like to date in.

They are not all like that.

• My last 4 young girlfriends (born 1991-1995) never once called me letter 'u' and my last girl totally understood how that was disrespectful.
• My last girl texted to thank me after every single date.
• My last girl had no tattoos.
• She was married (lesson learned) but did get a divorce.
• She never sent lots of two word replies (on the contrary, she romantic, poetic and verbose).
• She never sent a bad emoticon (the worst was :\)
• She did cancel a date last second a couple times, but not until we were dating 6 months, and once I deserved it.

Finally, I'd like to remind you that the 45 year old beauty who I picked up Saturday was one of the craziest women I ever met in my life.