I just want to thank the red pill community..

[sazc]

I get this impression that you think a guy has to be out chasing tail every minute of the day. The only explanation you can come up with for not doing it is because he might take some ribbing from his family?

I mean I know some guys like that, but they have very little going for them (except maybe good looks), they're not that bright. Maybe he didn't feel like chasing women that day? Guys do have other things on their mind on occasion, you know?

good fvcking gawd, how in he world did you move to being so accusatory about all of this so quickly?

 

[BeExcellent]

My experience peripherally observing strippers who might come to my Ex's club on a night off and also knowing two men who married strippers (one of them married a Penthouse pet) is that they are unstable mentally and emotionally and that they use people.

At the club they use their body to get money, out on the town they use their body & looks to pull the best looking or highest status men they can.

They are sometimes smart, but often have little common sense & rational ability to think & consider consequences.

As a section of the human population they are not people with scruples or values. Again, generally speaking. But they certainly know how to push buttons & use others (and themselves) toward an end.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Notice the bold text. There's exceptions to every rule in game, a few does not count as a general rule. They're models and make a living off selling their looks, so yeah they're in it for the money.


It wouldn't be YOU they're attracted to, so no. It would bring a bunch of gold diggers though that doesn't really give a fuck about YOU, they'll be very attracted to your bank account though. You better pay them generously or they'll show you how they really feel about you.

Well making a lot of money is something I want to do with my life regardless. Perhaps it's a part of my personality to have ambition. It is more important to me than women. But I would be disappointed if I never had kids.

I've had sex before. Having sex more times or with more people won't change my life in any significant way.

I don't think I would ever blindly give money to a girl for no reason. In fact, I think a part of me would die every time I gave a girl money unless it was a straight up prostitution situation.

 

[Serenity]

Well making a lot of money is something I want to do with my life regardless. Perhaps it's a part of my personality to have ambition.

This isn't what I'm criticising, I'm not trying to convince you to stop trying to get rich.

What I am criticising is your expectations about money, that it will bring you love.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

This isn't what I'm criticising, I'm not trying to convince you to stop trying to get rich.

What I am criticising is your expectations about money, that it will bring you love.

I never said that I even believed in love. But regardless...

I don't talk much most of the time, so the only outward difference would be the vehicle (Bentley). At that point, I could just lie and say I'm a millionaire.

It would either get me attention or get me robbed.

 

[AJ84]

This isn't what I'm criticising, I'm not trying to convince you to stop trying to get rich.

What I am criticising is your expectations about money, that it will bring you love.

Money buys things, and the impression of love. That's it. If this wasn't the case, if money truly brought someone love, terms like gold digger and trophy wife wouldn't exist.

If a man or woman is ok with being with a person who is hot, looks good on their arm, but doesn't love them and will leave if the well runs dry then good for them. But no one, man or woman, should fool themselves into thinking money alone will lead to actual love.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Money buys things, and the impression of love. That's it. If this wasn't the case, if money truly brought someone love, terms like gold digger and trophy wife wouldn't exist.

If a man or woman is ok with being with a person who is hot, looks good on their arm, but doesn't love them and will leave if the well runs dry then good for them. But no one, man or woman, should fool themselves into thinking money alone will lead to actual love.

And you believe in "actual love?"

Describe it to me.

 

[Serenity]

And you believe in "actual love?"

Describe it to me.

When you have and show a genuine concern for the well-being of another human. So a woman who loves you would care about how you feel.

Wikipedia has a more detailed description though.

 

[Bible_Belt]

they are unstable mentally and emotionally and that they use people.

At the club they use their body to get money, out on the town they use their body & looks to pull the best looking or highest status men they can.

They are sometimes smart, but often have little common sense & rational ability to think & consider consequences.

As a section of the human population they are not people with scruples or values. Again, generally speaking. But they certainly know how to push buttons & use others (and themselves) toward an end.

To be fair to strippers, if you look at the class of women who are that age and have the looks to hold the job, you could make the same points about many other non-stripper women as well.

 

[AJ84]

And you believe in "actual love?"

Describe it to me.

I can't describe it but part of it, I think is this:

When you can actually put the needs of another above your own without feeling bitter about it and without agenda because you truly want that person to be happy. When you feel like you're on top of the world when that person does the same for you.

 

[soulforge]

chill out gramps, not every comment needs to be taken to def-con 5 situation, you know?

Sazc = Sick

 

[bigneil]

My experience peripherally observing strippers who might come to my Ex's club on a night off and also knowing two men who married strippers (one of them married a Penthouse pet) is that they are unstable mentally and emotionally and that they use people.

Needle off record - are non-stripper Penthouse pets emotionally stable? Do non-stripper beautiful young women not use people?

News flash! Middle aged woman doesn't speak highly of sexy 20 year old babes.

Money buys things, and the impression of love. That's it. If this wasn't the case, if money truly brought someone love, terms like gold digger and trophy wife wouldn't exist. If a man or woman is ok with being with a person who is hot, looks good on their arm, but doesn't love them and will leave if the well runs dry then good for them. But no one, man or woman, should fool themselves into thinking money alone will lead to actual love.

Ok, but having money is still better than having no money.

A handsome guy with money will keep women longer than a handsome guy with no money.

If you are broke with no career, you have a much lesser chance of seducing the girl of your dreams.

 

[AJ84]

Needle off record - are non-stripper Penthouse pets emotionally stable? Do non-stripper beautiful young women not use people?

News flash! Middle aged woman doesn't speak highly of sexy 20 year old babes.


Ok, but having money is still better than having no money.

A handsome guy with money will keep women longer than a handsome guy with no money.

If you are broke with no career, you have a much lesser chance of seducing the girl of your dreams.

Yes having money is still better than having no money.
Yes a handsome guy with money will keep a woman longer than a handsome guy with no money.
Yes if you are broke with no career you will have less chances of seducing the girl of your dreams.


But, the girl of your dreams should see your financial assets as part of the total package that makes her want to be with you. There should be something in you, how you make her feel, that leads her to love you. It's all about the feelings and I think you know this and can appreciate it based on some of what you post.

If money is the only thing she values, she's not really the girl of your dreams, unless the girl of your dreams is a fair weather gold digger.

 

[bigneil]

Yes having money is still better than having no money.
Yes a handsome guy with money will keep a woman longer than a handsome guy with no money.
Yes if you are broke with no career you will have less chances of seducing the girl of your dreams.


But, the girl of your dreams should see your financial assets as part of the total package that makes her want to be with you. There should be something in you, how you make her feel, that leads her to love you. It's all about the feelings and I think you know this and can appreciate it based on some of what you post.

If money is the only thing she values, she's not really the girl of your dreams, unless the girl of your dreams is a fair weather gold digger.

Naturally. It is all about her level of attraction. Ideally you have a woman who is highly attracted who you also spoil.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Maybe he didn't feel like chasing women that day?

My guess (without even reading the whole story) is chasing tail is only appropriate when you don't want them to know where you live.

Getting picked up by MILF's you'll never see or hear from later is one thing.

But at a wedding, where everybody knows everybody, I'd assume a true player would be as hands off as possible.

 

[bigneil]

While there might be the rare, high IQ stripper here and there, or the pole dancer paying her way to a masters degree, in my past experiences with strippers, most become strippers so they can pay for a lifestyle they couldn't afford via a normal job, regardless of whether that lifestyle is cocaine & booze or simply raising a kid alone (or both).

Why can't they afford it with a normal job? Because the education and work experience isn't there.

My last girlfriend earned $101,000 at age 20, without being a hooker. She showed me her monthly statements. At age 46, I have a hard time earning that much. I hope to make that much in the next year. Where else could a 20 year old woman (in her prime) earn that much?

 

[sazc]

My last girlfriend earned $101,000 at age 20, without being a hooker. She showed me her monthly statements. At age 46, I have a hard time earning that much. I hope to make that much in the next year. Where else could a 20 year old woman (in her prime) earn that much?

Wait...what?! Correct me if I am wrong, but you consistentIy tell everyone that you clear over $200k a year, regularly!

 

[bigneil]

Wait...what?! Correct me if I am wrong, but you consistentIy tell everyone that you clear over $200k a year, regularly!

Just because I made $300,000 in the last year doesn't guarantee me I will make $100,000 next year. I'm a contractor. Most people who work for a living understand that concept.

The average person makes $30,000 per year.

I love how you guys want to act like a homeless 20 year old beauty could have just made $100K as a Librarian or Chemist. She tried to be a star.

 

[The Duke]

I've spent a lot of time in strip clubs the past 20yrs, known many of those girls, even dated a few, and had friends date strippers as well. I really don't see much difference between a girl that strips and one that doesn't. By what I've read, the ones that think there is a huge difference don't have much experience. ;-)

In fact I don't see any difference between realtors, pharmaceutical/medical sales reps, hairdressers, dental hygienists.......and $trippers! These are all easy money jobs that attract hot women. I've dated all of that mess. So when you gain that sort of dating experience come back and we will compare notes.

 

[Julian]

Yo why the fuk does every thread have the same 5 muther fukkers bickering back an forth about strippers an money and who makes what and blabla. just a big ol pissing contest and LOL no one shows proof of anything ever. you clowns disgust me.