are promiscuous women girlfriend material?

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Most of the female 3 somes are MFF, because they are doing stuff with their best buddies... "Sharing" per say.
Not for a quality slvt. My Ex was MMF and tried to blame it on being under the influence at the time. Any time you hear about her doing two men, she's an instant dump…
 

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Not for a quality slvt. My Ex was MMF and tried to blame it on being under the influence at the time.
How the heck did that feel? I guess if you wanted a h0e you could pass around through guys you know that would be fine... I can't imagine how it would feel if at one time you wanted her for your gf.
 

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How the heck did that feel? I guess if you wanted a h0e you could pass around through guys you know that would be fine... I can't imagine how it would feel if at one time you wanted her for your gf.
It was her past history that she told me about and like a fool I disregarded that huge red flag.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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Yes, promiscuous women are the best. You want a girl with experience.
When I use the word "promiscous", it tends to mean very many different sexual partners. I was not that promiscous of a male, but had many thousands of conjugations with a half dozen gf's and wives a total notch count of around 41. I was usually better in the art of sex than someone who had a notch count in the 100's but only 1 or close to 1 lays with each one.

The high partner counts do not usually develop additional skills because they don't learn the person. They simply learn a few ways THEY prefer to do things.
 

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but do you want a girl who is normal? is the average woman what you're looking for? or is it possible for abnormalities to be beneficial or desirable?
a woman who wants sex more than most women sounds like a desirable abnormality.
...I'm not saying I'm an expert in women or that I completely understand them, but I have a firm belief now, that women like sex, they just don't like it the way we do. Of course there are some women that like it like us, but I would avoid them.

Women are like kettles, they take time to get hot. There are things that we can do to them, that have a similar response to how we react when a woman shows cleavage.
could you expand on this?
I'm just going to go out and say this, most men don't know how to fvck properly, women of course know this and I hear it from them a lot. What's worse imo is that many women don't even know that most men can't fvck properly...they think this inadequacy is all there is.
What about woman who fuk Immediately? First date, in order to gain Validation..
That's the thing though, how many men can do this? Especially with an 8 or above? You'd be hard pressed to find 10 let alone 30 guys who can do this in a city...and even then, they all happen to be hitting on the same girl? I don't think so. If a girl fvcks around a lot it probably means she has low standards. Not to mention girls who fvck early automatically think they're in a relationship, it happens to me a lot anyway.
Or girls who express desire for 3sums... the amount of woman these days who have either take part in 3sums, or wanting to take part, is incredible
Who said there's anything wrong with this? As long as she doesn't want another guy of course. The average guy isn't getting 3somes, The more girls the merrier...
 
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The high partner counts do not usually develop additional skills because they don't learn the person. They simply learn a few ways THEY prefer to do things.
Right, it's a matter of learned reflex experiences for the man and the woman. Only when they Both bond or get really close to each other does it change from casual personal sexual behavior.
Which gets back to the question of, if she does other men, how does she bond with you… Or do you just get her routine fvck with small adjustments depending on her man of the day…
Tip : If you have not bedded her in a few weeks and when you do she wants it a lot differently than previous times, it's quite possible there very well may be another dog in her yard. It's the easiest tell that exists about her sexual preferances…
 
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Is this a sign of a promiscuous woman?

We know that females tend to bond with men emotionally through the act of sexual intercourse (fuking)

What happens when you don't have sex with a girl, for lets say around a week or maybe two weeks..

Can she lose interest in you? Or loses that connection with you so quickly.

Is this something common with promiscuous woman (slvts) ??
 

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We know that females tend to bond with men emotionally through the act of sexual intercourse (fuking) What happens when you don't have sex with a girl, for lets say around a week or maybe two weeks.. Can she lose interest in you? Or loses that connection with you so quickly.
I've been wondering about this and think @sazc and @BeExcellent can help here, and other female members.

In a generic sense not focusing on details from any particular member, let's say a woman had great sex with a man for several months and then, due to circumstances beyond their control, a few weeks or even months passes without their seeing each other (let's assume there is no formal commitment either) and now she is having great sex with someone else.
  • Do her feelings for the first man go away forever?
  • Do her feelings for the first man go away temporarily?
  • Do her feelings for the first man get put on hold indefinitely?
  • Would she really abstain from sex if she loved the first man more?
My experience has been that their feelings simply get put on hold, and you pick up where you left off (if it's possible for you both), so long as you weren't stalkerish during the breakup. This lasts for up to 5 years.
 

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PS - Depending on how many men she was with, the earlier you are in her queue the stronger the bond.

PPS - All women are promiscuous when they have high attraction.
 

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@bigneil I can't help you here. I did one ONS when I was 19 and decided it was NOT for me.
I don't do casual sex, ever.
If I am having sex with someone it is because I am in a monogamous relationship.
If some time passes and I am having sex with someone else, it is because I am no longer in the last monogamous relationship due to a break up, and have entered into another monogamous relationship.
I'm not easy to get into a relationship either. I screen. Lol, im trying to pick the "last one". So far I suck at that.
 

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@bigneil I can't help you here. I did one ONS when I was 19 and decided it was NOT for me.
I don't do casual sex, ever.
If I am having sex with someone it is because I am in a monogamous relationship.
If some time passes and I am having sex with someone else, it is because I am no longer in the last monogamous relationship due to a break up, and have entered into another monogamous relationship.
I'm not easy to get into a relationship either. I screen. Lol, im trying to pick the "last one". So far I suck at that.
This philosophy is nonexistent in Millennials, sadly. Women who were older than me always had much better morals than women my age or younger.
 

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This philosophy is nonexistent in Millennials, sadly. Women who were older than me always had much better morals than women my age or younger.
I just can't wrap my head around spreading my legs casually......
 

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I just can't wrap my head around spreading my legs casually......
But my question must have been answered a lot during the wars. It's not that uncommon for a couple to separate despite attraction and the woman to find someone else.
 

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One key line I used early in my last relationship was "Any talk about marriage, commitments, relationship and kids is your department. If I ever seem like I'm talking about those things, I'm not".
 

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Out of curiosity, is it because you're afraid you'll get bonded to the guy, what other people might think, you're upbringing, STIs, or something else?
Stranger D1ck.....eeeeww!

I don't know that guy, I don't know where he has been. I don't want his sweaty body all over me or his stranger mouth on mine, yuk. Plus, there is just no way I can enjoy myself and let loose with a man I don't know. And I like to let loose and enjoy myself.

Stranger D1ck...ewwww
 

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Let's say you meet a 22 years old girl you really like, but she's told you that she's had sex with a lot of guys, has had a couple of threesomes, ONS, etc. She really likes sex and she wants it all the time.

Would this make you discard her as relationship material because she's too much of a slvt?
Would you trust her?
Does this make her more likely to cheat on you in the future?
These types of threads and questions should be banned in here--seriously.
 

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I'd also say 'No'

exclusivity is NOT on their agenda.
 
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