Women im talking still on dating sites chatting to other men

[Jamie12345]

Hi All,

I met a great women earlier through the week n match.com, hit it off straight away got her number etc and since then we have spoke none stop through txts and phone calls.

The only problem is im busy all weekend and told her that i cant arrange a date. so we will probably go on one soon after.

Anyway this woman sounds like she has really fallen for me saying im rare and she never opens up to men and has here shield up to most men but i make her so comfortable etc etc

Shes told she sees my as a hard exterior but but a little cheeky and a bit softer on the inside which is perfect.

The only problem is I can see shes active online still and its making me very jealous!

She frequently sends me screenshots of her matches and messages etc and its literally upto the hundred mark!

What can i do about it? Is there any articles i can read, obviously i cant tell her to not go on to this dating site as i know it would be beta. Its just driving me crazy!

Please advise/ give me a slap!

Thanks All

 

[soulforge]

Jeez dude, untill you have fuked a chick, she is not yours..

Online dating is very rapid and quick moving.. you have to strike while the iron is hot..

This means arranging dates ASAP which you are not doing!

You do know your are competing against a gazillion other dudes?

You have not met her, so she is free to chat to whom she likes...

You want her off the site? Then put your ass into gear and meet her

 

[soulforge]

Also her sending you screen shots of her matches, already shows that she is some what fuking retarded

 

[Jamie12345]

it was more the amount of messages she was receiving than anything else!

 

[Jamie12345]

I pulled her up on it

[15:42, 7/20/2017] Me: I would come off it but don't know if to keep my options open, what do you think? x
[15:43, 7/20/2017] Her:
[15:43, 7/20/2017] Her: Well I can't decide that for you. If you want to keep them open then that's your choice haha x
[15:44, 7/20/2017] Her: Have you spoken to others on there? X
[15:45, 7/20/2017]Her: If so just see if the connection compares to how it is with us and that should help you make your decision x
[15:45, 7/20/2017] Her: I know what I want x

What should i say next?

 

[RedZone]

Dude, online dating (and dating in general) is like finding a job. You might have a really promising lead and great interview but it doesn't mean you will get hired. Same with dating. Shes keeping options open and honestly so should you. Plus, she can tell your online too so what's your point?

 

[resilient]

Jeez dude, untill you have fuked a chick, she is not yours..

Even after the lay, she's still not his. Women will shop around in the bedroom until they decided who in their playground deserves exclusivity (if she wants that).

 

[resilient]

I've been gaming women online since the days of AOL where I used to open with a/s/l?

Lol. I remember a/s/l I used to do that all the time on AOL, AIM, and ICQ when I was a teen. I remember one time someone was definitely underage, my friend wrote in response to her age, "hey... if there's grass on the field, play ball."

 

[soulforge]

I pulled her up on it

[15:42, 7/20/2017] Me: I would come off it but don't know if to keep my options open, what do you think? x
[15:43, 7/20/2017] Her:
[15:43, 7/20/2017] Her: Well I can't decide that for you. If you want to keep them open then that's your choice haha x
[15:44, 7/20/2017] Her: Have you spoken to others on there? X
[15:45, 7/20/2017]Her: If so just see if the connection compares to how it is with us and that should help you make your decision x
[15:45, 7/20/2017] Her: I know what I want x

What should i say next?

Dude i would not have bought the issue up, she will be able to see through that, and will know it bothers you..

Now i would just leave it well alone, and just arrange to meet her...

Woman get chit loads of msgs online, don't let it bother you

 

[Juanto]

On the subject of online dating, I started chatting this HB yesterday and today after few messages told her that I prefer to speak in person and asked her when is she free to go out. She said she is now too busy working (therefore showing little interest) but right after asked me what I do for a living. How should I proceed after this?

 

[nismo-4]

On the subject of online dating, I started chatting this HB yesterday and today after few messages told her that I prefer to speak in person and asked her when is she free to go out. She said she is now too busy working (therefore showing little interest) but right after asked me what I do for a living. How should I proceed after this?

Drop her. You know she's only interested in you as a iFriend or e-orbiter.

 

[Urbanyst]

This is to be expected. If a woman is attractive she there will ALWAYS be other men in her life.

Also, relationships are to women what sex is to men. All women spin plates by having orbiters and men in the friend zone. This is why its often suggested for men to have a side piece and several booty calls in addition to his GF, Wife or main plate.

I used to be more traditional believing in true commitment, but not with today's market. If you are not spinning plates today you're kind of a sucker.

 

[danny0001uk]

Here's what she put which I didn't mention the topic again

[20/07, 15:47] her: I know what I want x
[20/07, 15:52] and what's that x
[20/07, 16:01] her: I ain't saying haha x
[20/07, 16:01] Her: I ain't saying haha x
[20/07, 16:02] Her: If you are thinking of keeping yours open then I can't stop you but I can't lie and say it doesn't make me feel a little jealous

 

[jboyd5]

Hi All,

I met a great women earlier through the week n match.com, hit it off straight away got her number etc and since then we have spoke none stop through txts and phone calls.

The only problem is im busy all weekend and told her that i cant arrange a date. so we will probably go on one soon after.

Anyway this woman sounds like she has really fallen for me saying im rare and she never opens up to men and has here shield up to most men but i make her so comfortable etc etc

Shes told she sees my as a hard exterior but but a little cheeky and a bit softer on the inside which is perfect.

The only problem is I can see shes active online still and its making me very jealous!

She frequently sends me screenshots of her matches and messages etc and its literally upto the hundred mark!

What can i do about it? Is there any articles i can read, obviously i cant tell her to not go on to this dating site as i know it would be beta. Its just driving me crazy!

Please advise/ give me a slap!

Thanks All

The phone is for setting dates. Opening up to you may be a sign that she see's you as safe [male girlfriend]. Her sending screenshots of her matches also may be to see how you will react. "The 3% Man" & "The Rational Male" are both amazing books you should read multiple times.

 

[danny0001uk]

Look what else she's been saying

[19/07, 22:40] : Something about when you say my name to me when we are talking on the phone it's just makes me feel all funny inside
[19/07, 22:49] But there is something in the way you say it just gets me
[19/07, 22:57] : You have a hard exterior but underneath it all you are soft but also a bit cheeky and naughty? X
[19/07, 23:01] : Can I say one thing I admire about you?
[19/07, 23:01] : me: Just one thing? Ha x
[19/07, 23:01] : I mean another thing I admire
[19/07, 23:02] : So I admire your confidence and how you make some feel at total ease x
[19/07, 23:03] : That you have control and have your life and yourself together x
[19/07, 23:05] You are so passionate about your family x
[19/07, 23:05] You want amazing things for your future
[19/07, 23:06] You are handsome and hot x
[19/07, 23:07] You have great values and clearly been brought up really well and I predict you take those values and treat a woman very well x
[19/07, 23:07] : You put others first before yourself x
[23:13]: I honestly feel I could chat to you about anything and everything x
[19/07, 23:13] : Just be my total self and that's rare as I usually have my guard up massively x
[19/07, 23:15] i want to see the side of you that you keep away from everyone else x
[19/07, 23:16] Ttust me you already are. But I'm sure you will see it all x
[19/07, 23:22] partner in crime, a team, a unit, a best friend
[19/07, 23:22]: Someone that brings out the best in you and supports your goals and dreams x
[19/07, 23:40] boy you are so so so wow x
[19/07, 23:59]e: Men like you are rare these days and it's so hard finding someone with values and principles these days x
[20/07, 01:20] How I would love to have your arms around me now x

Seriously where do i go from here???

 

[danny0001uk]

Aww isn't that sweet



Sorry to break it to you but she's not the one who has fallen for you.. it's clearly the other way around.

Stop developing feelings and jealousy for online girls or risk getting hurt.

Read the above

 

[bigneil]

it was more the amount of messages she was receiving than anything else!

So you're so desperate you try to find women online, and then without even scoring start stalking one who responded? You sound like a stalker psycho.

Seriously where do i go from here???

To jail for invasion of privacy, hopefully.

 

[danny0001uk]

This is to be expected. If a woman is attractive she there will ALWAYS be other men in her life.

Also, relationships are to women what sex is to men. All women spin plates by having orbiters and men in the friend zone. This is why its often suggested for men to have a side piece and several booty calls in addition to his GF, Wife or main plate.

I used to be more traditional believing in true commitment, but not with today's market. If you are not spinning plates today you're kind of a sucker.

Please read what she has been saying

 

[hockeyfreak79]

AWALT

 

[danny0001uk]

So you're so desperate you try to find women online, and then without even scoring start stalking one who responded? You sound like a stalker psycho.


To jail for invasion of privacy, hopefully.

She was sending my screenshots with the volume of messages she was receiving