No surprise many men grow up to be blue pill.

[El Payaso]

https://www.indy100.com/article/sex...couple-study-relationship-advice-love-7847256

According to the article above, make up sex isn't effective. Crying and apologizing are more effective ways of making up because women want to feel more "emotionally connected".

 

[Urbanyst]

Most of today's women are emotional vampires.

They drain all the positive energy out of you, with mind games, sh*t tests and other dysfunctional behavior.. then once you become a shell of your former self, they say "you changed" and move on to the next victim.

Men are like bartenders and women are like alcoholics. The bartender will charge full price to a new visitor. But if that visitor becomes frequent enough and starts to build a relationship with the bartender, he will relax and start providing cheaper and stronger drinks. He might even start offering free drinks. The really bad visitors will take advantage and start expecting free drinks all the time while causing fights at the bar, damaging property and become a pain in the ass. When the bartender tells the visitor they are cut off or tries to talk them out of their behavior.. the visitor denies they are the problem and blames the bar for having crappy music or bad drinks. They threaten to visit other bars. They are usually visiting other bars anyway, but they claim to only visit your bar. Eventually they just stop showing up (ghosting) or they say they will only visit if they can get free drinks every time because this bar is not that great anyway.

The lesson is women see OPPORTUNITY in weakness. Know when to cut off the generosity.

 

[Roober]

Most of today's women are emotional vampires.

They drain all the positive energy out of you, with mind games, sh*t tests and other dysfunctional behavior.. then once you become a shell of your former self, they say "you changed" and move on to the next victim.

Men are like bartenders and women are like alcoholics. The bartender will charge full price to a new visitor. But if that visitor becomes frequent enough and starts to build a relationship with the bartender, he will relax and start providing cheaper and stronger drinks. He might even start offering free drinks. The really bad visitors will take advantage and start expecting free drinks all the time while causing fights at the bar, damaging property and become a pain in the ass. When the bartender tells the visitor they are cut off or tries to talk them out of their behavior.. the visitor denies they are the problem and blames the bar for having crappy music or bad drinks. They threaten to visit other bars. They are usually visiting other bars anyway, but they claim to only visit your bar. Eventually they just stop showing up (ghosting) or they say they will only visit if they can get free drinks every time because this bar is not that great anyway.

The lesson is women see OPPORTUNITY in weakness. Know when to cut off the generosity.

It is a double-edged sword. Women do do this and often don't even realize it. They castrate men with their behaviors. The problem is blue pill men go along with it as the relationships begin to settle. They relax on their previous standards, they try to avoid conflict, and even get lazy in the sack....

 

[cola]

Should you really have sympathy for men who allow women to get away with **** ?

I check my women. When they get out of line I put them in their place promptly. I never have these issues.
It sounds selfish but girls I date kind of know it's my way or the highway. I don't compromise on very much.
And I do it in a very calm way. No yelling .. it's get with my program or not hear from me.

The ones who can't get with the program find someone else, but the ones who stay are like little puppies I feed treats to when they behave well.

I guess I'm saying weak men deserve it?

 

[SgtSplacker]

You click on the authors name, eventually you can see what the guy looks like. Dude looks like the most blue pill vagina desiccator I have ever seen. Disregard article it's an exercise in failure.

 

[JohnChops]

Should you really have sympathy for men who allow women to get away with **** like this though?

I check my women. When they get out of line I put them in their place promptly. I never have these issues.

I guess I'm saying weak men deserve it?

I agree. These men let women push them around, and let them get away with everything. It is their fault. They do not stay congruent to themselves once a women enters the picture, they change to please her, which shows the woman that the man has a weak will. Weak will'd men do not make it in this world.

 

[TheProspect]

I guess I'm saying weak men deserve it?

I wouldn't say they "deserve" it but they definitely bring it on themselves.

A woman (or anyone) can only get a reaction out of you if you let them.

A woman (or anyone) can only destroy your life if you let them.

A woman (or anyone) can only fvck with your head if you let them.

We have a choice of who we let influence us, to an extent.

The problem is a lot of men blame women and make them responsible for their problems, especially when sh!t hits the fan in their lives, when really it comes down to men allowing themselves to compromise their standards and CHOOSING to tolerate bullsh!t behaviour.

Women don't ruin men's lives and make them miserable, men's reaction to women's behaviour does. Just look at Tenacity. It's fruitless to complain about someone else's innate behaviour as you have no control over it, you can only personally decide if you allow it in your life or not and to which degree you do or do not.

My life changed when I started taking responsibility of who I let in my life and the level of power I let them have (or not have) over me.

 

[Urbanyst]

I agree. These men let women push them around, and let them get away with everything. It is their fault. They do not stay congruent to themselves once a women enters the picture, they change to please her, which shows the woman that the man has a weak will. Weak will'd men do not make it in this world.

There is a thin line between having a weak will and being indifferent.

For instance.. are men supposed to have strong and aggressive opinions about every facet of daily life? What if I'm with a woman and we are both hungry, but I really don't care where we eat? So I tell the woman "I don't care, where do YOU want to eat?" and now I look like a weak willed loser because I don't always take the lead in every situation?

I have one of the strongest wills around. But only when it comes to important stuff. The silly crap women focus on is often too frivolous for me to care about enough to form a strong opinion. Should I wear the red dress or the black dress? I really don't give a sh*t.

 

[soulforge]

It's true, you have to stand up to these type of woman, you do not let them get away with chit...

Most guys go into FEAR mode, and become scared that they will lose that woman, if they put there foot down, and stand up for themselves..

They are scared that she will leave... The truth is SHE WILL LEAVE

The mans fear is founded on truth... woman do not give a FUK these days..

If you try to stand up for yourself, or put her in her place..

Chances are she will leave you, and hook up with some BETA who will happily tolerate her chit, and kiss her ass too..

You just cannot win with woman these days!

 

[SgtSplacker]

Should you really have sympathy for men who allow women to get away with **** like this though?

I check my women. When they get out of line I put them in their place promptly. I never have these issues.
It sounds selfish but girls I date kind of know it's my way or the highway. I don't compromise on very much.
The ones who can't get with the program find someone else, but the ones who stay are like little puppies I feed treats to when they behave well.

I guess I'm saying weak men deserve it?

Your way is the only way man. If they think they can run you they will, right into the ground. Women will ruin a relationship if you give them control. They do the things they want, start thinking you are weak and lose interest. It's like an animal eating itself.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Should you really have sympathy for men who allow women to get away with **** ?

I check my women. When they get out of line I put them in their place promptly. I never have these issues.
It sounds selfish but girls I date kind of know it's my way or the highway. I don't compromise on very much.
And I do it in a very calm way. No yelling .. it's get with my program or not hear from me.

The ones who can't get with the program find someone else, but the ones who stay are like little puppies I feed treats to when they behave well.

I guess I'm saying weak men deserve it?

It's only the case if they refuse to change after being shown what the correct way to behave is. But if they are never exposed to it, it isn't their fault. Keep in mind that these men GENUINELY believe that the way social dynamics work IS to be that way. It's the way they were raised. It isn't all their fault.

 

[JohnChops]

There is a thin line between having a weak will and being indifferent.

For instance.. are men supposed to have strong and aggressive opinions about every facet of daily life? What if I'm with a woman and we are both hungry, but I really don't care where we eat? So I tell the woman "I don't care, where do YOU want to eat?" and now I look like a weak willed loser because I don't always take the lead in every situation?

I have one of the strongest wills around. But only when it comes to important stuff. The silly crap women focus on is often too frivolous for me to care about enough to form a strong opinion. Should I wear the red dress or the black dress? I really don't give a sh*t.

That's a given, who cares about the little ****. I'm talking about the big picture stuff, as always.

 

[SmooveMooves]

You click on the authors name, eventually you can see what the guy looks like. Dude looks like the most blue pill vagina desiccator I have ever seen. Disregard article it's an exercise in failure.

Everytime somebody posts an article like this here it's from some giant blue pill pansy who looks like he has no buisness getting laid in the first place.

Im sick of this: women do this women do that, poor men narrative.

Women do to you what you allow.

I do not feel sorry for welcome mats.