Stupid comment on Okcupid.

[MisterMike]

This girl replied to a message I sent with an unrelated comment about how a message on my profile said I don't large women and how that turned her off, how do I reply to this. It's crazy hypocritical. As far I can see there's nothing wrong with not being attracted to people who don't take care of themselves.

 

[Thorninmyside]

Maybe her fat friends can recommend some good all-you-can-eat places?

May as well troll her with something. You can't fix someone who doesn't see the irony in judging someone for judging.

 

[attic]

Tell her that you know what you like, and this is why you posted some basic guidelines on your profile.

If this chick looks good, get her out. She might just be your typical stupid girl who couldn't think of anything to say, so she tried insulting you. Shows interest, so game on.

 

[marmel75]

This girl replied to a message I sent with an unrelated comment about how a message on my profile said I don't large women and how that turned her off, how do I reply to this. It's crazy hypocritical. As far I can see there's nothing wrong with not being attracted to people who don't take care of themselves.

Learn not to disqualify yourself via online profiles or via texting before you've met.

If you said the same thing in person it would be no issue...for whatever reason, when it's done so via written communication whether its text or a profile, etc before you've met, it's taken as highly offensive...no idea why, but it happeend to me quite a bit before I realized that isn't the time or place for that type of stuff if you want to maximize your opportunity to get laid.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

- so she saw your comment and DECIDED to DM you about it...

...what do you think you should do?

 

[MisterMike]

I'm not asking what I should do about. I'm just sharing my feeling of bewilderment.

 

[Tenacity]

This girl replied to a message I sent with an unrelated comment about how a message on my profile said I don't large women and how that turned her off, how do I reply to this. It's crazy hypocritical. As far I can see there's nothing wrong with not being attracted to people who don't take care of themselves.

You don't respond to it at all.....there's nothing to respond to....it's just another American BYTCH being hypocritical and fvcking ridiculous. I bet if you go on her page, she has her list of "criteria" in terms of what she looks for in a guy, so why the fvck can't you have your criteria?

If you respond at all, do me a favor and CUSS that bytch out. Cuss that bytch out realllllllllllll good for me okay?

 

[Tenacity]

Learn not to disqualify yourself via online profiles or via texting before you've met.

If you said the same thing in person it would be no issue...for whatever reason, when it's done so via written communication whether its text or a profile, etc before you've met, it's taken as highly offensive...no idea why, but it happeend to me quite a bit before I realized that isn't the time or place for that type of stuff if you want to maximize your opportunity to get laid.

What exactly is he disqualifying himself from? A piece of STD-filled pvssy that more than likely has crabs and other creatures of the sea crawling from out of it?

 

[marmel75]

What exactly is he disqualifying himself from? A piece of STD-filled pvssy that more than likely has crabs and other creatures of the sea crawling from out of it?

No wonder why you are so angry and have issues with women. Your attitude sucks.

He is disqualifying himself from women who would otherwise meet up with him. What's the point of sabotaging yourself?

 

[Tenacity]

He is disqualifying himself from women who would otherwise meet up with him. What's the point of sabotaging yourself?

By doing what though exactly? Stating that he prefers women who put health/fitness as a top priority? WHAT exactly is wrong with that? Tell me?

Oh, I see........because if a WOMAN says it's wrong (because she might end up fat here shortly and is looking for a man that might accept that) then it must be wrong? Right?

Go on the average woman's OLD profile and you will see all types of bullshyt criteria, such as:

- You must be "X" tall
- You can't do "X" activity
- You must have "X" education
- You must have "X" career
- You can't message her with "X" in the opening line
- You can't be thinking about sex when you message her
- You can't come off like a player
- Etc., etc., etc., etc.

But when a MAN puts criteria in his OLD profile..........all hell breaks loose? And you justify this retarded shyt?

 

[El Payaso]

Rubbish. Women constantly post about how they only want guys over six feet or whatever arbitrary height, how they only want a specific race etc but get offended when you actually have standards and don't want a fat woman.

Don't dignify her with a response. Just delete and move on.

 

[Desdinova]

He is disqualifying himself from women who would otherwise meet up with him. What's the point of sabotaging yourself?

When I was doing online dating, all I stated was that I like women who take care of themselves physically because I take care of myself physically. I didn't state that I wanted skinny/not fat women. That is a turn-off, even to women who aren't fat because EVERY woman thinks they're fat in some way.

When you say "take care of themselves physically", you're implying that they at least need to be trying to eat responsibly.

 

[marmel75]

By doing what though exactly? Stating that he prefers women who put health/fitness as a top priority? WHAT exactly is wrong with that? Tell me?

Oh, I see........because if a WOMAN says it's wrong (because she might end up fat here shortly and is looking for a man that might accept that) then it must be wrong? Right?

Go on the average woman's OLD profile and you will see all types of bullshyt criteria, such as:

- You must be "X" tall
- You can't do "X" activity
- You must have "X" education
- You must have "X" career
- You can't message her with "X" in the opening line
- You can't be thinking about sex when you message her
- You can't come off like a player
- Etc., etc., etc., etc.

But when a MAN puts criteria in his OLD profile..........all hell breaks loose? And you justify this retarded shyt?

There is nothing "wrong" with it per se, there just is no need for it. What exactly does that do for him by it being in there?

If he wants to tell that to them in person than that's fine...it will be taken much differently than if they are reading it. Why? I have no idea, I just know that it's true. Possibly because they have no context or have no idea of your personality as a person...so they make one up for you and the made up one is the worst one possible in their mind.

Either way, if the goal is to get a woman out on a date anything that hurts you in your goal should be avoided. It's called tact.

 

[marmel75]

Rubbish. Women constantly post about how they only want guys over six feet or whatever arbitrary height, how they only want a specific race etc but get offended when you actually have standards and don't want a fat woman.

Don't dignify her with a response. Just delete and move on.

Yep and guess what. They can do that because THEY are the choosers ultimately.

 

[sazc]

it's called tact.

It is called tact

I think you should make it (gently) clear what your standards are in your OLD profile and you not give any fvks if people are going to get offended.

We are all entitled to tell people, in life and in an OLD profile, that we prefer people who are health conscious and are interested in taking care of themselves as a lifestyle. Perhaps you just need to restate the mention in your OLD profile.

I'm seriously baffled a how we are glorifying obesity. Unless you have a legitimate medical issue, stop stuffing food into your face! Okay, okay, I will tolerate their existence and not make derogatory comments, but I am entitled to my standards and, in the interest of not wasting anyone's time, I will state those standards. Please respect them.

As for the female that DMed you, she's looking to be gamed. She wants you to say that she is the most beautiful female you have ever seen and you would like to take her out and have her prove the preference you have wrong. That's why she DMed you (most likely)

 

[wifehunter]

Translation: her a$$ looks like chewed up bubble gum!!!

 

[zekko]

If it's insensitive to mention something about not wanting to date large or fat women,
why is it not considered insensitive to mention not wanting to date a man under 6'0"?
It's not like a guy can do anything about his height.

 

[El Payaso]

Yep and guess what. They can do that because THEY are the choosers ultimately.

Nah. Because you let them choose and want to degrade another man for having standards. If you don't have standards that's fine. Feel free to supplicate. Some of us aren't ashamed and can actually say what we want without fear of repercussion from the feminine imperative.

 

[marmel75]

Nah. Because you let them choose and want to degrade another man for having standards. If you don't have standards that's fine. Feel free to supplicate. Some of us aren't ashamed and can actually say what we want without fear of repercussion from the feminine imperative.

Having standards has nothing to do with understanding tact and diplomacy.

Wow, you are so much more of a man because you put that you don't like fat chicks on a profile.

 

[Tenacity]

There is nothing "wrong" with it per se, there just is no need for it. What exactly does that do for him by it being in there?

Either way, if the goal is to get a woman out on a date anything that hurts you in your goal should be avoided. It's called tact.

Another reason I keep these things out of profiles is because I have actually met a few women through OLD who were overweight when they were younger, but later shed the weight to become very attractive. One such woman I met turned out to be bi-sexual and down for damn near anything in the sack. Had quite a few interesting romps as a result. She would not have been disqualified at all if I had put a weight standard on my profile, but she probably would not have responded if I did..

I mean you guys are doing exactly what I said is wrong with most guys today.

It's the fact that they allow women to just do whatever retarded shyt they want, as well as, establish whatever retarded criteria they want......and GO ALONG WITH IT.....because not doing so keeps them from getting access to STD-filled, sea creature, pvssy.

- We have already established that logically and health-wise, being a completely out of shape FAT bytch is not good. Now that's just a fact, her own damn doctor tells her this during her routine check-ups every year man. There is nothing at all good about it.

- So instead of sticking to what's right and promoting healthy living, because it might hinder you from obtaining a piece of pvssy....you "tailor your message" in an attempt to not "piss a chick off". And we WONDER why women have taken over the fvcking dating market?

Question: Is there a LIMIT to the retarded shyt you will tolerate? We have to tolerate a bytch having a kid or kids by multiple deadbeats then calling us WEAK men for not accepting it. We have to tolerate a bytch having a bad attitude then calling us WEAK men for not being able to handle her. We have to tolerate a bytch having bad finances then calling us WEAK men for not paying her bills. We have to tolerate a bytch taking a good man through the ringer in Family Court.

What's next? Are women going to start requiring that you do GAY SHYT in order to "not turn them off" and thus "not get access to their STD-filled pvssy"?

Oh because it's coming guys, trust me! A lot of guys are running around here already, wearing tight a.ss skinny jeans like a bytch and women are eating that shyt up.

So that's right, pretty soon you will be getting "rejected" by a bytch because your jeans aren't TIGHT enough. And I bet you guys will run out and slap on some tight a.ss jeans so you don't "turn her off"