What should my next move be with this girl?

[Glassguy]

Call her up, make a date. If she won't go out with you, forget about her. You are over thinking this. You should NEVER waste any time or energy on girls that will not go out with you. They do not exist unless they date you.

Group dates do not count... she has to be willing to spend time alone with you.

@RangerMIke Yeeesssssss!

Alone time means she is sexually interested in you. If she doesnt give you that, delete the number and move on.

Who cares about the backstory, what happened last week, etc.

"Drinks Friday night at 8 at such and such place?"

"Yes/sounds good/see you there"- you go.

"Let me check my schedule"- you dont text until you hear back from her.

"I might be able to do that/We will see/that might work"- you dont text her again.

"Cant make it that night but how is _____?"- accept it and meet up, only if she gives you a specific date/time.

I met up with a woman last week. Drinks at 8pm. She literally texted me at 7:55 and said "Almost there. Is there room for 3 because I have my friend with me at the moment and cant ditch her".

I kept cool and said "no problem". They got there, her friend was complete fvcking drama, the friend's ex showed up and caused a scene and I drank 2 beers and bounced.

She texts me later "Sorry about that, I couldnt ditch her...blah blah blah". I said "no problem, too much drama for me".

She texts me 2 days later "when do I get to see you again?" and I tell her if she wants to come to my place and hang out she can come over at 9pm. She comes over and I get the lay.

No more dinner, no more drinks. She is a lay plate. I never acted mad, just withdrew attention and treated her for what she is worth. Now I could have said "you should have told your friend that you had a date and ditched her" but that was the wrong move. I knew when she sent me that text letting me know about her friend being with her that she was then plate status only.

Dont make this too hard boys. Its not science.

 

[Initiatedindenial]

@RangerMIke Yeeesssssss!

Alone time means she is sexually interested in you. If she doesnt give you that, delete the number and move on.

Who cares about the backstory, what happened last week, etc.

"Drinks Friday night at 8 at such and such place?"

"Yes/sounds good/see you there"- you go.

"Let me check my schedule"- you dont text until you hear back from her.

"I might be able to do that/We will see/that might work"- you dont text her again.

"Cant make it that night but how is _____?"- accept it and meet up, only if she gives you a specific date/time.

I met up with a woman last week. Drinks at 8pm. She literally texted me at 7:55 and said "Almost there. Is there room for 3 because I have my friend with me at the moment and cant ditch her".

I kept cool and said "no problem". They got there, her friend was complete fvcking drama, the friend's ex showed up and caused a scene and I drank 2 beers and bounced.

She texts me later "Sorry about that, I couldnt ditch her...blah blah blah". I said "no problem, too much drama for me".

She texts me 2 days later "when do I get to see you again?" and I tell her if she wants to come to my place and hang out she can come over at 9pm. She comes over and I get the lay.

No more dinner, no more drinks. She is a lay plate. I never acted mad, just withdrew attention and treated her for what she is worth. Now I could have said "you should have told your friend that you had a date and ditched her" but that was the wrong move. I knew when she sent me that text letting me know about her friend being with her that she was then plate status only.

Dont make this too hard boys. Its not science.

My theory is that the overthinking part comes when you don't want to accept rejection and have to come up with this crazy story to keep hope alive. Reality is that when you are in the game you know it, and when you are not you also know it.

Last stage of overthinking is signs and tarot/psychic readers.

 

[marmel75]

I'm not defending her at all, I really was only one of two guys in our age group at work and she didn't even work with the other one and he knows that I'm into her and he himself said that he'd help me if he knew her better but he doesn't. And we've never really texted each other before and I can tell that she's the type of person who wants the guy to take the lead when it comes to texting. I'm not saying that she isn't texting any guys at all because I'm sure that she probably is, I'm just saying that she's the type of person who waits for a guy to text her first, especially if they've never texted before. And I would do that if I just wanted to hook up, I feel like going for dating a girl requires a different strategy. Now my strategy could be wrong, all I'm saying is going for sex right away seems to work better for hooking up than it does for dating. BTW, I like your username #MAGA

You obviosuly have no clue what you are talking about. If you want to learn then take our advice, if you don't then stop wasting our time spouting off bullcrap.