girls are fu**ed seriously....

[3agle 3yes]

First, let me just say when it comes to women I'm a quality guy rather than quantity. I don't really know how many women I've been with but I don't like to hop around from woman to woman like some guys here do, it doesn't interest me and I don't have the time for it.

I wanted to add in my original post that in reality it's okay if a woman gets the impression that you're in a relationship...that's on her.

...you should tell a woman that you're sleeping with other people. Wouldn't you want to know if she was sleeping with other guys?

Most women in my experience only sleep guys they're in a relationship with and since they believe they're in a relationship with me...well. Honestly though, I don't care if they are sleeping with other guys, most don't however, even though I never ask...I just know. Remember in my first post in this thread I said:

...1. When it comes to relationships, get into them very slowly and leave them fast.

I also said in my other post:

...relationships come with expectations, one of the biggest ones is that you're not allowed to get involved sexually with someone else...

If I'm not in a relationship I have no obligation to tell her anything, it's none of her business. But equally she doesn't have to tell me either.

As an aside: Be honest with women on where they stand with you if you have no intention of an exclusive LTR with them...Don't be a coward and lead a woman on pretending that she's the only one, then complain and call her emotionally unstable b**tches be crazy etc etc when she discovers your bs and rightfully gets upset, that's on you.

That's the thing though, I am being honest with them. When I'm with a girl I have no intentional at all, I don't preconceive anything beforehand...I just see where it goes, I think this is really how people should behave.

Why should I commit to someone without accessing what kind of person they are? Does this make me a coward? I think it's common sense.

And believe me, you never see me come on here complaining about women being crazy.

 

[AJ84]

First, let me just say when it comes to women I'm a quality guy rather than quantity. I don't really know how many women I've been with but I don't like to hop around from woman to woman like some guys here do, it doesn't interest me and I don't have the time for it.

I wanted to add in my original post that in reality it's okay if a woman gets the impression that you're in a relationship...that's on her.
Most women in my experience only sleep guys they're in a relationship with and since they believe they're in a relationship with me...well. Honestly though, I don't care if they are sleeping with other guys, most don't however, even though I never ask...I just know. Remember in my first post in this thread I said:I also said in my other post:If I'm not in a relationship I have no obligation to tell her anything, it's none of her business. But equally she doesn't have to tell me either.That's the thing though, I am being honest with them. When I'm with a girl I have no intentional at all, I don't preconceive anything beforehand...I just see where it goes, I think this is really how people should behave.

Why should I commit to someone without accessing what kind of person they are? Does this make me a coward? I think it's common sense.

And believe me, you never see me come on here complaining about women being crazy.

It was an aside in general, not directed at you in particular. I get what you're saying. I think many women however make assumptions about where they stand with the guy they are sleeping with and I guess if they don't ask, then they continue to assume. Yes that is on them. Ideally women who want more and want to know where they stand should ask the guy. Of course they usually ask everyone but the guy hahaha.
Not communicating intentions is of course not like leading them on. I guess I mean being mindful of behaviour that may give the impression that she's the one and only. If she throws out hints that she thinks it's something that it's not shut it down quick by being upfront.

we should all assess if someone is a worthy of commitment. My post refers to people who know they won't be committing.

And it's refreshing to hear that a guy who is causally sleeping with a girl (and maybe others) isn't bothered over her potentially sleeping with other guys. That's what causal dating/FWB/plates usually entails anyway, both sleeping with others, unless some exclusive arrangement was discussed and agreed upon.

 

[sazc]

Remember: women can NEVER give independent advice to a man. Not your mom, not your sister, not sazc. When giving advice, women simply think "What possible answer is best for me personally?" and then they will spew out some projection of a perverted fantasy (leaking little bits of truth) into their "advice".

LMAO @bigneil once again being a complete pvssy b1tch and not tagging me when speaking Ill of me. This from a man who ABSOLUTELY reaches out to me privately for help and thoughts when things go awry with his females..

Let's be super clear... I have NO dog in your fight/dating life. They're is NO reason for me to give you my thoughts and/or slant my thoughts on a way that I would think could personally benefit me.

Let me also be very clear with you @bigneil in case there is any misunderstanding .... I've seen what you look like. The thoughts and musings that I provide to you on this website are in no way geared to benefit myself. I am not interested in what you have to offer. There's is no value there, that I can see.

Moving forward, since my thoughts are of no benefit to you please do not message me and I will refrain from commenting.

Have fun with your stripper toddlers

 

[bigneil]

LMAO @bigneil once again being a complete pvssy b1tch

Once you resort to name calling, you know you lost the argument.

This isn't f*cking Twitter.

You mean reached out? Once? And you said how adorable of a couple we were?

Note to readers: looks obviously must not matter after all seeing that I got the hottest girls.

Don't push your luck sazc - I'll publish your photo with ratings. Oh yeah, I have one. Not that you're that bad. I'd say a 7.

 

[bigneil]

"I know what you look like - there is no value there" - sazc pretending a man can be rated by photos the same way a woman can be rated by photos (again, don't push your luck, princess).

She forgot that teensy part about my being in the 99 percentile of height, income and penis size. Oh, that.

 

[3agle 3yes]

...I think many women however make assumptions about where they stand with the guy they are sleeping with...

I can't speak for anyone else but I'd say 80% of the time when I first bang a girl they think we're exclusive. This is normal, it always surprises me when guys say or think that women in general sleep around, this isn't my experience. When I deal with women, most of the time they are only sleeping with men they are in a relationship with. It's true, there have been times I've been with women who had 'boyfriends' but it's usually not serious or I end it there.

Not communicating intentions is of course not like leading them on. I guess I mean being mindful of behaviour that may give the impression that she's the one and only.

Okay, but understand sleeping with her doesn't mean you're in a relationship (most men and women seem to think sex only happens in relationships). In my opinion, a man can do whatever he wants as long as he doesn't tell her he's in a relationship with her. Honestly, I'm not mindful of "leadin her on", and as far as I'm concerned she is the one and only...in that moment.

If she throws out hints that she thinks it's something that it's not shut it down quick by being upfront.

Again, no obligation. If she thinks it's serious, good for her...maybe she "keep" me.

And it's refreshing to hear that a guy who is causally sleeping with a girl (and maybe others) isn't bothered over her potentially sleeping with other guys. That's what causal dating/FWB/plates usually entails anyway, both sleeping with others, unless some exclusive arrangement was discussed and agreed upon.

Don't get me wrong, it does bother me, I just can't do anything about it. Bear in mind though when most guys think about "sex", they think about "porn-style" non-stop pumping for half an hour or so. This isn't how the average person has sex though. For most guys, lasting 10 minutes is a record and most people don't even know how to have sex properly (when people tell me they had sex, I think of them using the term loosely)...this isn't surprising though because no one teaches them, in this day and age most people are too embarrassed to talk about sex in public.

 

[sazc]

Once you resort to name calling, you know you lost the argument.

This isn't f*cking Twitter.

You mean reached out? Once? And you said how adorable of a couple we were?

Note to readers: looks obviously must not matter after all seeing that I got the hottest girls.

Don't push your luck sazc - I'll publish your photo with ratings. Oh yeah, I have one. Not that you're that bad. I'd say a 7.

Lok, I lied about you being a cute couple.of You're such an absolutely weak beta male, I didn't want to hurt your feelings. I am a nice person like that.

Truth is, your stripper toddlers are most likely only in it for the money and have zero problem whoring themselves out for a good meal.

GO AHEAD publish my picture with the rankings. I have enough security about myself that I don't need to buy into your bvllsh1t website. In fact, I just read that you actually created that website on your own. You own your ranking website so you control and manipulate the rankings as they come out. How valid is that? It's not.

LOL, to be fair, let's publish your picture on a ranking website where females call rate it, eh? Yea, that would go over like a lead balloon

 

[sazc]

"I know what you look like - there is no value there" - sazc pretending a man can be rated by photos the same way a woman can be rated by photos (again, don't push your luck, princess).

She forgot that teensy part about my being in the 99 percentile of height, income and penis size. Oh, that.

Lol, oh no, don't reassemble my words the way you want them to appear.
I have assessed my value of you based on what you look like AND the completely insane bvllchit you post here. The way your mind rationalizes things, you don't think correctly.

I'm not feeding into your need for female drama and attention. Post what you want, say what you want,I am done with this conversation.

 

[bigneil]

Lok, I lied

I stopped at "I lied (in my private message that I bragged about your reaching out for but took it back)".

She can't even spell laugh out loud right.

 

[bigneil]

LOL, to be fair, let's publish your picture on a ranking website where females call rate it, eh? Yea, that would go over like a lead balloon

 

[bigneil]

You're such an absolutely weak beta male, I didn't want to hurt your feelings.

Like I said guys... you can't take what a woman says seriously.

 

[Von]

How come all your tested photos have only 20 votes ?I wanted to ask that for a while

Photofeeler is supposed to be free ?

Just curious...

Although I agree with Sazc... you guys should get married

To OP for the thread: If you ain't getting laid... she ain't liking you enough especially if she's been around for a while

 

[bigneil]

I just read that you actually created that website on your own.

Wow - sazc has completely lost her mind. She thinks I created photofeeler? I wish. I paid them $1000 to have photos rated.

Like hers for example. She asked for this.

 

[bigneil]

How come all your tested photos have only 20 votes ?I wanted to ask that for a while

Photofeeler is supposed to be free ?

No, it's not free (and I didn't create it). I pay $2.50 for 20 votes. 40 votes would cost $5.00.

 

[AJ84]

I can't speak for anyone else but I'd say 80% of the time when I first bang a girl they think we're exclusive. This is normal, it always surprises me when guys say or think that women in general sleep around, this isn't my experience. When I deal with women, most of the time they are only sleeping with men they are in a relationship with. It's true, there have been times I've been with women who had 'boyfriends' but it's usually not serious or I end it there.
Okay, but understand sleeping with her doesn't mean you're in a relationship (most men and women seem to think sex only happens in relationships). In my opinion, a man can do whatever he wants as long as he doesn't tell her he's in a relationship with her. Honestly, I'm not mindful of "leadin her on", and as far as I'm concerned she is the one and only...in that moment.
Again, no obligation. If she thinks it's serious, good for her...maybe she "keep" me.
Don't get me wrong, it does bother me, I just can't do anything about it. Bear in mind though when most guys think about "sex", they think about "porn-style" non-stop pumping for half an hour or so. This isn't how the average person has sex though. For most guys, lasting 10 minutes is a record and most people don't even know how to have sex properly (when people tell me they had sex, I think of them using the term loosely)...this isn't surprising though because no one teaches them, in this day and age most people are too embarrassed to talk about sex in public.

I understand that sleeping with a person doesn't mean you are in a relationship with them, and I never said it did. I was referring to the assumption of a relationship based on exclusivity.

There was funny YouTube clip comparing real sex to porn sex. I can't find it now but it was spot on.

 

[bigneil]

There was funny YouTube clip comparing real sex to porn sex. I can't find it now but it was spot on.

My last girl cured me of my porn addiction. Now I just fantasize about things that actually happened.

 

[bigneil]

Summary of my conversation with sazc

bigneil: Remember: women can NEVER give independent advice to a man. Not your mom, not your sister, not sazc. They mean well...

sazc: LMAO once again being a complete pvssy b1tch. This from a man who ABSOLUTELY reaches out to me privately for help and thoughts when things go awry with his females...

bigneil: You mean reached out? Once? And you said how adorable of a couple we were?

sazc: Lol, I lied about you being a cute couple.

bigneil: Gentlemen, I rest my case about how women can NEVER give independent advice.

 

[El Payaso]

Indeed the reason many men at 29 feel too old for 18 year old women is because of 29 year old women who at that age conveniently decide (after parading around with sugar daddies for 12 years) that they want men their age (when men their age are their hottest). They will then demonize the man to no end. Single moms will try to raise daughters to date men their age, so some women hate the idea.

Remember: women can NEVER give independent advice to a man. Not your mom, not your sister, not sazc. They mean well, but the ONLY thing they can do is essentially pure non-empathy - pure apathy toward the issue the man wants information about . When giving advice, women simply think "What possible answer is best for me personally?" and then they will spew out some projection of a perverted fantasy (leaking little bits of truth) into their "advice".

Completely agree. I always find it funny when older women try to shame men for dating younger women. Like many of them weren't doing just that when they were younger.

 

[Tenacity]

No I forgot to mention we never had sex. We fooled around and kissed/made out but never slept together....as I said she wanted to take things slow and said she didn't have a high sex drive like she once did.....I didn't want to come off as a pushy guy whose only after one thing. I genuinely did have feelings for her so I respected her decision to wait untill she was ready....bad move I know.

I've always found older women more attractive I don't know why. I like younger girls too but they are only good for one thing. But after this whole fiasco I'm determined to never bother with girls again. 11 years of dating and failing along with heartbreak just doesn't make the pay off worth it. Whenever you think you may have found a decent one, they go and sh1t on you like that.

It's NOT YOUR FAULT. This is the market of women we are dealing with today. I continue to tell you guys this.

Women of today's market are Penny Stocks, not Blue Chip Stocks. Your focus is in getting in, fast, and getting to SEX within 1 - 3 meets/dates. If she doesn't fvck you within 1 - 3 meets/dates, CUT HER. Do not go into any routine about her "not wanting to rush things" or she being a "higher quality woman", NONE of that shyt exists and is only cartoonish shyt.

I'm sorry but the quality LTR woman doesn't exist anymore. I'm sorry to tell you that. I know it's hard, I'm still struggling with it myself.....but we are just going to have to try to get USED to this new market or we can sit around being depressed about it, drink ourselves to death, or put a gun to our heads and shoot ourselves. Suicide, depression, nor stress isn't going to change anything.

I'm sorry buddy.

 

[evil_tomato]

I think people should stick to the topic of my thread and story rather then hijacking it with other bullsh1t!!

Couple of questions. Is it worth telling her how much I really liked her? She sent me a text earlier which I haven't replied to saying, she hopes we can still be friends and she wants to call me after work? Not sure what I'm suppose to write back and if I should take her call?