She called me unbelievably irritating. **** test ?

[DarKnight]

We were texting. Everything was going awesome. We made a few jokes.
Then she wrote: "You are unbelievably irritating"and went offline.
I answered: "Throwing tantrum just because of a few jokes ? Not good, young, lady. I know u as kind, generous person do not disappoint me."
She answered the next morning: "Everything is okay."
I mean WTF ?
This actually makes me crazy. No one ever called me irritating. Want to write to her something like:

"Actually not okay. If you really find me irritating, I don't have any willing to continue talking to you"

your opinion ?

 

[kenpiffyjr]

Clearly do not text that.

Why are you wanting drama? Why are you so serious? Why can't you see being called irritating is just female language for "why do I like you so much!"

It's almost like men who aspire to be DJs operate in two functioning frames. The serious "I don't tolerate that!!" after each FEMININE emotional tantrum by a female as if this isn't the beautiful thing about broads...or the great frame of "lol I knew autocorrect messed up irrisistable" and all of their emotional crap is beneath you. Serious imo should only be under real serious circumstances or when she disrespects you. It's also a great bedroom frame. Anything other than that and you are being feminine.

Enjoy Women!! This is what they do!

 

[DarKnight]

"lol I knew autocorrect messed up irrisistable"

hey, man, thanks for your advice. I liked this phrase ) What do u think is it ok to write it now ? I think it would be awesome.

 

[bigneil]

By starting this thread despite what she wrote, OP proved her right.

 

[DarKnight]

No, she's correct.

Anyone who could hear that and start this thread is indeed just that.

So I assume this is not a big deal at all ? I mean her calling me irritating. I thought this phrase was kinda disrespectful. And what do you think about the phrase above ? is it ok to send it now ?

 

[bigneil]

So I assume this is not a big deal at all ? I mean her calling me irritating. I thought this phrase was kinda disrespectful. And what do you think about the phrase above ? is it ok to send it now ?

I would take the hint. When a girl tells you she doesn't like you, believe her.

I would find the next girl.

At least wait until she reaches out.

 

[Thorninmyside]

I would have told her she spelled amazing wrong, and moved on until she got back in touch. Maybe you were negging (2005 called) and she genuinely got pissed, or maybe she was negging you and you bought it and turned into a vagina.

 

[DarKnight]

Maybe you were negging (2005 called) and she genuinely got pissed

I was negging her actually. Probably because of that.

 

[soulforge]

I would consider it rude

 

[Masculinity]

We were texting. Everything was going awesome. We made a few jokes.
Then she wrote: "You are unbelievably irritating"and went offline.
I answered: "Throwing tantrum just because of a few jokes ? Not good, young, lady. I know u as kind, generous person do not disappoint me."
She answered the next morning: "Everything is okay."
I mean WTF ?
This actually makes me crazy. No one ever called me irritating. Want to write to her something like:

"Actually not okay. If you really find me irritating, I don't have any willing to continue talking to you"

your opinion ?

I would just ignore her comment. Sounds like she was in an emotional state when she wrote it.

 

[wifehunter]

This whole conversation, should not have taken place over text.

 

[Trump]

We were texting. Everything was going awesome. We made a few jokes.
Then she wrote: "You are unbelievably irritating"and went offline.

Translation: Let's see if I can get him emotional so I'm in control and feel powerful.

I answered: "Throwing tantrum just because of a few jokes ? Not good, young, lady. I know u as kind, generous person do not disappoint me."

He bought! I got him emotional with a few words! And this guy is going have sex with me and get me excited? I don't think so.

This actually makes me crazy. No one ever called me irritating. Want to write to her something like:

"Actually not okay. If you really find me irritating, I don't have any willing to continue talking to you"

your opinion ?

No bro, don't write that. Write her back:

I'm going to Vegas first class and staying in a penthouse for a week for a conference. I'd like you to join me. Let me know as soon as possible.

It's like you guys don't read anything and then come in here and ask for advice, quick fix, solve the problem as quickly as possible because she offended you. Some insults from a girl and your head is spun? How the heck do you survive in the real world?

Come on men!

 

[marmel75]

Why do guys always think EVERYTHING a woman does is a sh!t test?? Sometimes she simply is telling you the truth. The truth you may not want to hear.

 

[DarKnight]

Translation: Let's see if I can get him emotional so I'm in control and feel powerful.

You are absolutely right.

I wrote to her "I know u just misspelled irresistible"
She answered: "I did it intentionally ) and yeah " (probably about irresistible)
She said she did it intentionally. She probably meant that she was teasing, playing. (and of course it was a test)
we exchanged a few messages. everything went smooth. She liked it. she was sending lots of smiles etc.

I actually read a few books, watched videos etc. But I need more practice. Books are telling not to get emotional, stay cool, not to accept second class behavior, but there is almost no practical examples.

I was not trying to be emotional actually. I just assumed her calling me irritating as a second class behavior. I told her that it was not good.
What I did was obviously wrong. That's why I need more examples and practice. Your examples and answers helps me a lot to understand the whole process. I appreciate everyone's support and answers.

 

[Mike32ct]

I was negging her actually. Probably because of that.

Yeah sometimes guys can really overdo the negging or c&f. That was my gut feeling when I read the first post.

 

[soulforge]

Translation: Let's see if I can get him emotional so I'm in control and feel powerful.



He bought! I got him emotional with a few words! And this guy is going have sex with me and get me excited? I don't think so.



No bro, don't write that. Write her back:

I'm going to Vegas first class and staying in a penthouse for a week for a conference. I'd like you to join me. Let me know as soon as possible.

It's like you guys don't read anything and then come in here and ask for advice, quick fix, solve the problem as quickly as possible because she offended you. Some insults from a girl and your head is spun? How the heck do you survive in the real world?

Come on men!

Rewarding chitty attitude and behaviour.. Yes just ignore it.. and treat her to your time and put her up in the pent house..

The next time it happens... repeat the same process again.. and again..

Certainly will resolve the problem!

 

[devilkingx2]

Then she wrote: "You are unbelievably irritating"and went offline.

she hates you and you just got roasted.

 

[devilkingx2]

for the sake of learning I'll tell you how to determine if someone is serious over text, look at the text immediately preceeding, the offending text and the follow up text.

there are 3 indicators of non-seriousness over text:

1. smiley faces like : ) ; ) : P xD etc.
2. actual emoticons/emojis that phones have
3. acronyms like lol, rofl, lml, lmao, lmfao, etc.

your girl texted you not a single one of these things in the offending text nor the follow up, the only conclusion you could possibly draw from that is that she was serious. she basically told you to fvck off

I wrote to her "I know u just misspelled irresistible"
She answered: "I did it intentionally ) and yeah " (probably about irresistible)
She said she did it intentionally. She probably meant that she was teasing, playing. (and of course it was a test)

it kind of sounds like she meant it as

you: you misspelled irresistible
her: I misspelled it on purpose (implicitly saying that she meant to call you annoying)

 

[DarKnight]

the only conclusion you could possibly draw from that is that she was serious. she basically told you to fvck off

Actually that was my initial thought. She probably got pissed off at that moment because of my negging.

there are 3 indicators of non-seriousness over text:

1. smiley faces like : ) ; ) : P xD etc.
2. actual emoticons/emojis that phones have
3. acronyms like lol, rofl, lml, lmao, lmfao, etc.

definitely agree on this one.

you: you misspelled irresistible
her: I misspelled it on purpose (implicitly saying that she meant to call you annoying)

she wrote: "so yeah " I may be wrong, but doesn't this mean that she agrees on misspelling ?
regarding her "I did it intentionally" she actually was making jokes like "I love it when u get angry, I wanna some fight". Again maybe I am wrong, but I thought she meant this one.

she hates you and you just got roasted.

She obviously not in love with me nor feels huge attraction. But if she hates me, why we had a good, fun conversation the next day ? She initiates texting from time to time. why ?
maybe she just enjoys my attention and roasting me. I definitely feel that something's wrong. Maybe she just **** tests me to check my stability. I don't know.

 

[martinman980]

DarKnight you got your answer in first comment of this post, yea she was "testing " you or more likely what you said, your confidence.
Because you initially proved some confidence by teaseing her.

And now you backed off, when you say something bold be ready for the fake testing it's about to come your way.
You clearly need more experience, and also stop obsessing over every god damn word they say, most of the time they don't have a ****ing
clue about what they are doing or saying.




And for her to be in love with you, you'll have to first f*** her, and build attraction . You started well but backed off at some point.

When you are flirting boldly with a woman, or making too much fun of her (carefull with this) is normal for her to hit back ,
it's not disrespectfull, especially if you started it


Just continue with what you did before, and as long as she is answering you're ok.