Do you try a second time?

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Corey Wayne mentions you walk away after getting rejected twice, but what about only once.

Scenario.

I was seeing a girl who was most likely on the rebound. The girl seemed really into me (doing 70% of the initiating, writing longer texts, calling me handsome)and just making it real easy.

I banged her third time we hung out.

After that, we went out one more time, but there was no sex because she had somewhere to be.

Next day we start sexting and i try and get her to come over later on in week, but she says she couldn't (had somewhere to be) and she didnt offer another time (equals a blow off in my mind).

Ever since then, I initiated a text a couple of times and she was alot more terse.

She has not initiated a text in 9 days, while prior to that we were texting almost everyday or every other day with her initiating 70% of the time.

Corey Wayne usually says when you feel a woman pull away you do nothing and she will come back if she is interested. Your inaction will make her curious.

Do i try one more time? Do you think this girl could actually think I am blowing her off because I have not texted her either?
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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Corey Wayne mentions you walk away after getting rejected twice, but what about only once.

Scenario.

I was seeing a girl who was most likely on the rebound. The girl seemed really into me (doing 70% of the initiating, writing longer texts, calling me handsome)and just making it real easy.

I banged her third time we hung out.

After that, we went out one more time, but there was no sex because she had somewhere to be.

Next day we start sexting and i try and get her to come over later on in week, but she says she couldn't (had somewhere to be) and she didnt offer another time (equals a blow off in my mind).

Ever since then, I initiated a text a couple of times and she was alot more terse.

She has not initiated a text in 9 days, while prior to that we were texting almost everyday or every other day with her initiating 70% of the time.

Corey Wayne usually says when you feel a woman pull away you do nothing and she will come back if she is interested. Your inaction will make her curious.

Do i try one more time? Do you think this girl could actually think I am blowing her off because I have not texted her either?
Agree with Corey on this. Pursue other women.
 

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you tried three times in a row and she blew you off three times. No, there is zero chance she thinks you are blowing her off lol.
Only once. The other two times were to wish her luck on something and the other was a short video.
 

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Move on. If she starts initiating again I would invite her over early in the convo and if she isn't down to pound, blow her off for good.
 

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Has going ghost ever worked for you guys in a situation like this?
 

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Has going ghost ever worked for you guys in a situation like this?
You're sounding needy. Probably the vibe she's getting. Follow Corey.
Ghosting lets her know you have other options, whether true or not…
 

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Has going ghost ever worked for you guys in a situation like this?
So far it's worked 100% of the time for me because I replace them with even better women.

Once I ghost my interest has already dropped and I don't give a shyt anyways.
 

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She wants to see how you act after getting some sex. She wants to know if that's all you care about or not, so now she's holding out to see how u react. Just play it cool. Don't even bring up sex anymore. Next time u hit her up just talk to her. She'll come around, u already left your mark
 

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She wants to see how you act after getting some sex. She wants to know if that's all you care about or not, so now she's holding out to see how u react. Just play it cool. Don't even bring up sex anymore. Next time u hit her up just talk to her. She'll come around, u already left your mark
Ah, idk, I was the rebound guy. I think its over
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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Ah, idk, I was the rebound guy. I think its over
She probably just went back to messing with ole boy or someone else then.... but that don't mean it's over for u. She's just not gonna be as available as before. Keep her number tho. Your turn will come again if u layed the D down right
 

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Corey Wayne mentions you walk away after getting rejected twice, but what about only once.

Scenario.

I was seeing a girl who was most likely on the rebound. The girl seemed really into me (doing 70% of the initiating, writing longer texts, calling me handsome)and just making it real easy.

I banged her third time we hung out.

After that, we went out one more time, but there was no sex because she had somewhere to be.

Next day we start sexting and i try and get her to come over later on in week, but she says she couldn't (had somewhere to be) and she didnt offer another time (equals a blow off in my mind).

Ever since then, I initiated a text a couple of times and she was alot more terse.

She has not initiated a text in 9 days, while prior to that we were texting almost everyday or every other day with her initiating 70% of the time.

Corey Wayne usually says when you feel a woman pull away you do nothing and she will come back if she is interested. Your inaction will make her curious.

Do i try one more time? Do you think this girl could actually think I am blowing her off because I have not texted her either?
She wanted amazing sex and you gave her blah sex...
 

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Depends. Ask out only twice. If you get two half ass answers, ditch the number.

Since you already ****ed her, keep the number but move on to other women. She'll come back for some "I'm bored" sex when the guy she really likes drops her.
 
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