What I have learnt over my years in the game

Mr Wright

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I'm still only 24 but boy have I had some experiences over the last few years.

1. Set standards
I know guys who will and have banged anything and over the years I've banged a few questionable girls as have most guys with a reasonably high notch count. But by setting a standard you automatically give off a vibe that you are the prize and she has to work for your seduction.

2. Be frugal with your exclusivity
Treat your exclusivity like an 18 year old god fearing girl treats her virginity. It's guarded and it has to be earned...if you know you can go out and get another girl, this girl has to prove why she's worth you giving up everyone else. Come in with this mindset and you will realise most girls are not worth exclusivity.

3. She will sleep with you
Last year I took the virginity of a hot 18 year old Serbian girl...and damn those Serbs have the hottest girls in the world. I took her virginity the second time I met her and I had to put in little effort. She told me after that so many guys had tried and failed to bed her and that she was saving it for someone special.

4. Learn how to fück
I've been having sex for years but in the last 2 years, I've learnt how to fück. This is helps with the sexual vibe you need to be giving off to chicks because you are oozing confidence and sexuality, you know what you can do for her. A hot Finnish party girl I banged recently hadn't had an orgasm in 2 years, I gave her 3 the first time we fücked...

5. I am a cool guy
I am a cool dude, I hang out with models and have fücked girls who have fücked celebs. I know I don't need to prove anything to anybody. Guys who intrinsically have more value than me seek my approval. I don't need to fake anything because people enjoy spending time with me. Some of you are probably already cool, most of you are probably quite socially awkward. Know where you stand, then you can start to work on it.

6. Hanging out on forums kills your vibe
I barely come on here anymore because there was so much negativity that was seeping into my everyday vibe. Also reading about peoples problems everyday normalises it and weirdly fücks you up. Take regular breaks from the manosphere because whilst it is a necessary resource, it comes with its own pitfalls.

7. You have to put in the work
I wish girls just came up to me, told me I was awesome then called a cab back to their place. There are no real hacks or cheats other than becoming super famous, creating a niche market for yourself by becoming a popular DJ in a certain scene or have lots of influence to what women want. Unless you have those things, you will need something about you.

8. Go the gym
This one has been beaten to death so I'll keep it short. Get big and lean.

9. If you haven't got her out within 4-5 days...quit
If you're like me and you live in a major city, if you haven't got the girl round to yours or hanging out at a bar or something after 4-5 days...delete her number. You're done. Of course there are exceptions etc but play the odds and forget her. The only caveat to this is that if she's from out of town, then you basically have like a year if she comes back to your city.

10. A girls love and attention is very conditional
Basically she can turn on you in a heartbeat if you upset her, so don't take her or these outbursts too seriously.

11. The worst relationship betrayals I've seen are from girls
They love to have them but they love to fück them up too so beware. I've seen a girl break up with a guy who did little wrong and bang more than one of his friends. I know a girl who got banged at a party, then was engaged a week later. The list unfortunately goes on...

12. Girls intrinsically want traditional gender roles
They champion feminism until it comes to their relationship, then the equality goes out the window. They want to be treated like women, not your buddies...and I'm not talking about paying for stuff, I'm talking about things like grabbing her butt in front of everyone. Girls who say they don't cook will wake you up to a lovely cooked breakfast. Act like a man and she will act accordingly.

13. Younger is usually better
Younger girls are naive and generally more trusting. By the age of 25 and for most even younger, girls have come across a guy who they have fallen in love with and hurt them. The amount of baggage that can come with this renders many girls like undateable(don't tell them this haha) but then you have to balance out the time wasting aspect of 18-20 year olds.

14. Fake tits are fun...then weird
I've come across 3 pairs in my life and they were cool to start with but then the lack of movement got kinda freaky...

15. Slutty girls do it better
Enjoy your time with the slutty girls because they know exactly what to do and it's annoying because you know why and you know they're not worth any more effort than the shag she's getting. But seriously, bag up and shag a few of these girls, it's so fun.

16. A girl who is unsure of where she stands is compliant
Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen. The old saying is true but not necessarily a license to act like a complete douche. Some girls are nice and probably don't need to

17. The girls I like the most are the ones who are nice
Now that sounds stupid but it's true. If a girl is a bïtch or whatever, I naturally keep my distance, life is too short to be deal with people who just aren't that nice or that into you. Surround yourself with people who treat you well, you only have yourself to blame if you allow abusers and users to take a hold in your life.

18. Girls who openly withhold sex are terrorists
And you don't negotiate with terrorists. Any girl who overtly uses her sex as some sort of bargaining chip is usually manipulative and should be avoided. Spot the difference between the inexperienced girl and the "ex" slüt who is pretending to be a good girl. From first hand experience, the second will always slip back into those habits, dïck has come too easy for her in the past. If your girlfriend or wife has started withholding sex question why she is worth your exclusivity and remember if you weren't holding up to your end of the bargain, you'd be kicked to the curb.

19. More girls than you think have sold their sex
I always ask this to girls during drinking games when they're drunk, the results are eye opening. I know a girl who openly admitted that she didn't enjoy sex and got nothing out of it, banged a guy for a holiday. I know girls who have been flown to other countries to hang out with celebs. Once you start meeting and talking to hot girls, you realise how much of a commodity their sexuality is to them.

20. Chicks rarely insist on condoms
Thankfully I've never caught anything or got anyone pregnant but this initially surprised me...but now it doesn't. Yeah, life altering diseases are rare but it'll still be pretty nasty to catch something. Wear a condom and if you don't, pull out.

21. Girls cry...a lot
Don't take their tears too seriously, leave them to it and if she calls you selfish...just nod and agree.

22. Travel the world
I have travelled a lot around the world and I've banged girls from almost 20 different countries. I've come across tons of different cultures and the girls are generally the same, there are some regional differences which change the speed in which you sleep with them but biology is biology. In my opinion my top 3 countries that I've been to are Serbia, Russia and Latvia with the hottest girl I've ever seen being Russian. Serbia gets the edge because their English is much better, the girls are friendlier and the weather is better so they wear less.

23. Even girls who don't fancy you will get drawn in
This is probably the weirdest thing that I found. When you're a cool, fit guy, girls just get it...and even if they don't personally fancy you which is fine, they will still flirt and touch you. They don't do this with everyone they don't fancy, so there is something else going on here.

24. I can get away with pretty much anything
I know for a fact that some rules just don't apply to me and socially I can just get away with things that other guys can't because of who I am and how I am. I can shameless hit on a girl in front of whoever and no one will call me out on it. I remember being at a house party and flirting with a girl and arranging to hang out. Then a hotter girl turned up and I just sat on the stairs flirting and making out with her whilst the originally girl walked through us. Guess who still returned my messages. Moral of the story, just own whatever you do. Make a mistake, acknowledge but underplay it. Do something good, just a slight gesture will do. Nothing is a big deal.
 
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+1

Bible worthy stuff here.
 

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#6 is the most significant one to me. Hang out around people with a loser mentality (talking yourself down) or negative mentality (talking others, yes including women, down), and it'll soon become your own. One of the best things I've done lately for my attitude and mental well being has been to gradually stop reading manosphere stuff, especially where it has a high proportion of loser/negative guys, like here.

You missed filling in #17 by the way.
 

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This begs the question I always wonder about: were drinks involved? And I so, about how often?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Damn good stuff... Props..
 

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Wow, you're way cooler than us.o_O
 

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This begs the question I always wonder about: were drinks involved? And I so, about how often?
What?

Wow, you're way cooler than us.o_O
Nah, maybe just you :p but seriously places like this are awash with negative mentalities. 95% of guys find this place and get involved because they consider themselves lacking or defective in some way. I came here a bit of a loser, now I'm not. This post took 7.5 years.
 

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Depends on what situation you're referring to but alcohol is not something I rely on for dutch courage or having the girls so drunk they don't know what they're doing.
Never thought I would hear an Englishman say that ;) .... you sure you're not French :p

Teasing aside.

Great post and realize you only 24... so if you continue this way by 30... you'll be exponential in social proof, lay, shape etc... and you'll jungle more easily the ''education/career/plate'' life style that is a continuos struggle.

How do you improve number 4? (other than practice :p, any theory stuff) ?

I've been feeling number 6 so I started making a ignore list.

I would add a point 25: Just do it and never take anything personal
 
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Number 6 is so true.

Used to do it a lot a few years ago and I was a depressed guy overall, missed out on some amazing experiences that I could have had instead. Home for the holidays now so I am on here a bit but as soon as I head back I am going to be on here less. If you are in your teens and 20s, there is too much life to be lived in order to spend that much time on the forums. There is a great deal of knowledge to be learned but the negativity does carry over on to real life, that is where it starts to suck.
 

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How do you improve number 4? (other than practice :p, any theory stuff) ?
It's more about what mental state you put her in than the physical. Dominate her, hold her by the hair and bury her face in the pillow whilst you whisper dirty things in her ear, tell her how much you enjoy fücking her and how tight she is. Put a couple of fingers in their mouth, experiment with some light choking, that sort of stuff. Most importantly fück her for your pleasure first, if you're enjoying it, you'll make her feel sexy and that'll turn her on even more.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Op fantastic post there... as said before Bible worthy!

17. Struck a chord with me.. I kept myself around woman who where bytchy and did not appreciate me..

This type of situation can seriously crush a mans self esteem!
 
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