Can somebody give me a clearer picture of this alpha male that is hyped on this site

[Trainwreck]

The closest guy I can think of is James Bond because he's wealthy, mysterious, handsome, in shape, spins plates, has an extroverted life, and etc. According to this site, if you are not this guy or similar to this guy then you are a beta cuck doomed to be chasing pvssy/jerking off everyday. However, I have never seen a guy like this with a girl ever in my life. I will describe the type of guys I see with women on a day to day basis.

1) out of shape beer gut forming white guys with a beard and flat bill hat. 40%

2) Nerdy pushover type men( usually dads and with kids and wife) 45%

3) skinny average or below average looking white guys with an identity(Hipster, skater, redneck, punk, and etc...except for the nerds unless they are with a gamer girl themselves) 9%

4) Ray Ray and Pookie type black men 5%

5) Top of the food chain guys(good looking, rich, and etc) 1%

According to these percentages, most of the guys with women are the opposite example of this alpha male character created on this site. Of course if we switch the setting to a bar or something the percentages will change, so do not try pulling that argument. In summary, this alpha male character argument does not hold any water once it is tested to reality.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Probably because James Bond is a fictional character.

The guy in my life that I've met that had been with the most girls was a meth head who had a bisexual wife who would bring home girls for them.

 

[wifehunter]

The closest guy I can think of is James Bond because he's wealthy, mysterious, handsome, in shape, spins plates, has an extroverted life, and etc. According to this site, if you are not this guy or similar to this guy then you are a beta cuck doomed to be chasing pvssy/jerking off everyday. However, I have never seen a guy like this with a girl ever in my life. I will describe the type of guys I see with women on a day to day basis.

1) out of shape beer gut forming white guys with a beard and flat bill hat. 40%

2) Nerdy pushover type men( usually dads and with kids and wife) 45%

3) skinny average or below average looking white guys with an identity(Hipster, skater, redneck, punk, and etc...except for the nerds unless they are with a gamer girl themselves) 9%

4) Ray Ray and Pookie type black men 5%

5) Top of the food chain guys(good looking, rich, and etc) 1%

According to these percentages, most of the guys with women are the opposite example of this alpha male character created on this site. Of course if we switch the setting to a bar or something the percentages will change, so do not try pulling that argument. In summary, this alpha male character argument does not hold any water once it is tested to reality.

Alphas are scarce, way too busy to see all the ladies...only a select few. The rest of the ladies, will have to settle for betas.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Alphas are scarce, way too busy to see all the ladies...only a select few. The rest of the ladies, will have to settle for betas.

Give examples of them in real life. It sure as hell isn't the DJ at the club.

 

[ubercat]

Go to a gym near the legal or financial district of a metro you ll see plenty. James Bond in the books was a navy commander. Its life experience not what pvssy they're currently tapping which defines them.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

It's contextual. You either get it, or you don't. Simple as that. There's no 'example'.

 

[kronreiff]

An alpha male is what other males aspire to be. When he walks into a room, he's noticed immediately without saying a word. His body language exudes super confidence, independence and self control. Beta's envy him and most women drool just to be near him.

There's much more, but that's a quick summation.

 

[nismo-4]

Alphas are scarce, way too busy to see all the ladies...only a select few. The rest of the ladies, will have to settle for betas.

A woman's idea of a perfect world is where every man is an alpha.

This site teaches lots of Alpha traits. But, using them doesn't make you an alpha. It just shows them you won't be for whatever beta role they see you as (provider, fan, friend, ego booster, orbiter). Good for not playing that role, but move on. She sees you as useless.

The face that most women have to settle for betas pisses them off to no end. Not every man can be Channing Tatum or Steph Curry. Hence why there's so much of the boyfriend bomb and flaking.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

A woman's idea of a perfect world is where every man is an alpha.

This site teaches lots of Alpha traits. But, using them doesn't make you an alpha. It just shows them you won't be for whatever beta role they see you as (provider, fan, friend, ego booster, orbiter). Good for not playing that role, but move on. She sees you as useless.

The face that most women have to settle for betas pisses them off to no end. Not every man can be Channing Tatum or Steph Curry. Hence why there's so much of the boyfriend bomb and flaking.

But it's modern society and feminism that created a world full of mostly betas. And by the way, an actor and basketball player are not alpha. Okay, maybe the actor, but not the guy who plays a game for a living. Males respect sports stars more than women do.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

An alpha male is what other males aspire to be. When he walks into a room, he's noticed immediately without saying a word. His body language exudes super confidence, independence and self control. Beta's envy him and most women drool just to be near him.

There's much more, but that's a quick summation.

But do these people actually exist in real life? If they do, they must be so scarce that I haven't seen one in a million years.

Can you give real life examples?

 

[zekko]

The closest guy I can think of is James Bond because he's wealthy, mysterious, handsome, in shape, spins plates, has an extroverted life, and etc.

Is James Bond extroverted? I'm not so sure about that. Does he even have any friends? You see him with women or people trying to kill him.

Clint Eastwood is another movie alpha, especially the westerns. I've seen so many of his movies that go like this:
1) Clint Eastwood walks onto the scene
2) Attractive woman throws herself at him

I'm sure there are guys who get that reaction somewhere, but for the most part I think it's just the benefit of having a scriptwriter. Just like with James Bond.

 

[Mike32ct]

Is James Bond extroverted? I'm not so sure about that.

I was thinking the same thing. He's too chill, yet serious "cold and calculating."

He doesn't really act like an extrovert much at all.

 

[Plums]

The closest guy I can think of is James Bond because he's wealthy, mysterious, handsome, in shape, spins plates, has an extroverted life, and etc. According to this site, if you are not this guy or similar to this guy then you are a beta cuck doomed to be chasing pvssy/jerking off everyday. However, I have never seen a guy like this with a girl ever in my life. I will describe the type of guys I see with women on a day to day basis.

1) out of shape beer gut forming white guys with a beard and flat bill hat. 40%

2) Nerdy pushover type men( usually dads and with kids and wife) 45%

3) skinny average or below average looking white guys with an identity(Hipster, skater, redneck, punk, and etc...except for the nerds unless they are with a gamer girl themselves) 9%

4) Ray Ray and Pookie type black men 5%

5) Top of the food chain guys(good looking, rich, and etc) 1%

According to these percentages, most of the guys with women are the opposite example of this alpha male character created on this site. Of course if we switch the setting to a bar or something the percentages will change, so do not try pulling that argument. In summary, this alpha male character argument does not hold any water once it is tested to reality.

Donald Trump is a real life Alpha male.

He is a genius at strategy.

He speaks his truth without fear.

He doesn't give a sh*t about what other people think of his statements.

He doesn't care if you love him or hate him.

If anyone attacks his tribe he hits back harder. He will wipe out any possible threats.

He has been bombarded with hatred from all sides since he joined politics. Does he look bothered?

Strong men love him, weak men hate him.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

If your stories line up then you know who the alpha males are.

In your college days they were jacked frat boys from well off families who made out with the hottest girls at parties, went out with them, and got nice paying jobs out of school.

In the real world you see them in wealthy areas all the time, hot girls around them as well as social proof out of this world. The guys with a nice paying job, active social media pages, good looks, and the ones women are chasing as a whole.

Why bother though? You're not going to be one and both of us know that.

 

[skinnyguy]

At the end of the day, being a broke drug addict is more attractive to women than being a guy who makes 100K per year at a full time job.

You should either be flat broke with a criminal record or extremely rich and good looking. Anything in the middle is usually just beta.

 

[SuckItUp]

But do these people actually exist in real life? If they do, they must be so scarce that I haven't seen one in a million years.

Can you give real life examples?

They do exist and no they aren't scarce. An alpha type is actually fairly simple to spot. Usually they are the guys who have women chase them but they seem more interested in having a good time and they often enjoy talking to people of all manner of shapes and sizes.

They tend to be the guys that people gravitate to follow.

If you aren't friends with alphas then you're missing the boat.

Think about your friends, which one gets the women, has people gravitate to them, and has a job others wish they had.

If you don't have friends like this then you need to meet more people and make friends with alpha type characters.