The topic for Carlton Banks labeled Black guys

[Trainwreck]

What the ***** do we do? We are too white for black girls and too black for white girls that we deem compatible with us. The only option I can offer is literally find a unicorn white, black, asian, mexican, blue, yellow, and etc lol.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

What the ***** do we do? We are too white for black girls and too black for white girls that we deem compatible with us. The only option I can offer is literally find a unicorn white, black, asian, mexican, blue, yellow, and etc lol.

Get rich.

 

[Tenacity]

What the ***** do we do? We are too white for black girls and too black for white girls that we deem compatible with us. The only option I can offer is literally find a unicorn white, black, asian, mexican, blue, yellow, and etc lol.

My advice is to try to enjoy the ride and remember these 3 things:

#1.) Understand that most women will be a revolving door in your life. They will come and go, with many of them leaving you scratching your head as to why they are going.

#2.) Do not succumb to the negative thoughts in your head in relation to #1, telling you that you're a loser, it's you're fault, you didn't expand your paradigm, you're aren't Alpha enough, and that you didn't wear enough Armani Suits and that's why the situation of #1 is taking place. Understand that #1 taking place is NOT YOUR FAULT. You have NOTHING to do with the situation at all.

#3.) Learn (keyword here is learn because it's going to be a new mentality you have to adapt) to exist in this new reality where women are a revolving door, and learn how to enjoy the moments that you have with women while they are in your life. Enjoy tonight's date with her (because it could be the last), enjoy today's telephone convo with her (because it could be the last), enjoy her pvssy tonight (because it could be the last). Learn to enjoy the MOMENTS and eliminate any expectations for anything other than great MOMENTS from women (eliminate the expectation of long term relationships and be comfortable with short term relations).

 

[Julian]

this is ridiculous.

no one and i repeat NO ONE of any race wants to be a carlton banks type EVER. you can be a well spoken smart black dude and still have some swag. theres a calrton banks of every race...do not be carlton banks. its not about your race its about being a little annoying douche rat. thats what he was

 

[Plums]

What the ***** do we do? We are too white for black girls and too black for white girls that we deem compatible with us. The only option I can offer is literally find a unicorn white, black, asian, mexican, blue, yellow, and etc lol.

You could look for blind women...

 

[wifehunter]

 

[Trainwreck]

this is ridiculous.

no one and i repeat NO ONE of any race wants to be a carlton banks type EVER. you can be a well spoken smart black dude and still have some swag. theres a calrton banks of every race...do not be carlton banks. its not about your race its about being a little annoying douche rat. thats what he was

sounds like you are a little jealous lol

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

sounds like you are a little jealous lol

Sounds like you are. Quit projecting. You are so ashamed of having a different skin color and women can sniff that **** out. Sort yourself out dude and quit crying about women. It's pathetic.

 

[Solomon]

What the ***** do we do? We are too white for black girls and too black for white girls that we deem compatible with us. The only option I can offer is literally find a unicorn white, black, asian, mexican, blue, yellow, and etc lol.

DOn't you have a hot white girlfriend?

 

[SmooveMooves]

As I said before, sometimes it feels like you guys don't live in the real world.

I'm black but that isn't important here. People, of all races, date whom they are most similar to. If you find you are having a hard time with black women, it is because you are too different culturally. I'm sure being black you understand black women value certain things pertaining to pop culture. If you do not value these things, dating will be hard for you in our community.

If you are a Carlton Banks type of guy you will only date Cartlon Banks type of girls. If you do not like these types of women, then you must change. Find women who are interested in the same type of shít you are or change your persona. I know Carlton Banks type of black girls. They all date nerdy guys.

Its fairly straightforward

• Goth dude dates goth chick
• Punk rocker mosher dates punk rocker mosher chick
• Hip hop dude dates hip hop chick
• Career dude dates career chick
• Anime nerd gamer dates anime nerd gamer chick

Etc.

 

[cola]

Only way this is an issue is if you're ugly.
By ugly I mean dress like sh*t, poor hygiene etc.
Being well spoken and not from "The hood" would be an advantage for a black guy, not a detriment.
There are a lot of white beckys who like black guys but the high testosterone ghetto ones are a bit too intimidating.

You have to be unattractive somehow for this to be an issue.
Not to discourage.

Post pics of you and let me burn you down so you can rise from the ashes like a phoenix.

 

[Trainwreck]

Only way this is an issue is if you're ugly.
By ugly I mean dress like sh*t, poor hygiene etc.
Being well spoken and not from "The hood" would be an advantage for a black guy, not a detriment.
There are a lot of white beckys who like black guys but the high testosterone ghetto ones are a bit too intimidating.

You have to be unattractive somehow for this to be an issue.
Not to discourage.

Post pics of you and let me burn you down so you can rise from the ashes like a phoenix.

This is silly af. You don't understand that we compete against the top tier white guys. In the inner city, the white women that actually go there are more likely to already prefer black men. Come to the suburbs and you are competing against white guys that look like Zach Efron, Luke Bryant, and white guys with beards that play guitars. These women prefer white western culture so it does not make it make sense for them to date outside their race? Their men are the most dominant/powerful race of men on earth. In addition, most people aren't comfortable dating interracially because of racial preferences, family, and simply wanting their kids to look like them. Waitttt, it's because I'm ugly gotchs lmao.

 

[Trainwreck]

I also live in the richest zip code in my state. I'm not around many black people and I'm not going to the hood lol.

 

[cola]

This is silly af. You don't understand that we compete against the top tier white guys. In the inner city, the white women that actually go there are more likely to already prefer black men. Come to the suburbs and you are competing against white guys that look like Zach Efron, Luke Bryant, and white guys with beards that play guitars. These women prefer white western culture so it does not make it make sense for them to date outside their race? Their men are the most dominant/powerful race of men on earth. In addition, most people aren't comfortable dating interracially because of racial preferences, family, and simply wanting their kids to look like them. Waitttt, it's because I'm ugly gotchs lmao.

"I'm competing with white guys who like Zach Efron"
Thats such an effeminate statement for a man to make.
That mindset right there is why you are having issues.

Listen. Its like this. You have like 3 options.

A.) If You feel like you don't fit in where you live dating wise, move

B.) Take some advice and try it and see if your results change.

C.) Deal, stfu and stop making these dumbass race threads.

I know plenty black guys doing well in the PUA community.
But you'll just say "they are the trash men dating white trash"
..
So whats the point.
Don't even know why I posted on your thread. You're beyond sosuave's help, you need a professional or autism therapy or something..

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Their men are the most dominant/powerful race of men on earth

Really? This isn't the 1950's. Things have changed.

https://fellowshipofminds.files.wordpress.com/2015/04/pajama-boy.jpg

I live in Orlando, FL. It seems like almost every hot girl you see is with a black guy or wanting to be with one.

Drunk girls will literally tell you how much they hate white guys, even if the girl herself is white. White guys are generally seen as weak, dorky, etc. even if they know 7 different forms of Martial Arts.

Who are these powerful white men you are referring to? Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerburg? Girls would just see them as a computer nerds who can't fight that have a lot of money because they're super dorky and they probably have tiny d!cks that barely work. White guys in suits are extremely out of style. Girls would much prefer a guy who could win a street fight and not have to rely on the police to protect them.

This is why I place so much emphasis on getting rich as I see it as my only way to compete. In which case, the girl would probably just pretend to like me and use me while she cheats behind my back with a black guy (the real Chad Thundercocks).

There are exceptions. But this seems like the rule.

And I am not talking about ugly girls. I am talking about hot white bartenders, white Hooters girls, etc.

Edit: Actually, a nice pair of shoes and a nice shirt seems to help me get attention, so maybe I'm overthinking it. Plus, I don't talk very much.

 

[Tenacity]

Cola I don't think you are being fair and balanced here.

Being well spoken and not from "The hood" would be an advantage for a black guy, not a detriment.

Only in business. Not in the social world. In the social world, a well spoken, educated, black man doesn't truly fit in anywhere. He's a coon to the majority of black people and "just another N-word" to majority of white people.

I challenge you guys to do the following:

- Add 100 black women on Facebook who are relatively in our dating market range (24 to 35). WATCH the guys that they "big up", repost, etc.

- You will be able to count on one hand how many of those guys fit the well spoken, black ,educated image. You will see no Black Doctors, Black Lawyers, Black Engineers, Black Sales Professionals, or Black Professionals In General reposted.

- Instead, what you WILL SEE, is Ray Ray and Pookie reposted over and over. Dude could be broke, fresh out of prison, and the chick will be calling him a King.

Don't take my word on this........just go see.

Thats such an effeminate statement for a man to make.
That mindset right there is why you are having issues.

Okay, so the way he is thinking is the problem? Then why do you say the following.......

A.) If You feel like you don't fit in where you live dating wise, move

If it's his mentality that's solely the cause of the problem, then why move? Moving would mean there's a market/social/culture problem.

B.) Take some advice and try it and see if your results change.

But it hasn't changed for him yet.......

C.) Deal, stfu and stop making these dumbass race threads.

Translation: So what if life isn't fair? Bend over and take it up the a.ss

 

[cola]

Cola I don't think you are being fair and balanced here.



Only in business. Not in the social world. In the social world, a well spoken, educated, black man doesn't truly fit in anywhere. He's a coon to the majority of black people and "just another N-word" to majority of white people.

I challenge you guys to do the following:

- Add 100 black women on Facebook who are relatively in our dating market range (24 to 35). WATCH the guys that they "big up", repost, etc.

- You will be able to count on one hand how many of those guys fit the well spoken, black ,educated image. You will see no Black Doctors, Black Lawyers, Black Engineers, Black Sales Professionals, or Black Professionals In General reposted.

- Instead, what you WILL SEE, is Ray Ray and Pookie reposted over and over. Dude could be broke, fresh out of prison, and the chick will be calling him a King.

Don't take my word on this........just go see.



Okay, so the way he is thinking is the problem? Then why do you say the following.......



If it's his mentality that's solely the cause of the problem, then why move? Moving would mean there's a market/social/culture problem.



But it hasn't changed for him yet.......



Translation: So what if life isn't fair? Bend over and take it up the a.ss

You and train wreck are doing well financially right? Come to the d.m.v for a weekend. You can stay at my house. We will go out and I'll show you.

There are other forum members who's name I wont mention who would also join us.

I can show better than I can tell.

 

[Tenacity]

You and train wreck are doing well financially right? Come to the d.m.v for a weekend. You can stay at my house. We will go out and I'll show you.

There are other forum members who's name I wont mention who would also join us.

I can show better than I can tell.

I'm down, yall let me know when yall getting together!

 

[cola]

You and train wreck are doing well financially right? Come to the d.m.v for a weekend. You can stay at my house. We will go out and I'll show you.

I'm down, yall let me know when yall getting together!

Are you here in the dmv? Inbox me and ill send you my #

 

[Tenacity]

Are you here in the dmv? Inbox me and ill send you my #

No I'm in Michigan actually