Chili's

[RichardTheFrog]

I was eating at Chili's, in basically a ****ty mood and not wanting to meet any girls. One of the bartenders was hot. I paid her no attention at all other than to give her one word answers when she asked me questions.

The bartenders kept asking me how my food was and I was just like "good."

They said, "I think he just wants to be left alone." And I was like, "no, you're good."

So the hot bartender eventually asks me how my day is going, she accidentally made an extra drink and she offered it to me for free and I said I can't because I have to drive. She asked me where am I driving to. I told her what city I live in. So I left and she told me have a safe drive and good rest of my day.

I can remember thinking, before she started talking to me.... "Why would I even WANT to have sex with this girl?" Yea, I know she's hot but is it going to save my life? And that I need to direct my life to other things besides *****. Apparently, this attitude worked because she was the one talking to me and offering me free drinks.

 

[shesabranchswinger]

Yeah bartenders and the like are in the hospitality industry so they always seem to be flirting. Its kind of their job and kind of their quest for attention. In my view they are kind of nightmares for LTR'S if that's what your looking for. If you really think they are into you and your interested in them then I always escalate. Flirt back add in some keno try to close. But they get that everyday they clock into work specially if they are a HB5 and above.

 

[zekko]

Do we need to refer everyone to the South Park "Raisins" episode again? Sums up waitresses and female bartenders perfectly.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Do we need to refer everyone to the South Park "Raisins" episode again? Sums up waitresses and female bartenders perfectly.

Maybe that's YOUR experience with them.

I run my own business, have my own house, make more than 96% of the population. I'm actually out of their league.

 

[zekko]

Maybe that's YOUR experience with them.

I don't pay them any heed, because I know what their motivation is.

 

[cola]

I was eating at Chili's, in basically a ****ty mood and not wanting to meet any girls. One of the bartenders was hot. I paid her no attention at all other than to give her one word answers when she asked me questions.

The bartenders kept asking me how my food was and I was just like "good."

They said, "I think he just wants to be left alone." And I was like, "no, you're good."

So the hot bartender eventually asks me how my day is going, she accidentally made an extra drink and she offered it to me for free and I said I can't because I have to drive. She asked me where am I driving to. I told her what city I live in. So I left and she told me have a safe drive and good rest of my day.

I can remember thinking, before she started talking to me.... "Why would I even WANT to have sex with this girl?" Yea, I know she's hot but is it going to save my life? And that I need to direct my life to other things besides *****. Apparently, this attitude worked because she was the one talking to me and offering me free drinks.

You think too much. Just eat your food and chill.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

You think too much. Just eat your food and chill.

But that would still result in nothing happening. No exchange of numbers, no sex. Even if you're trying to play the "acting uninterested" game (or actually being uninterested), it is still necessary at some point to say SOMETHING. Just like my first thread where the hottest bartender in the whole city came up and complimented me and all I said was "thanks."

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I don't pay them any heed, because I know what their motivation is.

I know Hooters girls who are married with two kids to guys they met while working.

 

[Masculinity]

Maybe that's YOUR experience with them.

I run my own business, have my own house, make more than 96% of the population. I'm actually out of their league.

That attitude is certainty not going to make any healthy human being want to be around you.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

That attitude is certainty not going to make any healthy human being want to be around you.

Well it's a better attitude than his "no bartender could ever want me" attitude.

I can't wait to buy my Bentley and go to Hooters. I probably won't even say a word. Should be interesting. Same with strip clubs.

Not that a Bentley is even that cool, but it's the least expensive super car, so it will serve its purpose.

 

[Masculinity]

Well it's a better attitude than his "no bartender could ever want me" attitude.

I can't wait to buy my Bentley and go to Hooters. I probably won't even say a word. Should be interesting. Same with strip clubs.

Not that a Bentley is even that cool, but it's the least expensive super car, so it will serve its purpose.

Not trying to attack you, unless you're trolling. But you seem to have deep self-doubt and self-esteem concerns. The way you write--even without hearing your town--sounds like you're trying to make up for something as if you don't believe you're good enough. If I can sense that over the internet, i wonder what else women can sense face to face with you.

Invest time in your inner game and finding the root of your concerns. It can certainly be fixed.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Not trying to attack you, unless you're trolling. But you seem to have deep self-doubt and self-esteem concerns. The way you write--even without hearing your town--sounds like you're trying to make up for something as if you don't believe you're good enough. If I can sense that over the internet, i wonder what else women can sense face to face with you.

Invest time in your inner game and finding the root of your concerns. It can certainly be fixed.

Maybe I'm trying to compete with the other 3.5 billion guys on the planet.

Am I trying to "make up" for something? Maybe that crime I committed that was on national television that I went to prison for from 2009-2013.

PM me if you want details. You may think I'm beyond help when you see it.

And by the way, a hot bartender was just hitting on me just a few hours ago, so apparently what they're sensing isn't bad at all. She thought I wanted her to leave me alone, actually and I was dressed like a scrub.

 

[bigneil]

Do we need to refer everyone to the South Park "Raisins" episode again? Sums up waitresses and female bartenders perfectly.

He brings his mom (to Hooters) to meet his "girlfriend" and tries to get her section! And the bouncer walks her out. One of my favorites.

With waitresses and bartenders, you have to assume they are dating someone who works there. But at strip clubs they are the best ones to ask out because they are the "nicer" girls. Just ask "are you single?" and cut to the chase.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

He brings his mom (to Hooters) to meet his "girlfriend" and tries to get her section! And the bouncer walks her out. One of my favorites.

With waitresses and bartenders, you have to assume they are dating someone who works there. But at strip clubs they are the best ones to ask out because they are the "nicer" girls. Just ask "are you single?" and cut to the chase.

Why would an attractive young girl want to date someone who works at a restaurant? I frequent these places and when I hear about their situation, it's usually not with someone who works there.

And wouldn't a young, rich guy like me be a better option? Assuming I can lay it down in the bedroom, which I can.

 

[bigneil]

Why would an attractive young girl want to date someone who works at a restaurant?

Good question, but it's the law of proximity and hormones. Throw alcohol and drugs in as well. It's a well known fact that most all restaurant employees sleep with each other.

 

[zekko]

Good question, but it's the law of proximity and hormones.

Proximity is huge.