First time sex with new girl

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How important is it? Does she have to come in order to make sure you'll see her again? Or have you guys been able to recover after a not so great first time?

Girl from this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/girl-lying-about-her-age.241138/

Was over at her place a couple of days ago. She wanted to smoke some weed so we did. I got too high and couldn't focus, so my d*** wouldn't get hard. I said I was too high and we should stop. We hung out for a couple of hours after that. I had to leave to take care of some errands. She walked me to the door and kissed and hugged me goodbye.

She used to blow up my phone every day, and now she's gone distant.

Do I ditch this one or is it salvageable?
 

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Mission completed, move on. If she wants more, she'll let you know.
 

El Payaso

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Ditch it. Women don't usually give second chances after a bad experience.
 

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You did your work... nothing you can add, move on to the next
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Don't drink or do drugs before a first lay... fake it if you have too.

Always be in control and dominate her in the sack... Be the best she has ever had and they always will be back for more. Later on in a relationship a whiskey **** is forgivable but not in the beginning.

I hope it is a lesson learned.
 

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Point taken. I hit her her up and asked if everything was ok (I know I know, p*ssy move, I know better) and she said "I've been really busy I'll hit you up when I'm not so busy".

Already nexted her in my mind.
 

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Don't drink or do drugs before a first lay... fake it if you have too.

Always be in control and dominate her in the sack... Be the best she has ever had and they always will be back for more. Later on in a relationship a whiskey **** is forgivable but not in the beginning.

I hope it is a lesson learned.
I disagree on the booze,you just gotta know what your doing,they don't call it panty remover for nothing,agree on domination fvck her like its your last fvck and eat pvzzy like the devil himself.
 

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My penis actually gets MORE hard when I smoke weed lol. I also get more horny.

Either there is something wrong with you or there is something wrong with me.
 

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Point taken. I hit her her up and asked if everything was ok (I know I know, p*ssy move, I know better) and she said "I've been really busy I'll hit you up when I'm not so busy".

Already nexted her in my mind.
Lol. Done and dusted.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I disagree on the booze,you just gotta know what your doing,they don't call it panty remover for nothing,agree on domination fvck her like its your last fvck and eat pvzzy like the devil himself.
She can drink.... You just drink less... be under control.

My penis actually gets MORE hard when I smoke weed lol. I also get more horny.

Either there is something wrong with you or there is something wrong with me.
Some weed yes...

The point is you only get one chance at making a good impression. Don't blow it.
 

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Some weed yes...

The point is you only get one chance at making a good impression. Don't blow it.
Meh. Lots of guys suck in bed and still have girlfriends and wives.

Women care about the overall VALUE you offer much more than your bedroom skills. The slutty ones who are all about sex will likely branch swing down the road anyway. No loss.
 
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