How do you deal with women who think you're cooler that what you really are?
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btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
Low self esteem and poor self image. You've gotta figure out why you don't feel comfortable accepting that they think of you this way.
Btw this is is the #1 killer of most people's satisfaction with their interpersonal relationships in life..simply not being able to accept that they're good enough to be held in high regard by others.
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Are you a troll?
Trick question. I already know that you are. But let's see what you have to say.
Trick question. I already know that you are. But let's see what you have to say.
No troll man
It's crazy, even seeing all the hate in retrospect. But I still don't get it.
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
Still don't get what? You saying you hate yourself?
No I don't
shesabranchswinger
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The answer to your question in my opinion is deal with them to the best of your ability and don't worry about how cool they think you are. And build your confidence up to around the level or a little above the feedback your getting from them.
Sometimes it's hard to gage if your too confident they might read you as arrogant, not confident enough they might read you a as a simp. Then again some women like simps and some like arrogance.
So you win some you loose some it's a numbers game keep spinning plates if you don't want to sleep alone at night.
Sometimes it's hard to gage if your too confident they might read you as arrogant, not confident enough they might read you a as a simp. Then again some women like simps and some like arrogance.
So you win some you loose some it's a numbers game keep spinning plates if you don't want to sleep alone at night.
SmooveMooves
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Don't let her find out.
Dude, YOU decide what type of person you are. There's no reason why you're NOT that cool guy, you just have a belief that tells you otherwise.
Why not just start acting like you're the cool guy she views you as? Do that for long enough and it'll be strange when girls DON'T see you as that kind of guy.
Why not just start acting like you're the cool guy she views you as? Do that for long enough and it'll be strange when girls DON'T see you as that kind of guy.
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Chev.Chelios
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Dude that's what celebs deal with day to day. High quality problem.