Dealing with Narcissistic Alpha girls?

[AlexKaiser]

You know the type. Attractive as all hell. Surrounded by suitors of varying game levels and attractiveness. Self proclaimed 10/10s. Reminding other guys around them that they don't need you because you're replaceable. Narcissistic to cartoonish levels, down to the "you deal with my bad behavior or I'll find somebody who will" level.

All my life I believed that they were untouchable and I was inferior to them.

Now that I've learned from you guys...I still feel inferior to them because I don't know how to deal with them.

What do you do when a girl like this comes your way?

Spoiler: my SMV isn't exactly high yet, still in-training.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Once you've "gotten" a few of them you start actively choosing to have nothing to do with them. I was the same way. I had to prove to myself that I could get women like that, the 10/10s. I thought if I was good enough, alpha enough or whatever, I could expect perfect, submissive pleasant to be around behavior from them forever, as long as I kept myself together, as long as I held frame, etc.

But you start to realize that women like you describe, you will never be good enough for them. Hell they will even cheat on you if they think you're a higher SMV than they are! It's a way for them to level the playing field in their eyes. They are crazy, spoiled, entitled and absolutely TOXIC to any man that comes their way. The biggest mistake guys can make is thinking if you become good enough that you should be able to hold frame with any woman. That just isn't true. Some people, both men and women, are just shi*ty human beings.

 

[soulforge]

Look some bishes you just cannot have..you can improve your smv.. but even then there is a limit..

Its fine to bang chicks like this.. but if your going to LTR one of this narrcasistic types... prepare for a possible mind fuking!

 

[RichardTheFrog]

There's no such thing as an alpha female. It's a fake construct of modern society.

 

[old_skoolr]

Once you've "gotten" a few of them you start actively choosing to have nothing to do with them. I was the same way. I had to prove to myself that I could get women like that, the 10/10s. I thought if I was good enough, alpha enough or whatever, I could expect perfect, submissive pleasant to be around behavior from them forever, as long as I kept myself together, as long as I held frame, etc.

But you start to realize that women like you describe, you will never be good enough for them. Hell they will even cheat on you if they think you're a higher SMV than they are! It's a way for them to level the playing field in their eyes. They are crazy, spoiled, entitled and absolutely TOXIC to any man that comes their way. The biggest mistake guys can make is thinking if you become good enough that you should be able to hold frame with any woman. That just isn't true. Some people, both men and women, are just shi*ty human beings.

Nailed it. Why continue to deal with ****ty attitudes just to get laid. Once you bang one or 2 you realize, there a waste of time outside the bedroom.

 

[lizardking82]

No alpha females, man. Alpha is a male quality.

 

[logicallefty]

I agree with no Alpha females. Plenty of women who think they are alpha. But once your profile them and learn about them they are so easy to crack. And reveal just how unalpha like they really are

 

[btownbuck2012]

I agree with no Alpha females. Plenty of women who think they are alpha. But once your profile them and learn about them they are so easy to crack. And reveal just how unalpha like they really are

Once you crack them though they'll start resenting you for doing so as they don't like being vulnerable, then when you slip up at some point they take out all that pent up resentment on you in a very cruel way.

 

[Trump]

Once you've "gotten" a few of them you start actively choosing to have nothing to do with them. I was the same way. I had to prove to myself that I could get women like that, the 10/10s. I thought if I was good enough, alpha enough or whatever, I could expect perfect, submissive pleasant to be around behavior from them forever, as long as I kept myself together, as long as I held frame, etc.

Bro just curious, you were able to meet, ask out, date, and sleep with a 10/10 beautiful girl with movie star looks. She played a few games and you didn't want to see her anymore? Why didn't you just continue to sleep with her as a simple standard plate and ignore everything else? Couldn't have been that hard to ignore it in order to have sex with a 10/10 beautiful beautiful girl.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Bro just curious, you were able to meet, ask out, date, and sleep with a 10/10 beautiful girl with movie star looks. She played a few games and you didn't want to see her anymore? Why didn't you just continue to sleep with her as a simple standard plate and ignore everything else? Couldn't have been that hard to ignore it in order to have sex with a 10/10 beautiful beautiful girl.

The hottest girl I've ever been with was a 24 year old Jamaican girl that I meet online about 5 months after my brutal breakup with the chick who I suspect had NPD who've I've posted on here a-lot about. This Jamaican girl was stunning and legit looked like a porn star when she was naked. Huge booty, thin waist and great natural breasts. HOWEVER, she was incredibly difficult to deal with and had major princess syndrome. She was always late when we were scheduled to meet each other and complained all the time about how she didn't feel well and CONSTANTLY was accusing me of seeing other women, which was ironic because of what a desperate state I was in and still am in occasionally because of this crazy woman I was in an LTR with before. Long story short I know this Jamaican girl was probably seeing other guys and she was still active on OLD all the time and she essentially started flaking out on me after about a month and it was harder to get a hold of her. Her body was incredible but her personality was vile. It just kind of fizzled out and I never heard from her again. IMO honest opinion even sex with a woman like that isn't worth the day to day dealing with her nonsense. I just can't tolerate it anymore. That's honestly probably why she went cold on me because I was just treating her like a f*ck buddy. Women, especially hot ones, won't tolerate that crap for long if you're not showing her you actually care about her after a while, etc.

 

[wifehunter]

Not with a 501 ft. pole, would I go near one!!!

 

[logicallefty]

Once you crack them though they'll start resenting you for doing so as they don't like being vulnerable, then when you slip up at some point they take out all that pent up resentment on you in a very cruel way.

Very very true. You are assuming that we are talking about an "alpha" female who is dating one of us. I was referring to one in general. And what I failed to mention in my post was that I don't date them anymore. when I meet one I like to fvck with them.

 

[Masculinity]

You know the type. Attractive as all hell. Surrounded by suitors of varying game levels and attractiveness. Self proclaimed 10/10s. Reminding other guys around them that they don't need you because you're replaceable. Narcissistic to cartoonish levels, down to the "you deal with my bad behavior or I'll find somebody who will" level.

All my life I believed that they were untouchable and I was inferior to them.

Now that I've learned from you guys...I still feel inferior to them because I don't know how to deal with them.

What do you do when a girl like this comes your way?

Spoiler: my SMV isn't exactly high yet, still in-training.

How should you behave around narcissistic women who claim they're 10s and feel they're god's gift to men?

You completely ignore their existence and proximity to you. It drives them nuts. I know, it's completely counterintuitive. Don't believe me. Try it sometime and she'll probably come to you trying to get some attention.

 

[bigneil]

OP is asking how to deal with the hottest women he knows?

Be the most interesting man she knows.

 

[blind_one]

you will never be good enough for them. Hell they will even cheat on you if they think you're a higher SMV than they are!

In other words, they will never be good enough for you don't lower yourself to their toxic obnoxious levels.I wouldn't touch creatures like that with a stick unless she jumped on mine . Stay away from the bad influences.

 

[bigneil]

5 months after my brutal breakup with the chick who I suspect had NPD who've I've posted on here a-lot about.

You wish. There is less than a 1 in 100 chance she had NPD.

Like many of us have observed, we've been infiltrated by women and men acting like women here. Bring it on, b!tches.

Brutal breakup?? That takes two.

Wait, maybe btownbuck2012 is right, maybe he's a total stud who did everything perfect, and it was just REALLY bad luck that this girl turned out to be a complete f*cking lunatic.

 

[stovepipe]

Smash n dash only with these types.

 

[wifehunter]

How should you behave around narcissistic women who claim they're 10s and feel they're god's gift to men?

You completely ignore their existence and proximity to you. It drives them nuts. I know, it's completely counterintuitive. Don't believe me. Try it sometime and she'll probably come to you trying to get some attention.

Yes, somehow by removing your attention, your own value goes up. Because, they want what they can't have, AND they don't even know it!!!

In some ways, the hottest chicks are, NO challenge. The only challenge is keeping my sh!t together, as they do crazy things to my hormones! !!

 

[Julian]

I talked a stripper once who told me if she got tired of a guy she would start "acting crazier an crazier until he leaves". She said she hated having to breakup with someone and this was just the easy way out. I feel alot of girls may do this as well. I asked her what she meant by acting more crazy, she said she would just get mad about the dumbest chit, nothing would ever be good enough,she would cuck her guy by making scenes publically, or just using it as an excuse to drink and get wild and cuck her bf at a restaurant by flirting openly with whoever etc. she said she would disrespect them and eventually the guy will just give up and leave.

i was like damn thats fked up. but just goes to show you never quite know what your dealing with

 

[btownbuck2012]

I talked a stripper once who told me if she got tired of a guy she would start "acting crazier an crazier until he leaves". She said she hated having to breakup with someone and this was just the easy way out. I feel alot of girls may do this as well. I asked her what she meant by acting more crazy, she said she would just get mad about the dumbest chit, nothing would ever be good enough,she would cuck her guy by making scenes publically, or just using it as an excuse to drink and get wild and cuck her bf at a restaurant by flirting openly with whoever etc. she said she would disrespect them and eventually the guy will just give up and leave.

i was like damn thats fked up. but just goes to show you never quite know what your dealing with

I've had female friends tell me similar things. Truly pathetic behavior.