Why do women like psychopaths so much

[Trainwreck]

Just found out my neighbor was beating up his girlfriend and she took the kid and left. I would have never known this was happening because they seemed happy and the guy seemed like a cool dude. The fact that there's so many closet psychopaths in this world because so many women get wet over the Ted Bundy type men scares me.

 

[wifehunter]

Ladies love drama!

Meanwhile, most guys, are dull and boring!

Go BE awesome!!!

 

[Dr. Reed]

It is called evolutionary biology. For nearly 80k years a woman's best chance of survival, and her children's survival were increased if she reproduced with someone who could and would kill anything and everything that posed a threat.

 

[wifehunter]

It is called evolutionary biology. For nearly 80k years a woman's best chance of survival, and her children's survival were increased if she reproduced with someone who could and would kill anything and everything that posed a threat.

Aka someone with balls!!!

 

[ubercat]

Like a lot of members I have been into various martial arts for many years. I had been in hospital on Wednesday and we were walking back to the train station via a couple of streets that had the usual interesting collection of hobos and drug addicts. They weren't back alleys or anything it's just how that Neighborhood is. I have to keep pushing my girlfriend to the right side of me and behind me so I have room to move every time these guys slither past. Now that day I probably couldn't have fought my way out of a wet paper bag. But from the way I was assessing the situation and moving the street life knew to stay clear so the Bluff was working fine. I asked my girlfriend why she was wandering around so obliviously when we are walking through this sketchy area.

She said when I am on my own I'm very careful but when I'm with you I don't need to worry. So you don't have to be a thug to get the thug tingles going.

 

[Dr. Reed]

Humans are not likely to evolve away from this biology. Several studies support this fact.

Back when I was working doors, I would throw some ******* out and I would get about 6 phone numbers. Criminals tried to Rob my wife and son in my driveway while I was home.

Dumb****s never even saw me as I came out of my backyard and nearly killed them. They acted like they never saw an AR-15 before.

Men must never lose track of their ability to defend and protect. Weight train, train in martial arts and train with weapons.

By the way, I am not some bad ass....I am just a frail little old man

 

[greatsnake]

unstable women love the drama.

 

[ubercat]

Wrong all woman love drama. The more stable woman just need less of it. You'll see this many times with a girlfriend when things are going well and she will try to provoke a fight over nothing.

 

[The Duke]

Just found out my neighbor was beating up his girlfriend and she took the kid and left. I would have never known this was happening because they seemed happy and the guy seemed like a cool dude. The fact that there's so many closet psychopaths in this world because so many women get wet over the Ted Bundy type men scares me.

You don't have to be a psychopath to beat some woman. I know a very healthy minded guy who always kept his cool. He got with one girl and she egged him on all the time. Finally he snapped and knocked her down. He couldn't believe he did it and it was the first time he had done anything like that. It was more like the chic was psycho.

Women aren't innocent in these domestic disputes like some like to think. That's pretty white knight captain save a ho thinking.

 

[Milano]

Wrong all woman love drama. The more stable woman just need less of it. You'll see this many times with a girlfriend when things are going well and she will try to provoke a fight over nothing.

Stable is boring, stable means cheating. They NEED to feel the drama at times, you must be able to play their game without letting your emotions get the best of you. This is how they can see if you are tough or not, if you are on your path. Keeping your frame as we say, but ofc drawing the line as well. Nobody said it was gonna be easy though!

If one can choose, being a pshychopath like dexter would be a lot more attractive than being an emotional tampoon. Having control of our emotions makes them so horny, they trust you will act accordingly in a difficult situation. Makes sense

 

[Who Dares Win]

Like a lot of members I have been into various martial arts for many years. I had been in hospital on Wednesday and we were walking back to the train station via a couple of streets that had the usual interesting collection of hobos and drug addicts. They weren't back alleys or anything it's just how that Neighborhood is. I have to keep pushing my girlfriend to the right side of me and behind me so I have room to move every time these guys slither past. Now that day I probably couldn't have fought my way out of a wet paper bag. But from the way I was assessing the situation and moving the street life knew to stay clear so the Bluff was working fine. I asked my girlfriend why she was wandering around so obliviously when we are walking through this sketchy area.

She said when I am on my own I'm very careful but when I'm with you I don't need to worry. So you don't have to be a thug to get the thug tingles going.

I notice the same thing, it happened to me too something similar while I was with 3 girls.

We were basically walking around the central station where illegals and pushers prosper freely, I was instructing them how to move and how to behave.

Then two of them started walking like cvnts toward a group or arabs drinking and shouting loud instead of crossing the street earlier, I grabbed one of them and basically threw her a couple of meters behing me while insulting the second one to follow.

I told them that I surely wasnt having a fight with a crowd of lowlifes for their stupid choices and if I had to, right after I would have beaten the hell out of them.

Not sure if its drama seeking or genuine stupidity toward threaths that they are not mentally equipped to evaluate.

Anyway the more I deal with women the more tolerant I become toward those abusive husbands, most of them are scum while others are mentally sabotaged from their wifes to become it.

 

[Tenacity]

From all of the theories I've seen across the Manosphere, I think my Looks-Personality-Finances theory is by far the best explanation for what's going on out here.

Remember my theory is that you want to be at least a 6 out of 10, in terms of your Looks, Personality, and Finances average to be considered "Attractive" to women. So what this means is that:

- Guy A could be a 3 in Looks, 4 in Personality, and a 10 in Finances, this rounds out to about a "6", which means this guy will be considered attractive to a good chunk of women out in the market. This would be a guy that isn't as physically attractive, doesn't have a good personality/social skill set, but he's PAID. His MONEY is carrying the weight.

- Guy B could be a 8 in Looks, 5 in Personality, and a 4 in Finances, this rounds out to about a "6", which means this guy will be considered attractive to a good chunk of women out in the market. This would be a guy that doesn't have a lot of money or a fancy job, he probably is working class or lower middle class, his personality isn't "bad" per say but it's not "good" either, but he looks VERY good. His Looks will carry the weight.

- Guy C could be a 5 in Looks, 9 in Personality, and a 4 in Finances, this comes to a "6", which means this guy will be considered attractive to a good chunk of women out in the market. This would be a guy that doesn't have a lot of money or a fancy job, he probably is working class or lower middle class, his Looks aren't "bad" per say but they aren't "good" either, but his Personality/Social Skills/Charm carries the weight.

- Guy D could be like Tenacity, which is a 7 in Looks, 6 in Personality, and a 7 in Finances. That's a solid 6.6 which is why I have no issues attracting women in the market.

So when you look at this breakdown, you will have American Women fvcking/dating all TYPES of men, such as:

* Average Joes
* Guys With Money
* Guys Without Money
* Guys With "Game"
* Guys Without "Game"
* Guys Who Look Good
* Guys Who Don't Look As Good
* Thugs, Criminals, Ray Ray, and Pookie
* Steve Urkel, Carlton Banks, and Mark Zuckerberg
* James Bond
* Kevin James
* Investment Bankers, Lawyers, Doctors, Business Professionals
* Losers, Broke Men

There's a variety of theories out there, but I believe my theory more closely matches the reality of the market. I welcome all discussions/debates on this.

 

[Dr. Reed]

You don't have to be a psychopath to beat some woman. I know a very healthy minded guy who always kept his cool. He got with one girl and she egged him on all the time. Finally he snapped and knocked her down. He couldn't believe he did it and it was the first time he had done anything like that. It was more like the chic was psycho.

Women aren't innocent in these domestic disputes like some like to think. That's pretty white knight captain save a ho thinking.

Nonetheless, we never ever rough up women. When a situation like that pops up, we leave.

 

[wifehunter]

Wrong all woman love drama. The more stable woman just need less of it. You'll see this many times with a girlfriend when things are going well and she will try to provoke a fight over nothing.

Anyone who provokes unnecessary conflict/drama gets ghosted. That goes for moms, grandmas, sisters, friends, girlfriends, wives, plates, aunts, cousins, etc.

Bad behavior should never be tolerated.

 

[The Duke]

I don't disagree with you Doc, but that's a whole different story in the heat of the moment.

I'm not giving women or anybody a free pass to run their mouth and get physical with me. That's what escalates the situation. Some deserve what they get.

I've dumped 2 of them on the side of the road for bad behavior and trying to hit me. Figured that was nicer than what I really wanted to do. ;-)

 

[zekko]

So when you look at this breakdown, you will have American Women fvcking/dating all TYPES of men, such as
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I think one of the reasons why a lot of guys find the dating/seduction world so confusing. There are SO many ways in which a guy can be attractive, whereas a man finds a woman attractive based mainly on her looks/body (you can filter from there, but that's where the initial attraction is).

I DON'T think that guys are that appealing physically from a sexual standpoint (I know there are guys here who disagree). Not like women are. That's why men are so much more visual than women are. Men are built primarily for action, women are built primarily for reproduction. As such, men are judged along a much wider spectrum than women are.

Women like a man who is capable of violence and protecting them, but they don't want the guy to turn it on them, they don't want to be hit (unless they're damaged).

 

[3agle 3yes]

I think one of the reasons why a lot of guys find the dating/seduction world so confusing. There are SO many ways in which a guy can be attractive, whereas a man finds a woman attractive based mainly on her looks/body (you can filter from there, but that's where the initial attraction is).

I DON'T think that guys are that appealing physically from a sexual standpoint (I know there are guys here who disagree). Not like women are. That's why men are so much more visual than women are. Men are built primarily for action, women are built primarily for reproduction. As such, men are judged along a much wider spectrum than women are.

Women like a man who is capable of violence and protecting them, but they don't want the guy to turn it on them, they don't want to be hit (unless they're damaged).

Yep, title of the thread should be "why do SOME women like psychopaths so much".

Trying to figure out what women find attractive is 'boy thinking', a man goes after what he finds attractive (without compromising) and bends women to his will, after all women are receptive and reactive by nature.

 

[Dr. Reed]

I don't disagree with you Doc, but that's a whole different story in the heat of the moment.

I'm not giving women or anybody a free pass to run their mouth and get physical with me. That's what escalates the situation. Some deserve what they get.

I've dumped 2 of them on the side of the road for bad behavior and trying to hit me. Figured that was nicer than what I really wanted to do. ;-)

If a woman hit you then you are 100% right to dump them out of the road. Any kind of violence means the relationship is over.

 

[Urbanyst]

From all of the theories I've seen across the Manosphere, I think my Looks-Personality-Finances theory is by far the best explanation for what's going on out here.

Remember my theory is that you want to be at least a 6 out of 10, in terms of your Looks, Personality, and Finances average to be considered "Attractive" to women. So what this means is that:

- Guy A could be a 3 in Looks, 4 in Personality, and a 10 in Finances, this rounds out to about a "6", which means this guy will be considered attractive to a good chunk of women out in the market. This would be a guy that isn't as physically attractive, doesn't have a good personality/social skill set, but he's PAID. His MONEY is carrying the weight.

- Guy B could be a 8 in Looks, 5 in Personality, and a 4 in Finances, this rounds out to about a "6", which means this guy will be considered attractive to a good chunk of women out in the market. This would be a guy that doesn't have a lot of money or a fancy job, he probably is working class or lower middle class, his personality isn't "bad" per say but it's not "good" either, but he looks VERY good. His Looks will carry the weight.

- Guy C could be a 5 in Looks, 9 in Personality, and a 4 in Finances, this comes to a "6", which means this guy will be considered attractive to a good chunk of women out in the market. This would be a guy that doesn't have a lot of money or a fancy job, he probably is working class or lower middle class, his Looks aren't "bad" per say but they aren't "good" either, but his Personality/Social Skills/Charm carries the weight.

- Guy D could be like Tenacity, which is a 7 in Looks, 6 in Personality, and a 7 in Finances. That's a solid 6.6 which is why I have no issues attracting women in the market.

So when you look at this breakdown, you will have American Women fvcking/dating all TYPES of men, such as:

* Average Joes
* Guys With Money
* Guys Without Money
* Guys With "Game"
* Guys Without "Game"
* Guys Who Look Good
* Guys Who Don't Look As Good
* Thugs, Criminals, Ray Ray, and Pookie
* Steve Urkel, Carlton Banks, and Mark Zuckerberg
* James Bond
* Kevin James
* Investment Bankers, Lawyers, Doctors, Business Professionals
* Losers, Broke Men

There's a variety of theories out there, but I believe my theory more closely matches the reality of the market. I welcome all discussions/debates on this.

I think this is pretty accurate.

What makes a man attractive is very closely tied to the type of image a woman wants to show the world. Its also tied to her needs and her goals at the time. Women looking for security and resources will be drawn to different men than women who are looking for social image or adventure.

I think both women and men choose partners the same way they choose cars. Men are simple. We go for the looks, features and the performance. Women go for safety, reliability, practicality, status, image, etc. depending on their needs.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

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